moods and BDSM

[lk70]

For subs- Do you ever have days where His/Her requests (demands) are annoying rather than appealing? Same requests as made any other time, but today you just don't feel like dealing with it?


For Dom/mmes - can You tell if Your sub just isn't as charmingly cooperative as s/he usually is? that maybe s/he's "going through the motions" rather than being truly concerned with pleasing you?

 

[HottieMama]

For subs- Do you ever have days where His/Her requests (demands) are annoying rather than appealing? Same requests as made any other time, but today you just don't feel like dealing with it?

Yes, i am a human being not a friggin robot. Typically, it's something i talk about and try to work through but there are days when i am just a total brat..at least in my own mind.

 

[h_i_s]

For subs- Do you ever have days where His/Her requests (demands) are annoying rather than appealing? Same requests as made any other time, but today you just don't feel like dealing with it?


For Dom/mmes - can You tell if Your sub just isn't as charmingly cooperative as s/he usually is? that maybe s/he's "going through the motions" rather than being truly concerned with pleasing you?

Yeah. Like I have just been told I have to go to bed. I'm human. I just want to sit and finish my margarita and type all night to Nala and V.

I'm a slave but I'm human... as is He.
No different.. We are all annoying or annoyed at one time or another.

That's just reality even in any very stroing relationship... it just is.

 

[Millificent]

Of course!

 

[EmpressFi]

.... damn duplicate post....

 

[EmpressFi]

ditto what they said...

that reminds me of a blog I read where a woman in a M/s relationship with her husband said she was working on herself to where she could give her PMS to his control so she wouldnt give in to the moodiness.....

 

[lil_slave_rose]

ditto what they said...

that reminds me of a blog I read where a woman in a M/s relationship with her husband said she was working on herself to where she could give her PMS to his control so she wouldnt give in to the moodiness.....

wow uh that sounds....oh i don't know....impossible? lol wouldn't that be nice though!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

For subs- Do you ever have days where His/Her requests (demands) are annoying rather than appealing? Same requests as made any other time, but today you just don't feel like dealing with it?

yes, i have felt that way for a while now. and it's starting to bother me. i know it has ALOT to do with the fact that we just don't have time anymore for anything. he works, i work and our schedules are no where near each other. they are completely different. he goes to work when i'm getting off work and when he's getting off work, i'm in bed. when i'm going to work he's sleeping cause it's like 7:00am his time.

i have felt like a very terrible subbie for a very long time now. He'll tell me to do something and i groan alot of the time and give him reasons why i'm not going to do it. *sighs* i know to alot this will sound like i'm just playing hte part or that i'm topping from the bottom but it seriously is nothing like that i just feel 'blah' about my submission anymore. ok i've gone on enough. i guess the simple answer to your question should have been a quick "yes" .....

 

[EmpressFi]

wow uh that sounds....oh i don't know....impossible? lol wouldn't that be nice though!

Ohh I'm serious.. she honestly thought that if she were a good enough slave, he would control her PMS and therefore leave her to focus on him. I cant remember if it was that blog or one similar to it that forced me to unsubscribe to her blog. I kept ranging from disbelief that she was for real to feeling like a complete failure as a submissive.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Ohh I'm serious.. she honestly thought that if she were a good enough slave, he would control her PMS and therefore leave her to focus on him. I cant remember if it was that blog or one similar to it that forced me to unsubscribe to her blog. I kept ranging from disbelief that she was for real to feeling like a complete failure as a submissive.

like i said, that would be wonderful if it were possible. i mean we can teach ourselves not to give into i guess, but we're human and with PMS it's all about hormones so unless he can control my hormones i don't think it'll happen. i would have unsubscribed too. not that i use PMS as an excuse if i get mouthy or whatever, but He knows when it's that time and knows that it's my hormones talking not necessarily my "sane" self. if that makes sense.

 

[EmpressFi]

like i said, that would be wonderful if it were possible. i mean we can teach ourselves not to give into i guess, but we're human and with PMS it's all about hormones so unless he can control my hormones i don't think it'll happen. i would have unsubscribed too. not that i use PMS as an excuse if i get mouthy or whatever, but He knows when it's that time and knows that it's my hormones talking not necessarily my "sane" self. if that makes sense.

LOL yes.. it makes sense. And no, the LOL was at the memory of one conversation with Master about my mouth during that time... I forget what I said, but it was a short-tempered and smart-assed and when he said something about it, I shot back, "Sorry! I'm PMSing..." Without missing a beat he just said, "already?" I didnt know whether to laugh or scream. Laughter won.

 

[Guest]

For subs- Do you ever have days where His/Her requests (demands) are annoying rather than appealing? Same requests as made any other time, but today you just don't feel like dealing with it?

Short answer: Oh, HAY-ELL yes!

