nipple punishment

[belongingtoSIR]

Sir has been punishing me by binding my nipples when Sir leaves for work in the moringing by tying elastic around my nipples. they have to stay tied until SIR comes home and unties them which is about 6 hours later. they are not tied tightly but just ebough that i know that they are. this has been going on for a week now and SIR told me that they will not be untied tonight. i have told SIR that i am worried that they might be injured but i was told that SIR knows best and no to ask about it again. Should i be worried??? they are not tied to the point that they are in pain just a dull throb and they do not change color there is still some blood flow.

 

[snowbyte]

As a general rule, I don't keep nipple clamps on my pet for anymore than 10-15 minutes. You are right to worry about injury from having your nipples bound like this. There may be something in the Library (http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=266656) that is helpful.

 

[WickedEve]

Do you think he'd go to work with elastic tied around his testicles and not take it off until he got home?

Listen to your body.

If they hurt, take the elastic off during the day and put it back on before he gets home. You can even tell him about it and explain that it was causing a bad pain that could be a sign of damage.

Good luck.

 

[WriterDom]

WickedEve! Nice to see you here!

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What are you going to tell the doctor when your nipples fall off?

 

[EmpressFi]

They dont have to change color or show outward signs of damage for there to be damage. Listen to your body. You might not be cutting off, but you're restricting the bloodflow to tissue for hours. Your Sir ~ is depriving your tissue of oxygen and blood supply for hours. It's just not healthy to deprive tissue of blood supply for hours without a break. You're risking tissue damage/death. Your sir may love the response of your overly sensitive nipples after 6 hours of torture, but surely he doesnt want to risk permanent tissue damage.

 

[Etoile]

Sir has been punishing me by binding my nipples when Sir leaves for work in the moringing by tying elastic around my nipples. they have to stay tied until SIR comes home and unties them which is about 6 hours later. they are not tied tightly but just ebough that i know that they are. this has been going on for a week now and SIR told me that they will not be untied tonight. i have told SIR that i am worried that they might be injured but i was told that SIR knows best and no to ask about it again. Should i be worried??? they are not tied to the point that they are in pain just a dull throb and they do not change color there is still some blood flow.

He's been punishing you this way for a week? What on earth did you do?!

He's leaving ELASTIC on you for six hours at a time? How old is this guy, how experienced is he, do you really think he "knows best"? Not to be a wet blanket, but this post is setting off all kinds of alarm bells, red flags, and various other types of warnings in my head.

 

[WickedEve]

WickedEve! Nice to see you here!

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What are you going to tell the doctor when your nipples fall off?

It's been awhile.
Great AV. Good flogger, good butt, good gracious.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Ok. Boob biology.

Breasts are surrounded by lymph nodes. The lymphatic drainage system produces and transports lymph fluid from tissues to the circulatory system. The lymphatic system is a major part of the immune system.

The main reason that breast cancer is such a risk to women (and men) is because once it reaches the pesky lymphatic system it will transport it all over the place, causing secondaries that are hard to keep track of.

Breast tissue is delicate. Most of it is not muscle or fat but blood vessels, glands for lactation, nerves for the bonding experience that goes with breastfeeding (and playing with your SIR.) None of this is robust enough to spend 6 hrs being throttled by an elastic band. Certainly not every day. Because everything is interconnected, tying off your nipples affects the circulation of the whole breast, everything backs up along the system. This is not good for you on any level.

I'm with Etoile. Punishment should not last days and an experienced Dom would not be risking your health like this. It's foolish to assume that because he's the SIR he knows best. It's like you saying that you know best what will and won't have a damaging effect on his scrotum.

You need to consider whether this guy knows what he's doing. If you explain all this to him and he responds negatively because you're looking out for your health, then in my opinion he's an asshat.

http://www.bocaradiology.com/Procedures/Sentinel_node/Sentinel%20Node1.jpg

 

[happypeekers]

He's been punishing you this way for a week? What on earth did you do?!

He's leaving ELASTIC on you for six hours at a time? How old is this guy, how experienced is he, do you really think he "knows best"? Not to be a wet blanket, but this post is setting off all kinds of alarm bells, red flags, and various other types of warnings in my head.

I totally agree girl

 

[Stegral]

I class myself as inexperienced in the BDSM world so you can ignore my 2 cents..
I would be seriously questioning SIR as to his knowledge on this punishment...
Hell, I would LOVE to know WTF constitutes punishment for a week !!!!!
No Dom/me in my play group punishes His/Her subbie/slave for a week...
I agree with Velvet & Etoile, this raised TONS of flags for me.
Personally sounds like he is severly powertripping & you need to find out if he is willing to listen to you when you have concerns about HOW he is abusing your body. If he refuses to listen to your concerns or belittles your questioning of him I personally would be finding a new Dominant that actually respects your gift of submission.

