I'm interested in what event(s) made you bi/bicurious. I'm bicurious (although not curious for much longer, I hope!) and it was reading some of the group sex stories (with MM action) on this site that awakened my curiousity. So why do you become bi/bicurious?
Calling all bi/bicurious males and females
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What made me bi? Maybe it was because my first sexual experience was with another boy, an older boy who "let" me suck his cock. My second was with a girl my own age, and though we didn't know the term, we enjoyed our first sixty-nine. I then had a MMF with them, the rest of my life has been a series of sexual events expanding my bi-sexual world. And I have enjoyed every moment.
Which do you prefer? Men, women or both equally?
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I lost my virginity in a threesome with a bicouple in my early 20s (an extraordinary experience that I've turned into a true fable in my story "Screwball Love....").
I met the couple through a swinger magazine called Select in the days before the internet. I was intent on losing my virginity, and if it required me to engage in bi play with a man, that was more than ok. The M-M play was very exciting to the woman, and the occasion just wired me up from the beginning for sex beyond monogamy and straight heterosexuality.
I met the couple through a swinger magazine called Select in the days before the internet. I was intent on losing my virginity, and if it required me to engage in bi play with a man, that was more than ok. The M-M play was very exciting to the woman, and the occasion just wired me up from the beginning for sex beyond monogamy and straight heterosexuality.
I'll have to read your story!
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Asian transexuals. They're a very hot, and slippery slope in my opinion.
That, and a love of uninhibited sexuality. A straight MMF feels too restrained - any touching between the men is avoided, usually. So in reaction to that, I prefer fully bi MMFs (or, better yet, MMFFs). Still working on having my first one, though. I'd want it to be with a woman who was kinky enough to be turned on by guy-on-guy action.
That, and a love of uninhibited sexuality. A straight MMF feels too restrained - any touching between the men is avoided, usually. So in reaction to that, I prefer fully bi MMFs (or, better yet, MMFFs). Still working on having my first one, though. I'd want it to be with a woman who was kinky enough to be turned on by guy-on-guy action.
I can get too philosophical but I am going to attempt to avoid it this time. I will admit that I have been with girls but probably at a time that could be classified as lesbianism because I was way too young.
I'm not really interested in being with women now but there are positions that involve daisy chains I would like to try. The greatest draw to bi/bicurious is to see two men (not on film) go having sex and me having the capability to join.
However, I run into a major speed-bump in that I am too chicken to try MMF MFF or any combo.
I'm not really interested in being with women now but there are positions that involve daisy chains I would like to try. The greatest draw to bi/bicurious is to see two men (not on film) go having sex and me having the capability to join.
However, I run into a major speed-bump in that I am too chicken to try MMF MFF or any combo.
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No event, no why, it's just the way I've been for as long as I can remember.
i have always been atrracted to ladies, and after a terrible relationship i new i wanted to persue women full time. I had a lot of fun and miss it sooooooooo much! I have a greta husband who is a wonderful lover but the feel of a woman's body ontop of yours is the greatest thing in the world....::sigh::
It's a shame that you're letting your fear get in the way of an experience you clearly want. If I hadn't been able to overcome my fear, I wouldn't have discovered my best friend was bicurious and we wouldn't be getting together this weekend for our first time.
It's also a shame because you could be the facilitator for two guys to explore their bicuriousity. I haven't found one woman in 'real' life who is so open-minded although there are some on this forum.
The motto is - Be safe, be brave, be in the middle of a whole load of fun!
Just (bi)curiousity...
Started early
Seduced by a guy at an early age I then switched to women for the next 15 years, until seduced by a guy on a long business trip , and I realised I enjoyed it.
Since then I have had a nunber of experiences with guys, and enjoy both sides of the activity
Seduced by a guy at an early age I then switched to women for the next 15 years, until seduced by a guy on a long business trip , and I realised I enjoyed it.
Since then I have had a nunber of experiences with guys, and enjoy both sides of the activity
Have you brought up the idea of a MFF threesome with your husband?
timmy65 - I was referring to VampGirl's post hence the quote of her post included in my response.
