Masculine cocksucker problems...

[FlirtyWordy]

I don't wonder, if some feel they need to be dressed as a woman then so be it. I find it hard to understand when people use rigid definitions of top and bottom and don't accept anything in between.

I guess you missed “to each his own.” I expressed a thought and wondered aloud. In what sense is that “rigid”? I was clearly talking about my own preferences. And I have zero need to label or judge “top” or “bottom.” I like both!

 

[cdstefi]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

I haven't read the whole thread but my guess is that men who want their cocks sucked but also want to call you a faggot bitch or similar degrading terms or actions are just expressing barely repressed homophobia.

I mean they might just be assholes who'd treat women exactly the same. I steer well clear of their sort anyway. While I know some have a degradation kink and that's fine for them, I really fucking don't. Sex for me is meant to be affirming, fun and friendly.

 

[BiCuriousWriter]

I guess you missed “to each his own.” I expressed a thought and wondered aloud. In what sense is that “rigid”? I was clearly talking about my own preferences. And I have zero need to label or judge “top” or “bottom.” I like both!

Sorry, I was not a clear as you were. I was talking more in general and not as a direct reply to you. Your comment started a train of thought. Sorry for the confusion

 

[JiminNC]

I don’t know. I don’t mind being called a cocksucker…. Even “Good Cocksucker” while I’m kneeling, doing the job I was born to do.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I haven't read the whole thread but my guess is that men who want their cocks sucked but also want to call you a faggot bitch or similar degrading terms or actions are just expressing barely repressed homophobia.

I mean they might just be assholes who'd treat women exactly the same. I steer well clear of their sort anyway. While I know some have a degradation kink and that's fine for them, I really fucking don't. Sex for me is meant to be affirming, fun and friendly.

I haven't read the whole thread but my guess is that men who want their cocks sucked but also want to call you a faggot bitch or similar degrading terms or actions are just expressing barely repressed homophobia.

I mean they might just be assholes who'd treat women exactly the same. I steer well clear of their sort anyway. While I know some have a degradation kink and that's fine for them, I really fucking don't. Sex for me is meant to be affirming, fun and friendly.

Or they are giving us submissive types exactly what we want. For me that is affirming, fun and friendly, and I enjoy it very much.
Most dominant types aren't really assholes at all.

 

[liqueur]

I haven't read the whole thread but my guess is that men who want their cocks sucked but also want to call you a faggot bitch or similar degrading terms or actions are just expressing barely repressed homophobia.

Homophobia, repressed or otherwise, is a sure sign of repressed homophilia. So the one using abusive language in a way that the other person hasn't consented to is really talking to himself, whether he knows it or (probably) not.

I mean they might just be assholes who'd treat women exactly the same. I steer well clear of their sort anyway. While I know some have a degradation kink and that's fine for them, I really fucking don't. Sex for me is meant to be affirming, fun and friendly.

The real issue here is not who has or doesn't have what kink. The issue is one person foisting their kinks on another without consent.

 

[Bossybats]

I am very masculine, I do not want my cock sucked, but do not mind having my body touched or played with.
I have the same problem some others have expressed of not being able to find guys that are that rough with me.

 

[OralAllOver]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

Dude, u complain like a bitch
1) do what u want to do
2) leave if u dont want to tolerate his behavior
3) stop fucking whining

 

[kathyisgr65]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

.y question is..if that's ur normal experience why do u keep going back?
I'm not judging or criticizing..8 just don't understand. Do guys really suck cock that much better?
I'm really not being disrespectful I'm trying to understand

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

.y question is..if that's ur normal experience why do u keep going back?
I'm not judging or criticizing..8 just don't understand. Do guys really suck cock that much better?
I'm really not being disrespectful I'm trying to understand

In my experience, guys do suck cock that much better, as a rule. Now, I've had men try to suck my cock and do a lousy job of it, but in general, a man knows what another man likes. I'm sure there are amazing women cock suckers, but I've never met one. I do agree, though, with your main idea. Maybe, even though he keeps having bad (or at least unsatisfying) experiences, there's always the hope that he'll find what he's looking for if only he keeps trying.

 

[liqueur]

Do guys really suck cock that much better?

I think it's a (slightly misogynistic) myth. I'm in my seventies. I've had a lot of sex in those years. But I've always found it near-impossible to cum from oral sex. I have, though, three times— and two out of those three were with women.

 

[Ndnfun]

Totally understand what you are saying, to me there is nothing strange about a masculine man enjoying cock.
If you enjoy sucking cock, then by all means suck cock there is nothing wrong with it.

 

[bobb_sledd]

Do guys really suck cock that much better?

While not the thread for it, does this work on the same premise that women eat pussy better than men?

 

[kathyisgr65]

While not the thread for it, does this work on the same premise that women eat pussy better than men?

Yes...in my experience..