Personally I think the sensitivity after 15 minutes would begin to diminish as the tissue is dying from restricted blood flow, granted skin is self repairing, but only TO A POINT, then it is too far gone.

ask him to put on a cock ring at LEAST ONE size to small while limp for the time your nipples are tied... see what he says..

I have met a few asshats face to face & have been glad I realized they weren't interested in me & how they could help me grow/learn while in their care, but more what I could give them WITH NO RETURN. Being used isn't my thing but if it is yours I apologize.

D/s is an exchange, if you give it all & get nothing back I do think anyone will soon feel very empty & possibly begin to get resentful.. but that is just MHO...

 

[belongingtoSIR]

thank you all for telling me what i knew already. i did talk to Sir the same night that i posted this and Sir did listen to me and agreed that He had gone over board. together we went to see my dr who assures us that i am ok as long as nothing like this ever happens again. i wont go into why i was being punished but the week long punishment was warnted. i will admit that much. Sir has said that in the future He will think about what he does more closely and that he will listen to me if i tell Him that my body cant take it anymore. thank you all for everything. sorry it took me so long to update everyone.

 

[Etoile]

Thanks for coming back, a lot of the time people just make one post and never return.

That was brave of you to go to the doctor...I don't think most people would have.

I still can't imagine what could have warranted a week-long punishment, but YMMV.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

thank you all for telling me what i knew already. i did talk to Sir the same night that i posted this and Sir did listen to me and agreed that He had gone over board. together we went to see my dr who assures us that i am ok as long as nothing like this ever happens again. i wont go into why i was being punished but the week long punishment was warnted. i will admit that much. Sir has said that in the future He will think about what he does more closely and that he will listen to me if i tell Him that my body cant take it anymore. thank you all for everything. sorry it took me so long to update everyone.

Thank goodness. At least he's responded sensibly to your concerns.

Guess you better start behaving yourself then.

 

[Bill3250]

As a submissive male, I love having my nipples (which are unusually long for a male) bitten by the teeth of alligator clips and then being led about by the chains attached to them. As a female would surely know, the most beautiful of pains is that which stabs through the nipples when the clips are removed. Occasionally when alone and masturbating I will clip my nipples myself, but its much better when a mistress or master does it.

 

[serijules]

Just a few notes....

I've played with the elastic on nipples type thing many times before...using the rubber bands used for braces. I have small nipples. If put around just once, all it does is make them stand out a bit, doesn't restrict blood flow or whatnot. After a few hours though, it really adds heightened sensitivity and makes me very aware of my nipples.

If wrapped around twice, it hurts like hell after a bit. We were always careful when we played at this level, made sure there were safety strings on the bands, that they were not on too long, etc. Never had any lasting damage from it.

I've had punishments that lingered out as well. Been assigned to do something like write lines for a specific time or whatnot over a course of a few days or a week. Those of us that incorporate punishment in our relationships are the only ones that are likely to really understand why this is effective and not "abusive" or "power-tripping" or whatnot.

To each their own, as we are all fond of saying. Just noting that without all the details or having actually tried something yourself, don't be so quick to jump on the "OMGWTF!" bandwagon. I'm glad people jumped in with the warnings about safety and whatnot though, that is always a good thing, but...I dunno, just giving another view on it I guess.

 

[Etoile]

Just a few notes....

I've played with the elastic on nipples type thing many times before...using the rubber bands used for braces. I have small nipples. If put around just once, all it does is make them stand out a bit, doesn't restrict blood flow or whatnot. After a few hours though, it really adds heightened sensitivity and makes me very aware of my nipples.

If wrapped around twice, it hurts like hell after a bit. We were always careful when we played at this level, made sure there were safety strings on the bands, that they were not on too long, etc. Never had any lasting damage from it.

I've had punishments that lingered out as well. Been assigned to do something like write lines for a specific time or whatnot over a course of a few days or a week. Those of us that incorporate punishment in our relationships are the only ones that are likely to really understand why this is effective and not "abusive" or "power-tripping" or whatnot.

To each their own, as we are all fond of saying. Just noting that without all the details or having actually tried something yourself, don't be so quick to jump on the "OMGWTF!" bandwagon. I'm glad people jumped in with the warnings about safety and whatnot though, that is always a good thing, but...I dunno, just giving another view on it I guess.

Thanks for adding the perspective, Serijules - it is always welcome. My response to the OP stems from the way the relationship was described. With so little to go on, none of us can know for sure, but I got the feeling that both participants are new to this and that's why I expressed concern. I'm all for couples choosing their own punishments and interactions, but only if at least one of them knows what they are doing.

 

[ryanslavemaster]

i think you should be worried because you might get injured and might cause permanent damage to you.