 

[ecstaticsub]

For subs- Do you ever have days where His/Her requests (demands) are annoying rather than appealing? Same requests as made any other time, but today you just don't feel like dealing with it?

Absolutely. I just suck it up and do it anyway. It is usually because the day to day demands of life are getting overwhelming. I have found though that performing his demands actually makes me feel better and better able to deal with the rest of my day.

 

[YourCaptor]

Yes, an unenthusiastic sub is no fun, so make her fun. A spontaneous change in routine might be the solution. Or if the sub is simply having a low energy moment, taking in some rope for that next big tug is also an option.

Defiant and bratty behaviors are probably the top don’t does for the sub. I would recommend honesty, in a nice, subbie fashion. If you are respectful and honest I would bet most doms will be understanding, how they proceed after that I’m not so sure about.

 

[graceanne]

I'm nearly perfect, I never get aggravated and always do everything with grace and all that. I'm never sarcastic, smart assed or anything bad. I'm the very epitome of womanly subby grace.

Wait. It's not opposite day?

 

[h_i_s]

I'm nearly perfect, I never get aggravated and always do everything with grace and all that. I'm never sarcastic, smart assed or anything bad. I'm the very epitome of womanly subby grace.

Wait. It's not opposite day?

Uh oh.
Graceanne ........
Hun.........
Sweetie..........
Step away from the television.
Very very slowly........



Too much Barney or Dora is not always a good thing.
Or was that the last Thomas the choo choo show?
Sesame Street?
Romper Room?

Never mind. That last one will have us BOTH showing our ages.

 

[myinnerslut]

i may just be in a really pissy mood, but i would say that is excatly how i feel now. i have things i need to do before i go to bed and i do not want to do them. i will, of course, but im rather pissed off about having to now.

 

[graceanne]

Uh oh.
Graceanne ........
Hun.........
Sweetie..........
Step away from the television.
Very very slowly........



Too much Barney or Dora is not always a good thing.
Or was that the last Thomas the choo choo show?
Sesame Street?
Romper Room?

Never mind. That last one will have us BOTH showing our ages.

I love you, you love me . . .

Romper Room?

 

[HottieMama]

Romper room was a children's show in the 70's.

 

[graceanne]

Romper room was a children's show in the 70's.

Oh. Was it as retarded as Barney and The Wiggles?

 

[Millificent]

Uh oh.
Graceanne ........
Hun.........
Sweetie..........
Step away from the television.
Very very slowly........



Too much Barney or Dora is not always a good thing.
Or was that the last Thomas the choo choo show?
Sesame Street?
Romper Room?

Never mind. That last one will have us BOTH showing our ages.

I loved Romper Room!

 

[Millificent]

I'm nearly perfect, I never get aggravated and always do everything with grace and all that. I'm never sarcastic, smart assed or anything bad. I'm the very epitome of womanly subby grace.

Wait. It's not opposite day?

LMAO!

 

[h_i_s]

Oh. Was it as retarded as Barney and The Wiggles?

It was FAR worse by any measure of comparison.
The show always started with this dumb theme music and with the host telling her audience, one child's name at a time, that she could see them sitting there watching her as she gazed into her magical handheld mirror.

"I see Thomas, I see Jane, I see Mary, I see Peter, I see John, I see Michael, I see Richard, I see MaryJane and Alice........".

SO many kids with unique names NEVER heard her say their name. I hated that witch.

ETA: Oh.. and she had NOTHING on Kaptain Kangaroo. He was sweet. And Mr. GreenJeans too.. I loved the ping pong balls. And that Hobo dude was mesmerizing.

 

[graceanne]

It was FAR worse by any measure of comparison.
The show always started with this dumb theme music and with the host telling her audience, one child's name at a time, that she could see them sitting there watching her as she gazed into her magical handheld mirror.

"I see Thomas, I see Jane, I see Mary, I see Peter, I see John, I see Michael, I see Richard, I see MaryJane and Alice........".

SO many kids with unique names NEVER heard her say their name. I hated that witch.

LOL I wasn't really allowed to watch TV when I was a kid. I watched Sesame Street at the sitters, but normally I watched soap operas with the sitter.

 

[Homburg]

For subs- Do you ever have days where His/Her requests (demands) are annoying rather than appealing? Same requests as made any other time, but today you just don't feel like dealing with it?


For Dom/mmes - can You tell if Your sub just isn't as charmingly cooperative as s/he usually is? that maybe s/he's "going through the motions" rather than being truly concerned with pleasing you?

Yes, when she's just going through the motions, I can pick up on it. Not all the time, but, yeah, it's not all that inobvious.

The unasked question is whether or not there are days wthen Tops just don't feel Toppy. The answer to that is yes too. And it shows.