Wanting a threesome=mff

[shyandsecret]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we are interested in a threesome. A woman for me, so he can watch, he can play, and we can have fun. The question(s) I have are how do I go by finding a woman who is willing to play and not become attached? It may only be one time or it may be a spontaneous occasion...who knows yet. Any suggestions are welcome.

I am 24, he is 27 and we live in Maryland

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Mistake

why did you post the same thing in 2 different threads?

GLBT Chatter & GLBT Personals


Dont piss off the LIT GODS.....

 

[shyandsecret]

trying to get everyones opinion...didnt think it would matter where i posted

 

[Etoile]

trying to get everyones opinion...didnt think it would matter where i posted

I suppose you missed the "Does your thread belong here" sticky in this forum, then, if you didn't think it would matter.

I would normally move this thread to Personals but since it is already there I'm not sure what to do.

 

[mtdan]

dear shy

Find a woman that you are both attracted to and become freinds... go from there.. make it clear from the start ...

ps.. be careful posting twice... some people here are on a real power trip !!

 

[Etoile]

ps.. be careful posting twice... some people here are on a real power trip !!

What do you think moderators are for? One of our main jobs is keeping threads in their proper locations. Geesh.

 

[petes478]

Lit Gods????

"Quote:
Originally Posted by mtdan
ps.. be careful posting twice... some people here are on a real power trip !! "

Then..."What do you think moderators are for? One of our main jobs is keeping threads in their proper locations. Geesh."

Geesh-indeed! Touchy! Touchy!

Who are these Lit Gods and what is their role on Literotica?

 

[Etoile]

Geesh-indeed! Touchy! Touchy!

Who are these Lit Gods and what is their role on Literotica?

We're called moderators - south_florida_bicur was being facetious. You can see the moderators right on the forum homepage, you will notice that most forums have at least one moderator. We mostly keep threads in their appropriate places, remove spam, and edit posts that contain banned personal information (like e-mail addresses) or illegal content (about underage sex, for example). Literotica is founded on principles of free speech, so we don't remove posts just because we don't like them or because one person is picking on another. This is actually one of the most loosely-moderated forums you will find - I know MANY other forums where the moderators can choose to remove a thread just because they feel like it, or because it is off-topic, or has name-calling, etc.

 

[mtdan]

Sorry

Sorry I did not mean to ruffle anyone.. I was opening my mouth with out knowing what I was talking about.. I am Sorry and i will not do it again.. Dan

 

[south_florida_bicur]

"south_florida_bicur was being facetious" - I cant believe you had to defend me. I thought it was obvious when I posted it.

Moderators are more readers / posters (just like us) then they are moderators. There are basic rules and we all have to follow them.

I've been on other sites where there were no rules and the threads were full of spam and other crap.

If you are not sure of something the moderators are there to help and they do a great job at it.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

This brings up an interesting question, though.
Is this thread so very out of place here?
Certainly, in part it is a personal, but it is also asking for advice.
Hm.
I'd think it would be better in 'the playground'

 

[Etoile]

"south_florida_bicur was being facetious" - I cant believe you had to defend me. I thought it was obvious when I posted it.

Moderators are more readers / posters (just like us) then they are moderators. There are basic rules and we all have to follow them.

I've been on other sites where there were no rules and the threads were full of spam and other crap.

If you are not sure of something the moderators are there to help and they do a great job at it.

Yeah, well, I thought it was obvious too... *sighs*

And thanks for the succinct descriptions of our job.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

This brings up an interesting question, though.
Is this thread so very out of place here?
Certainly, in part it is a personal, but it is also asking for advice.
Hm.
I'd think it would be better in 'the playground'

Vail - i was only asking how come this person posted the same exact thread in 2 different forums. I as a long time visitor found that very rude and was only asking the original poster the question. I didn't make this into a shouting match or anything like that.

So, that being said this will be my last post in this thread!

Etoile: Keep up the great work...

 

[littlebitshe]

If everyone is done arguing and being anal retentive , I'll try to help this poor girl out.

Finding another single female isn't always easy. There are tons of single men out there that are willing to join a two-some, but there aren't as many single females who are looking to hook up with a couple.

You may try SwingLifeStyle.com. There are a lot of couples on the site, but there are also a few single females that want to have some fun. I've had pretty good luck with this site. You can also try AdultFriendFinder.com. I haven't personally tried this site, but there are also single bi females on this site who are looking for a couple to have no strings attached fun.

Also, as some of the others mentioned, the personals might be a good place to find a female. Oh, you may even try CraigsList.com, but I don't know how well this site works. It's worth a shot though!

Good Luck Sweetie!