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Why do nice guys finish "LAST"?

why do nice guys finish last

  • Too nice

    Votes: 21 40.4%

  • prefer asshole

    Votes: 12 23.1%

  • too scary

    Votes: 2 3.8%

  • don't know

    Votes: 17 32.7%
  • Total voters
    52
  • Poll closed .
thebig1 said:
Yes, but not always! Its not right either way. Those aren't nice guys, they are posers or whatever you want to call them. The real nice guys that I am referring to are the ones where shivalry still exists. You, the old fashion type stuff. Little things like opening car doors or whatever. i treated women like that and i always got the "your nice and all but, can we be friends" and go back to the losers that treated the opposite.


I'm not whining either I'm just explaining. I just moved on till I found the right one. I'm just defending the guys where its still happening is all
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I do know what you mean... :)

In my case, the nice guy with the flawless manners won. I was very young, had never dated before, I didn't know anything other than candor and trust in my relating to him.
He was tired of the games people play with each other, the women he'd been with before were all jaded, embittered and cynical, he was unhappy.
So he treated me with kindness and respect, and it wasn't long before I was putty in his hand... but he never took advantage of that.
See, I didn't know it back then, but he'd already decided we would be married some day, (though it took him 18 months to propose) and he felt that one does not disrespect or take advantage of one's future wife, so he made sure no rules were broken. Tough rules too: those were my parents rules, lol.

Another thing, which I did not discover until our wedding night, is that nice and ethical and sweet as he is in life, he's an animal in the bedroom, lol, and that contrast keeps the balance.
He cleans up good, but he gets down and dirty like no one else, life is never boring.

So maybe when women say they want a nice guy, the said nice guy needs to remember that a woman might still prefer a beast in the bedroom.
Because seriously...
Try translating perfect, flawless manners in bed and... YAWN, lol.

That's how it's worked for us.:)
 
tortoise said:
So, yeah. The guys in question are asshats. I have to ask, though. Would it be better for your friends if they had kept quiet about their feelings?
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I have no idea... but I understand why so many women do keep their feelings quiet, after hearing stories like that.
 
Moanique said:
I have no idea... but I understand why so many women do keep their feelings quiet, after hearing stories like that.
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Sure, putting yourself out there can be scary. But is it better to keep quiet and find out he's an asshole later rather than sooner? It's a shame that your friends were hurt, but in my book, they're better off. What do they win by keeping quiet about their feelings? A little more time holding onto scum?

I would much rather be alone. But that's just me. I firmly believe that the only way to find someone who is right for me is to be myself, and to be honest with my feelings. If someone doesn't like it, I'm better off without them.

*shrug, smile*

It's an interesting phenomenon. I think you're far more likely to find someone if you're perfectly okay with being alone.
 
marshalt said:
because women are fucking scum-sucking whores, that's why nice guys finish last.
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no. wrong. we are Cum sucking whores. and nice guys would finish first if they would just shove their cocks in our mouths to shut us the fuck up.
 
iluvyou3638 said:
no. wrong. we are Cum sucking whores. and nice guys would finish first if they would just shove their cocks in our mouths to shut us the fuck up.
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Its true there are some women and men that are like that and thrive off of that. but, only a select few. Not, generally
 
thebig1 said:
I was just wondering!!!!

We all have heard the saying, "Nice guys finish last"! But, why is what I'm wondering. I hear alot of women say " why can't I just find a nice guy"! But, when they do they get scared.

I'm just curious. I'm not looking for a nice anything or an asshole either. I'm just curious what the people have to say to this question. Post if you like, PM if you like, it doesn't matter to me either way. I just want to know your opinion.


"Nice guys finish last"
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Cause they're always like..."no I insist, after you"
 
tortoise said:
Sure, putting yourself out there can be scary. But is it better to keep quiet and find out he's an asshole later rather than sooner? It's a shame that your friends were hurt, but in my book, they're better off. What do they win by keeping quiet about their feelings? A little more time holding onto scum?

I would much rather be alone. But that's just me. I firmly believe that the only way to find someone who is right for me is to be myself, and to be honest with my feelings. If someone doesn't like it, I'm better off without them.

*shrug, smile*

It's an interesting phenomenon. I think you're far more likely to find someone if you're perfectly okay with being alone.
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I don't disagree with you but I understand their fear of getting hurt again. I would also prefer to stay alone, hell, I refused to date like all my friends did because the guys were assholes... It took that one to convince me to come out of my shell, I don't regret it one bit.

But just from having been treated unfairly by friends and knowing the pain that causes, I can only imagine what they feel like being treated unfairly by dates or lovers... So I understand.
 
killallhippies said:
because they are a lot of sycophantic psychopaths that are great at faking nice and ruin it for everyone else because most people are too stupid to know the fucking difference.
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Fucken true that, bro... guys faking it, fuck alot of good women up.
 
Thanks for taking...

thebig1 said:
Wow, thats pretty much all I can say thats pretty fuckin deep man! (I almost had to check my math....lol)
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The cerebral rout. You're the only one who seemed able to read (and then understand) what I was saying. Whereas everyone else skipped over the "big worded post" and went for the quick reads.
Nice to know my time isn't wasted.
 
i have a nice guy.

that is, an actual nice guy. NOT a guy who thinks he's a nice guy and uses that for his victim whine when he gets dumped for being a tosser.
 
Why are women allowed to whine about the way men treat them

but guys can't do the same?

(do notice that this question is way too difficult for the angry chivalrymob to even ponder)
 
Le Jacquelope said:
Why are women allowed to whine about the way men treat them

but guys can't do the same?

(do notice that this question is way too difficult for the angry chivalrymob to even ponder)
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lt, there have been plenty of threads where posters have said to a guy "dump the bitch" :rolleyes:
 
renard_ruse said:
This discussion has been held many times. I believe the actual question is "why do women reward jerks and bullies with sex?" I think that is the real question, because it goes to a sense of fundamental unfairness that rubs people the wrong way.
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Good point. It does give an overwhelming false impression.
 
twysted73 said:
The cerebral rout. You're the only one who seemed able to read (and then understand) what I was saying. Whereas everyone else skipped over the "big worded post" and went for the quick reads.
Nice to know my time isn't wasted.
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well, I'm not educated man, but i'm not dumb either

Your welcome
 
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