angela146
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I had dinner with an older (late fifties) woman friend the other day. She is an Obama supporter and very politically active.
She doesn't want Hillary to win the nomination because it will bring Republicans out of the woodwork to vote against her.
But she said something very interesting: "I don't want her to quit. She has to lose. If she quits, it'll be seen as a sign that woman can't hack it -that we're too accommodating. If there's a conflict, the woman will step aside and let the man have the job in order to 'keep the peace'. "
I wonder how many women of her generation (the second-wave feminists) feel that way. I can understand where they're coming from. Even some of the ones who hate Hillary are glad that she's in the race.
Yes, of course, Hillary wants to win. But even if she knows that she can't win, does she have the option of quitting? Does she feel like she can't quit because it would be a betrayal of the women who went before and it would send the wrong message?
I've been in that situation, where older women - of Hillary's generation - have told me that I can't quit. I can lose, but I can't quit, because I "owe" it to the women who fought for my right to run the race.
When faced with that kind of pressure, I've been able to stand up to it. I don't like feminists telling me what I have to do or can't do. But Hillary remembers the time when women were men's accessories. She may feel that she *does* owe it to them.
There have been times in the campaign where it looked like she might lose, but then there was always a big comeback. There hasn't been a moment when she was handed a resounding defeat.
*If* she looses Pennsylvania or *if* a caucus of the super delegates goes decisively for Obama, maybe she can save face.
Maybe she can't quit the race until or unless she suffers a major defeat.
She doesn't want Hillary to win the nomination because it will bring Republicans out of the woodwork to vote against her.
But she said something very interesting: "I don't want her to quit. She has to lose. If she quits, it'll be seen as a sign that woman can't hack it -that we're too accommodating. If there's a conflict, the woman will step aside and let the man have the job in order to 'keep the peace'. "
I wonder how many women of her generation (the second-wave feminists) feel that way. I can understand where they're coming from. Even some of the ones who hate Hillary are glad that she's in the race.
Yes, of course, Hillary wants to win. But even if she knows that she can't win, does she have the option of quitting? Does she feel like she can't quit because it would be a betrayal of the women who went before and it would send the wrong message?
I've been in that situation, where older women - of Hillary's generation - have told me that I can't quit. I can lose, but I can't quit, because I "owe" it to the women who fought for my right to run the race.
When faced with that kind of pressure, I've been able to stand up to it. I don't like feminists telling me what I have to do or can't do. But Hillary remembers the time when women were men's accessories. She may feel that she *does* owe it to them.
There have been times in the campaign where it looked like she might lose, but then there was always a big comeback. There hasn't been a moment when she was handed a resounding defeat.
*If* she looses Pennsylvania or *if* a caucus of the super delegates goes decisively for Obama, maybe she can save face.
Maybe she can't quit the race until or unless she suffers a major defeat.