 

[bobb_sledd]

While not the thread for it, does this work on the same premise that women eat pussy better than men?
While I don't want to derail a good topic, you should start a poll or thread and see what the women have to say (if they will even answer LOL). I have encouraged my wife to get serviced from a woman, but she is not interested. She wants a masculine man only. I frequently perform cunnilingus on her, sometimes multiple times per day and we both love it.

Good idea.
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/ladies-do-women-eat-pussy-better-than-men.1643807/

 

[S1e2t3h]

I only ever meet up with men to suck their cocks, and I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation. I don't see why this should be so strange.

The other thing... and my real complaint... almost all the guys I've met really get off on the idea of degrading me and making me submit... specifically because I'm masculine! I haven't sucked cock in months, because... when I meet men this is usually the kind of thing I get...

The last time, the guy told me I had to sit on my hands the whole time, pinned up against a wall, and then held my head and hate-fucked my throat hard while telling me how good it felt to make me his bitch. The only things he wanted to hear were me begging him to slam my throat or how desperate I was to for his cum... and then had me beg him to face fuck me again with his cum all over my face...

This is kind of my usual experience... I'm sucking cock while a man calls me his slut or whatever, and he forced control over the whole thing... Is this just how this goes for masculine guys who don't want reciprocation?

My problem isn't that I mind being used like this, if I did I wouldn't keep doing it! I enjoy feeling slutty and if I'm in the mood I love having a man act powerfully and use me, face fucking me and making me feel like I am a toy for his pleasure... that whole scenario is a huge turn on, but there are times... a lot of times, really... that I really want to suck cock but don't even look to meet someone because I want to slowly, sensually taste and tease a nice cock...

I'd suck cock A LOT more if I could find men that want me to really enjoy sucking their cock and would just lean back and let me act like the slut they love to tell me I am!!

One time... just once, I hooked up with a guy who wanted to relax and let me make out with his cock... it was so sexy and slutty and... I talked dirty and moaned and... it was the sloppiest and wettest blowjob I can imagine, and... I've never had such an amazing, intense sexual experience!!

It's also the only time I've ever even thought of giving in and putting the possibility of more than a blowjob out there. My ass is always strictly off limits and I made it clear to this guy beforehand when he asked (and he was fine with that), but... I got so turned on and felt so sexy and slutty devouring his dick that I asked if he still wanted my ass. When he said yes, I begged him to fuck me... he started fingering me and my moaning with him in my mouth pushed him over, so it didn't happen, but... that's how amazing being able to really enjoy sucking cock was!! It was so good, so sexy, so slutty... for the only time, I wasn't just willing to let a man fuck my ass for the first time, but I was literally desperate for it and begging him to fuck me bare and breed me!!! I felt so sexy and slutty I wanted him to fuck me like a real slut!!!

Why does being masculine mean I'm not allowed to moan and tease and be sexy while I swallow??? I want so, so badly to have another experience that sexy!! Why can't I find men who want me to really treat their cocks right??

Fuck me! Just reading this has made my cock as stiff as a rod. WTF!

 

[Britva415]

if that's ur normal experience why do u keep going back?

Do you know that that's happening?

I don't think this is about just one guy. Sounds like it's happening over and over with different guys.

idk, maybe you caught something I missed.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Do you know that that's happening?

I don't think this is about just one guy. Sounds like it's happening over and over with different guys.

idk, maybe you caught something I missed.

What do u mean?
And probably not..I'm not very perceptive

 

[Britva415]

Totally understand what you are saying, to me there is nothing strange about a masculine man enjoying cock.
If you enjoy sucking cock, then by all means suck cock there is nothing wrong with it.

idk who you're replying to, but it doesn't seem like you understood OP.

I like sucking dick too but not for some jackass who is putting on the kind of act OP described.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I

I'm in the same boat. So many guys want a sissy, but I'm not that guy.

I know a sissy and he has no trouble finding cock. Just not my thing

 

[jchtlit]

If you would read his post, he plainly said "I'm often told it's really strange that an extremely masculine guy doesn't want any reciprocation". So I guessing the answer to your question is "no".

Simply put! Excellent! Being attracted to cock as well as pussy doe not change my masculinity.

 

[bouncer225]

I have no interest in being degraded, either. I just want the big cock in front of me, preferably me on my knees and him sitting down and scooted toward the edge of the chair so that his (big) balls are also accessible to my mouth and tongue for hours... I wouldn't mind his hand touching my head, or grabbing the back of my neck to "keep me from escaping" when he's ejaculating inside my mouth. Moans and sighs would urge me on, but I'd rather he not say a word - not even to warn me of his impending climax.

What a description....has me leaking.

 

[dingdongditchding]

I've never understood the whole humiliation, degradation thing. If someone is sucking my cock, I'm going to be nice to them and I would expect the same if I were sucking their cock!

I like this statement.

 

[dingdongditchding]

https://www.xnxx.com/video-1bjc7h11/she_can_fuck_him_only_if_i_can_join_in

 

[JoeSmith2022]

I

I know a sissy and he has no trouble finding cock. Just not my thing

Yeah, it's easy if you're a certain type.