Honesty on the Lit boards

It's just a chat, it'll die in time. i really don't understand why it bothers you?

For some its being honest, for others its a pain in the ass... it is just a matter of perspective.

Being honest is hard to take sometimes. This is Lit... a place for fantasy....
 
MY god how long is this going to go on.......better yet why am I here lol:rolleyes:

As long as people want it to go on.

That said...I think threads like these shouldnt be started at all if you can't handle someone playing devil's advocate...even if they are a "moron"... don't invite others to comment if you can't take everyone not being sympathetic... that's all I'm saying. Not a personal slam...just my opinion on these kinds of threads in general.

Devil's advocate and differences of opinions are welcomed, healthy, and the cornerstone of democracy. There is nothing wrong with lacking sympathy, not everyone has the same experiences to draw on and therefore not the same opinions. We are (in theory) all adults here and why not have this type of thread? If all people want from Lit is word games then keep off "these kinds of threads". If people want nothing but wall to wall sex and porn then join c-k and watch red-tube. I happen to enjoy conversation, finding out about people, getting to know the whole person not just the pussy or the cock. Oh and finally, being a moron and just deliberately shit stirring is a GB trait.

It's just a chat, it'll die in time. i really don't understand why it bothers you?

Well said hun!!!
 
For some its being honest, for others its a pain in the ass... it is just a matter of perspective.

Being honest is hard to take sometimes. This is Lit... a place for fantasy....

Fantasy is GOOD! But... what shouldn't be said is that it ISN'T fantasy.... that they "love" you... that you are the only one. That just is taking it a bit too far. Most of the women around here are OK with going along with the fantasy. It's fun... and I respect the men that are up front that is all they want.
 
Fantasy is GOOD! But... what shouldn't be said is that it ISN'T fantasy.... that they "love" you... that you are the only one. That just is taking it a bit too far. Most of the women around here are OK with going along with the fantasy. It's fun... and I respect the men that are up front that is all they want.

So true. Feelings should be first and foremost. So many forget that feelings are at play here just like any other relationship.
 
So true. Feelings should be first and foremost. So many forget that feelings are at play here just like any other relationship.

Play... flirt... have a great time.... just leave the personal feelings out. Let the fantasy run wild. Don't make a woman think she is your "only one" when she would most likely accept just having fun.
 
Play... flirt... have a great time.... just leave the personal feelings out. Let the fantasy run wild. Don't make a woman think she is your "only one" when she would most likely accept just having fun.

Honestly..... hey cutie wanna have fun???
 
and thus the point of the thread has been achieved.

PS Lorena Bobbitt wanted her knife back when you are done, AF. lol

Knife? Who said anything about a knife? :devil:

And YES... that IS the point of the thread. BE HONEST. So... maybe one person wants that one-on-one relationship. Move on, then. Saves everyone a lot of hassle in the long run.
 
Knife? Who said anything about a knife? :devil:

And YES... that IS the point of the thread. BE HONEST. So... maybe one person wants that one-on-one relationship. Move on, then. Saves everyone a lot of hassle in the long run.

Well, that is the point really. There are many beautiful people on Lit. Don't try to fuck all of em cause you can't. Sounds like it makes sense to me.
:kiss: AF.
 
Well, that is the point really. There are many beautiful people on Lit. Don't try to fuck all of em cause you can't. Sounds like it makes sense to me.
:kiss: AF.

:kiss: Thank you, honey.

And... if you do fuck 'em.... just don't fuck 'em over. :rolleyes:
 
:kiss: Thank you, honey.

And... if you do fuck 'em.... just don't fuck 'em over. :rolleyes:

I dont want to fuck them all..... only the women! The only way i would ever fuck them over is over there and over there and over here and over the chair and over the couch and............
 
I dont want to fuck them all..... only the women! The only way i would ever fuck them over is over there and over there and over here and over the chair and over the couch and............

I'm not picky. I like them both equally. ;)
 
I dont want to fuck them all..... only the women! The only way i would ever fuck them over is over there and over there and over here and over the chair and over the couch and............