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A friend convinced me to suck his cock in my early teens. Move forward to my mid-40s when sex with my wife pretty much came to a halt and my curiousity about M2M sex came back. I did eventually connect with another guy and ended up wondering why I waited all those years. 
A friend convinced me to suck his cock in my early teens. Move forward to my mid-40s when sex with my wife pretty much came to a halt and my curiousity about M2M sex came back. I did eventually connect with another guy and ended up wondering why I waited all those years.
I'm starting out late with M2M with my first experience due this weekend. I'm 36 and just wondering what I'm missing out on. Wish I'd had a friend back in my teens to convince me to suck his cock.
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Well, good luck and hope that you like it. I know that I found that I loved it when I felt that first load shooting into my mouth.
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There was no one event for me. I have always been attracted to both males and females. I had my first true MM sex when I was about 19. Did not really enjoy that one meeting all that much, but I was still drawn to men.
The issue for me to become comfortable with my sexuality, it took many years. I suppose it was finally letting myself go and enjoy sex and my sexuality that now I really enjoy it. I am thankful that I now concider myself truely BI and I can enjoy sex with my wife and my male lover.
The issue for me to become comfortable with my sexuality, it took many years. I suppose it was finally letting myself go and enjoy sex and my sexuality that now I really enjoy it. I am thankful that I now concider myself truely BI and I can enjoy sex with my wife and my male lover.
Yea i have the only problem we have is that neither one of us wants to share eachother with someone else. We are greedy. But hey its ok i'm not to stressed about it....
but i will admit i really miss a lady in my life
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not sure when it started
I was offered a MFF experience with some good friends of mine, geez 20 years ago, but at the time I was dating someone. (who claimed...it's wasn't his decision) But I thought he was THE ONE, and didn't want to ruin anything with him I turned the experience down. However after he and I broke up There was an incident that I don't thikn either of them knew I knew happened.
We had been together drinking and watching movies. I was tired and was laying on the floor, on my back with my head turned so I could still watch the TV. I was drifting to sleep when they started to talk about me. (in a good way.) So I just relaxed and waited. After a bit one of them began to caress my thighs. Just soft and gentle (obviously they were trying not to wake me up) I tried to stay relaxed and enjoy what they were doing. They eventually went beyond caress my thighs to slowly unzipping my jeans and dabbling in my pussy. Looking back on it now I'm not sure why I didn't just open my eyes and see where the night would have taken us? BUt alas it was wonderful and a fond memory.
But I'm not sure if that is where the desire to be with another woman stems from, but I know its a strong desire, but un that is needs to be left unfulfilled I can still be fully satisfied with my husbands marvelous cock!
I was offered a MFF experience with some good friends of mine, geez 20 years ago, but at the time I was dating someone. (who claimed...it's wasn't his decision) But I thought he was THE ONE, and didn't want to ruin anything with him I turned the experience down. However after he and I broke up There was an incident that I don't thikn either of them knew I knew happened.
We had been together drinking and watching movies. I was tired and was laying on the floor, on my back with my head turned so I could still watch the TV. I was drifting to sleep when they started to talk about me. (in a good way.) So I just relaxed and waited. After a bit one of them began to caress my thighs. Just soft and gentle (obviously they were trying not to wake me up) I tried to stay relaxed and enjoy what they were doing. They eventually went beyond caress my thighs to slowly unzipping my jeans and dabbling in my pussy. Looking back on it now I'm not sure why I didn't just open my eyes and see where the night would have taken us? BUt alas it was wonderful and a fond memory.
But I'm not sure if that is where the desire to be with another woman stems from, but I know its a strong desire, but un that is needs to be left unfulfilled I can still be fully satisfied with my husbands marvelous cock!
When I licking pussy, I often think about cock and when sucking cock, I often think about pussy.
Best of all worlds is to share a pussy with a man or share a cock with a woman.
Sounds ideal!
The best I have enjoyed was a guy, his wife, my wife and I all sucking and licking his cock at the same time and sharing his cum.
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