Why do nice guys finish "LAST"?

[torchthebitch]

Nice guys don't finish last. They are in a different competition.

Arseholes need the approbation because they are arseholes.

 

[thebig1]

Nah. Let the fuckers deal with it. If you try pleasin' them all, they'll mistake you for a nice guy.

i wouldn't want that now would I, then I would be a whiny baby...lol

 

[thebig1]

Nice guys don't finish last. They are in a different competition.

Arseholes need the approbation because they are arseholes.

I like that view. It is definately a new time. Time for the return of sincere shivalry I say!

 

[MisterEdMe]

As long as he takes care of your needs! Isn't that a bit selfish? Just asking...

Butterscotch can correct me if I'm misinterpreting what she means. I think she is referring to open communication in a relationship of one on one. Give and take. Respecting her both as a woman and an individual; without the man caving in all the time. No so much what he does, but how he does it.

 

[torchthebitch]

I took a few moments to go through the thread. I used to think I was a "nice guy". If this thread is right then I'm not as nice as I thought.

 

[twysted73]

well, I'm not educated man, but i'm not dumb either

Your welcome

*laffs* Sorry...it conjured up images of Tom Hanks in Forrest Gump

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Nice guys don't finish last. They are in a different competition.

Arseholes need the approbation because they are arseholes.

Indeed, they're not in the same competition.

Assholes are in a competition to see who gets the women first.

Nice guys are in the competition for world's best stepdad.

 

[rosco rathbone]

It's true: we have a lot more patience with women being helpless and useless. I myself was posting in that chick's thread about not being able to deal with her psycho ex. A guy would have gotten the back of the GB's hand: man up, you worm.

 

[bluntforcemama]

It's true: we have a lot more patience with women being helpless and useless. I myself was posting in that chick's thread about not being able to deal with her psycho ex. A guy would have gotten the back of the GB's hand: man up, you worm.

Chicks tell other chicks to suck it up. Well, a lot more of us should anyway. We are a gender of enablers.

 

[torchthebitch]

Indeed, they're not in the same competition.

Assholes are in a competition to see who gets the women first.

Nice guys are in the competition for world's best stepdad.

Wrong, but you obviously crave the approbation, so your big head isn't getting enough blood to understand the explanation

 

[thebig1]

*laffs* Sorry...it conjured up images of Tom Hanks in Forrest Gump

Thanks. I'm " a nice guy but not that nice"...lol

 

[Le Jacquelope]

It's true: we have a lot more patience with women being helpless and useless. I myself was posting in that chick's thread about not being able to deal with her psycho ex. A guy would have gotten the back of the GB's hand: man up, you worm.

Exactly.

Guys are expected to have no emotional or romantic baggage. And to be chivalrous and give a woman a shoulder to cry on if she has baggage, and if you tell a woman to stop whining, oh shit on a shingle, you're an insensitive brute now.

 

[Saytur]

You say that as if its a bad thing! Have you ever tried it

dude...

 

[pinkstarfish]

Fixed your post.

Signed,
Grammar Buddy

You failed him.

 

[pinkstarfish]

i have a nice guy.

that is, an actual nice guy. NOT a guy who thinks he's a nice guy and uses that for his victim whine when he gets dumped for being a tosser.

And, dolf is right, yet again...

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Wrong, but you obviously crave the approbation, so your big head isn't getting enough blood to understand the explanation

If I craved approbation, I would agree with you and I would be as harsh and unforgiving of the male gender as humanly possible. But I consistently oppose accepted GB "logic". So your argument has no legs, but I'm sure you won't stand for being contradicted again.

Frankly speaking I don't get why we abandoned the tradition of throwing unfit baby boys off of cliffs to their deaths. There'd be no male whiners in society and the recorded footage alone would provide stroke material to a considerable portion of the fairer sex - particularly Maureen Dowd. </sarcasm>

 

[great lover]

because women are fucking scum-sucking whores, that's why nice guys finish last.

Neat!

 

[Never]

You failed him.

... could you be a bit more specific?

 

[great lover]

I have no idea... but I understand why so many women do keep their feelings quiet, after hearing stories like that.

Fear of social rejection perhaps?

 

[pinkstarfish]

... could you be a bit more specific?

"But, talk don't about the ladies that way unless they ask."

 

[rosco rathbone]

ANyhow, the OP got his euphemism-alert quotation marks wrong. It should read 'nice guys "finish" last.'

 

[torchthebitch]

Chicks tell other chicks to suck it up. Well, a lot more of us should anyway. We are a gender of enablers.

Language mangler

 

[torchthebitch]

If I craved approbation, I would agree with you and I would be as harsh and unforgiving of the male gender as humanly possible. But I consistently oppose accepted GB "logic". So your argument has no legs, but I'm sure you won't stand for being contradicted again.

Frankly speaking I don't get why we abandoned the tradition of throwing unfit baby boys off of cliffs to their deaths. There'd be no male whiners in society and the recorded footage alone would provide stroke material to a considerable portion of the fairer sex - particularly Maureen Dowd. </sarcasm>

*747*

 

[Moanique]

Fear of social rejection perhaps?

Fear of getting their heart thrown in a blender and have the guy push the pulverize button.

 

[Sean]

The thread starter's posts make my eyes bleed.
That is all.