*goes to get you an energy drink* :D
 
now this is the best post I've ever read on playgroud

I'm not going to tell you your opinion is wrong, but sometimes things happen even when you're not looking for them. And sometimes they are truly wonderful things ...that transcend online and move into RL.

That said...I think threads like these shouldnt be started at all if you can't handle someone playing devil's advocate...even if they are a "moron"... don't invite others to comment if you can't take everyone not being sympathetic... that's all I'm saying. Not a personal slam...just my opinion on these kinds of threads in general.

now this is the best post I've ever read on playground.
 
Getting somewhat back on topic (although I do enjoy the side banter about boobs, don't get me wrong)...

The fact is, there are some people in this world who are VERY good at manipulation. You have to be cognizant of the fact that in an online forum, they have an easier time of being manipulative, because they can present whatever persona they choose to present. The dumb ones get tripped up in their own lies very quickly, which leads others to believe that they have a good BS detector because they spot those incompetent ones. Like any large community, Lit has some VERY smart people who are VERY sociopathic and self-centered...and the reason they keep seducing others (men or women) and getting away with it is because they have LOTS of practice...and lots of targets in this environment.

I don't think the default answer is to believe that everyone here is lying. I think the answer is, trust but verify. In "real life" you'd probably go on a few dates with someone before you decide you can judge that person's character (at least, you would if you're smart)...on Lit, that means engaging in a much LONGER dialogue before you choose to trust someone.

And sometimes, you'll make that choice and you'll find that your trust was misplaced...it's unfortunate, and I wish it didn't happen, but it does.

For those who feel victimized...I hope that you at least appreciate that you are better than the perpetrator and that he really isn't worth your angst or your tears. You've got much better days to look forward to.

SG
 
So here we’ve one sided sympathy and one sided blame game.

So here we’ve one sided sympathy and one sided blame game.
But I'm trying to figure out what could be the possible circumstances that forced the man to act like that.[as I told before I’m not that man]

Day-1 . man meets p/g lady NO.1 that’ve fun time together

Day-2. Lady 1 is too busy with her other buddies so man thinks he should better find someone else, after all he comes online only for company –he is lonely divorced in his real life.

Day-3 man doesn’t find anything, but he keeps posting around in game thread hoping somewhere it’ll come out good result. In the process he ends up having more than 1000 posts. he matures slowly on how to do sweet talk to impress ladies.

Day-4. Man finds lady no.2. She thinks “oh my, this guy is sooooooo active in game thread, means he’s really trustworthy!, [may be she orgasmed looking his post count as ‘1000+’]
So man & lady2 have fun together.

Day-5.lady2 again busy with some other guy [lit is too competitive place] so man is again loney, in the mean time lady1 shows up cause her best buddies haven’t showed up tonight, so she is free. So man & lady1 have fun time together.

Day-6.lady1 again busy, lady2 shows up, again they’ve fun time.
[size=+1]
Sooner or later, man figures out if he wants to stay in company he needs to do all that sweet talk, after all lit. is a pretty competitive place for men to find women. so he ends up telling lies cause he doesn’t want to loose any of the 3, after all he’s never sure whether he will get some company every time he comes online. He wasn’t cheating – he was only creating a buffer stock of online lady friends, so every time he comes online he can be sure he’ll have some company. [/size]


Alright that’s plain dishonesty in someway, but what about these men
1.who keeps sending pm or posts to ladies “hi you’re really beautiful, I loved your pictures, I read your story is was very interesting, your avatar is very cool, I completely agree with you about what you posted on xyz’s thread.” In short most time the hidden message is [I’m too loney, I need some company so I’m sending such sweet talk things all over, sometimes 5 ladies at once, and I don’t care how you look, write, all I need is something with boobs and pussy] I’m sure most of you “honesty conscious” ladies responded back saying “thank you very much”

So when you say ‘honesty’ You need to see all these things too. other wise its just one sided talk.

1.[red] I'm not saying you ladies are bad [/red]
2. if someone is to blame for the dishonesty, then its the real life lonelyness or something that lacks in the real life, that's why people do dishonesty to find some company and buffer stock online on lit board.
 
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