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[redi2serv]

No strapon play or arse play. Why can't a male sub just want to worship a dominate woman without taking it in the arse? Tongue fetish, oral sex, rimming, watersports, collar and leash, power exchange, Mistress/slave, D/s foot fetish aren't enough? Than throw in houseboy and goumet cook. That is what I can offer. If a Mistress desires to fuck me in the arse that is a turn off. I don't want to be used like a woman but to simply worship one.

 

[Xelebes]

wut wut?

How about going on a dissertation on whether or not there is actually authentic heterosexual dominant women?

 

[shy slave]

Why does this poster sound like Timber wolf before he decided he was a Dom

 

[DVS]

No strapon play or arse play. Why can't a male sub just want to worship a dominate woman without taking it in the arse? Tongue fetish, oral sex, rimming, watersports, collar and leash, power exchange, Mistress/slave, D/s foot fetish aren't enough? Than throw in houseboy and goumet cook. That is what I can offer. If a Mistress desires to fuck me in the arse that is a turn off. I don't want to be used like a woman but to simply worship one.

Well, you must understand...you are to serve the Domme (hence the name redi2serv). That means you are hers to use. If you don't want to be used by her strap-on, you need to find you a Domme who doesn't like strap-ons. That...will be a difficult task. You see...most Dommes I know enjoy being the "thruster", for lack of a better word. So, if you don't like being the "thrustee", you are just going to have to find you a Domme without that thrusting desire.

Good luck in your search.

 

[*curious*]

Thank you for saving me the "this would be why compatiability is important" speech, DVS.

 

[bronntanas]

How sincere is your service if it's limited to only doing what you want to do as opposed to what your Lady wants you to do? I don't like strap-on play very much either, but I'm a sorry sort of sub if I pick and choose the tasks I like. If it really bothers you that much, you need to consider it a hard limit and negotiate it as such. (I do have some hard limits, but I don't add "anything that doesn't personally turn me on" to that list.) Try to communicate your needs to the Lady. The Lady who regularly dominates me know is WAY into strap-on play, and while the idea of receiving is a hell of a turn on (I'm bi, btw) I really didn't like my previous experiences. We talked about why I didn't like it, and made some adjustments otherwise and now, it's pretty cool. I can't come that way, but when it's about mutual pleasure instead of domination, either she does a reach around, or I can use my hand or if I've really knocked her socks off, her girl blows me.

I lost my point there somewhere. I think it was that there's more to sexual service than what gets the sub off.

 

[the captians wench]

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I lost my point there somewhere. I think it was that there's more to sexual service than what gets the sub off.

You mean that's the goal!

And here I've had it backwards this whole time.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Well, you must understand...you are to serve the Domme (hence the name redi2serv). That means you are hers to use. If you don't want to be used by her strap-on, you need to find you a Domme who doesn't like strap-ons. That...will be a difficult task. You see...most Dommes I know enjoy being the "thruster", for lack of a better word. So, if you don't like being the "thrustee", you are just going to have to find you a Domme without that thrusting desire.

Good luck in your search.

I agree with you DVS and M'lady said the same thing to me, she is just starting to train me. But couldn't he put that down as a limit either hard or soft that he doesn't like anal sex.

 

[Temptress_lee]

No strapon play or arse play. Why can't a male sub just want to worship a dominate woman without taking it in the arse? Tongue fetish, oral sex, rimming, watersports, collar and leash, power exchange, Mistress/slave, D/s foot fetish aren't enough? Than throw in houseboy and goumet cook. That is what I can offer. If a Mistress desires to fuck me in the arse that is a turn off. I don't want to be used like a woman but to simply worship one.

Strap on play is a personal preferance. If your not into that then you don't have to do it. There's not just one way to be a male-sub. The strap-on is just one of many ways you can offer yourself to a dominant woman.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

I'm probably not the best Mistress to reply to this, LOL. I like ass play, with someone elses HAHAHAHA, very much.

That said, you could try to set it as a hard limit, but I agree with DVS in that those Mistresses who don't like ass play are few in number.

