The best way to get a women off...beside fucking

[VampGirl]

what do you think is the fastest and best way to get a women off without fucking her brains out???

i'm couious what everyone thinks

 

[Bengal52]

I've noticed that a proper application of fingers can sure get a woman off fast. Tho that might just be skills.

Tho I also have seen toys be used to delightful results.

 

[SweetErika]

It completely depends on the individual woman.

And even then, sometimes one thing, or a combination of things, works better than others and factors such as relaxation, environment, and her mental state (aroused, worried, distracted, focused, current fantasies, etc.) play a huge role.

So, whatever gets a woman off the fastest and/or most enjoyably at any given point is the best way.

It's as simple and hard as that.

 

[MasterSnatch]

Words.

Yes words, knowing what turns them on and speaking of such things while giving them a lustful look...yeah it can be fun to tease them enough that they want to fuck but you are able to drive them to orgasm without even touching them.

 

[vegasladyannie]

I say what is the hurry? I love it when someone takes their time, just enjoy the moment and not worry about the orgasm it will come, and when you figure out what really brings her to orgasm, wow. I have had some mind blowing orgasms and been with another women when she had one too, but never when we were trying for a quickie.

 

[mendingsoul]

I read a book once where the guy had the girl backed against the wall and whispered naughty things to her while grinding against her. The way the arthur wrote this scene was very erotic and the things he said...well...she got off and I damn near did just reading it.

 

[Carnevil9]

Hand her your credit card. That'll get her off faster than anything.

 

[Cathleen]

Words.

Yes words, knowing what turns them on and speaking of such things while giving them a lustful look...yeah it can be fun to tease them enough that they want to fuck but you are able to drive them to orgasm without even touching them.

I agree, never under estimate the power of words and for that matter non-verbal communication like scent, looks etc.

I say what is the hurry? I love it when someone takes their time, just enjoy the moment and not worry about the orgasm it will come, and when you figure out what really brings her to orgasm, wow. I have had some mind blowing orgasms and been with another women when she had one too, but never when we were trying for a quickie.

I say what's the hurry too. Sometimes quick is fun but usually those aren't my best orgasms (though I'd not decline one). Also, orgasming isn't always the best part of the experience; the journey can be as powerful and sometimes better.

I read a book once where the guy had the girl backed against the wall and whispered naughty things to her while grinding against her. The way the arthur wrote this scene was very erotic and the things he said...well...she got off and I damn near did just reading it.

Frottage! It's a beautiful thing.

Hand her your credit card. That'll get her off faster than anything.

Best laugh of the day, thank you, Carnevil.


Fingers are such wonderful appendages.

 

[Bluestreak363]

I'm surprised no one has said "oral sex". I've found that the number one way to get a nervous lover to relax is to lay her down, slide her panties off and give her the tongue-lashing of a lifetime. It's never failed to work for me. In fact, I've only been with a handful of women who come from fucking - most of them come from oral sex, then like to be fucked afterwards.

-R

 

[Guest]

Do housework. Naked.

 

[sexymommy2three]

Do housework. Naked.

LOL I agree!

 

[mynameiskate]

I agree with MasterSnatch. Words, and whisper them in her ear.

 

[Primalex]

what do you think is the fastest and best way to get a women off

This is an oxymoron. The faster it is, the less intense it is.

 

[subwannabe]

I don't think most women would be able to cum simply by "fucking her brains out". I also agree that the fastest way and the best way are probably a contradiction in terms. I like the idea of pushing someone up against the wall and talking dirty to them. That would be erotic.

 

[age_matters]

anybody wants an orgasm cleaning my laundry?

 

[lindahotstuff]

Well, I assumed 'fucking her brains out' applied to a cock, a dildo, a tongue or a finger. I get off on my man talking dirty to me, I can cum without even masturbating as he tells me his dirtiest fantasies. I also get off on him using his tongue on me in many places: behind me k nees; down my spine from neck to the crack of my bum, even licking between my toes and sucking my big toes gets me off. I can cum with him sucking my nipples really hard

 

[shyrebel]

Hand her your credit card. That'll get her off faster than anything.

This guy surely knows how to please his women.

 

[yourheroINfla]

Try this:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

 

[VampGirl]

Hand her your credit card. That'll get her off faster than anything.

perfect answer....


the question was more for me and my husband he works all the time and we rarely have time for blown out sex so a quickie is needed.....alot...and i find myself not enjoying it as much as i used to and just was courious on some tips

thanks all!!

 

[phenomenal]

Tease by touching and licking and kissing for a long time but do not touch the vulva, or clit. That does it good.

 

[onyxvixen]

perfect answer....


the question was more for me and my husband he works all the time and we rarely have time for blown out sex so a quickie is needed.....alot...and i find myself not enjoying it as much as i used to and just was courious on some tips

thanks all!!

If time is a problem, perhaps playing with a vibrator will get you going faster than the gentler sensation of oral sex. Vibrators are not exclusively for flying solo.

 

[EroticScorpio]

Words...I totally agree

Words.

Yes words, knowing what turns them on and speaking of such things while giving them a lustful look...yeah it can be fun to tease them enough that they want to fuck but you are able to drive them to orgasm without even touching them.

I agree with MasterSnatch.....the words that you say and the way you say them make all the difference in the world.

 

[bobsgirl]

No doubt, words. Nothing, nothing is more delicious than hearing naughty, erotic sweet nothings delivered in a low growling whisper. Look into my eyes and tell me precisely what you intend to do...

>sigh< Yes, indeed...

 

[structure]

How about just asking her?

What do you want me to do to you? Do you want me to run my tongue up your neck and nibble on your ear, while my hands wander beneath your clothes? Do you want me to whisper sweet nothings or something more naughty in your ear? Do you want me to slide my hand in your panties or use my tongue or both? Whatever the lady wants, is probably what will get her off the quickest.
And after the quickie, I hope she has time for something longer in duration.

 

[FallenAngelsSlut]

I guess it would be different for different women... but talking and fingers.

Or that one thing the haitachi magic wand? i think is its name Its like a big vibrator that does not go in... I think they bill it as a "shoulder" massager.