Moreover, it doesn't necessarily seem to me, from your brief post, that you really want to be/are submissive. Certainly you want to worship at the altar of Venus, but that doesn't mean you are submissive. I'm not a psychologist/chiatrist but wanting to be bossed around doesn't equate submissive in my book.

My subs have started out thinking they were manly men, until I showed them what control really was. Once they understood what I was, for and to them, there was nothing they'd refuse me.

Oh, LOL, one more thing. Might not want to strike up a D/s relationship with someone here, ROFL, now that she has the perfect punishment for you!

Just teasing on the last bit!

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Not sure what M'lady thinks about strap on play, but the only way it would be off the table completely is its a hard limit. When I am talking hard limit here I mean it would have bodily consequences if you did it. The fact I have never done any anal play just means she gets to be my first, I know that pleases her to no end too.

 

[MechaBlade]

No strapon play or arse play. Why can't a male sub just want to worship a dominate woman without taking it in the arse? Tongue fetish, oral sex, rimming, watersports, collar and leash, power exchange, Mistress/slave, D/s foot fetish aren't enough? Than throw in houseboy and goumet cook. That is what I can offer. If a Mistress desires to fuck me in the arse that is a turn off. I don't want to be used like a woman but to simply worship one.

I'm sure they're out there. I can't understand why there are so many male subs that like pegging.

How sincere is your service if it's limited to only doing what you want to do as opposed to what your Lady wants you to do? I don't like strap-on play very much either, but I'm a sorry sort of sub if I pick and choose the tasks I like.

No you're not. Plenty of subs have limits.

 

[snowy ciara]

I think bronn mentioned that he does have limits. But just cause he doesn't like something doesn't mean he's going to add it to his list. (Actually, I know that he does have some limits cause I've seen him, er, in action, as it were.) I'm kind of like that too. I mean, there's stuff that's absolutely a hard limit to me. There are also some acts that I'm not wildly crazy about (like watersports) that for the right person, I will do it. If it thrills my Master or Mistress wildly, nothing that's not on the list is off the table, whether I personally like it or not.

 

[AAkasha]

No strapon play or arse play. Why can't a male sub just want to worship a dominate woman without taking it in the arse? Tongue fetish, oral sex, rimming, watersports, collar and leash, power exchange, Mistress/slave, D/s foot fetish aren't enough? Than throw in houseboy and goumet cook. That is what I can offer. If a Mistress desires to fuck me in the arse that is a turn off. I don't want to be used like a woman but to simply worship one.

You just haven't been introduced to it the right way. Trust me, if you were my slutboy, you'd not only be taking it up the ass, you'd be sucking my strap on cock eagerly and begging for it. I've met lots of guys who resisted the idea for whatever reason; once they were overcome with lust and more open minded, they'd give it a try.

Come on, admit it, the sight of a gorgeous woman sporting a glistening strap on dick turns you on, doesn't it?

Akasha
<I just REALLY feel like seducing a poor innocent slut!>

 

[Etoile]

No strapon play or arse play. Why can't a male sub just want to worship a dominate woman without taking it in the arse? Tongue fetish, oral sex, rimming, watersports, collar and leash, power exchange, Mistress/slave, D/s foot fetish aren't enough? Than throw in houseboy and goumet cook. That is what I can offer. If a Mistress desires to fuck me in the arse that is a turn off. I don't want to be used like a woman but to simply worship one.

This makes me giggle.

 

[smooth-boy]

Come on, admit it, the sight of a gorgeous woman sporting a glistening strap on dick turns you on, doesn't it?

Akasha
<I just REALLY feel like seducing a poor innocent slut!>

It sure turns me on. I'm all for serving my future Mistress in all ways.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

It sure turns me on. I'm all for serving my future Mistress in all ways.

10/10 for effort poppet but there's little to be gained from conversing with long absent posters from 2006. Bumping an old thread with a view to stimulating fresh discussion is one thing but commenting on long dormant posts/threads like this clutters the forum.

Hope you don't mind me saying.

 

[smooth-boy]

Yeah, I read the 2006 as 2009 for some inexplicible reason. My bad.