Describe your most satisfying oral sex experience

Well, here it goes. I have truly disliked receiving BJ's because for as long as I can remember, I have had a hot spot under the crown of my penis which makes direct stimulation of that area very uncomfortable. I have done my best to cope with the discomfort as several women I have dated truly enjoy giving BJs and I know that I would be very upset if they wouldn't let me give them oral pleasure. (Thankfully I never had discomfort during penetration.) I never climaxed from oral until four months ago.

Somehow, I injured my frenulum and sought medical attention. My doc prescribed a cream which when applied also covered the hotspot adjacent to my frenulum. The cream was effective, and I no longer have that super sensitive spot and incredibly and most thankfully I can truly enjoy receiving BJs to completion. When I had my first BJ to completion, I swear that my soul left my body.

So many thoughts have crossed my mind. I think about prior relationships and how those may have been different because one or two of the gals I dated prided themselves on giving BJs. I think about all the times I felt less than, because I didn't enjoy BJs when nearly every guy in the world lives for them. I am mad at myself for not sharing this issue with a doc before all these decades have passed. So don't let something that isn't normal go without checking it in with a doc, they just might be able to help.
This is a good message, and I think it applies not only to with having the courage to seek medical help to hopefully resolve some issue you may be facing, no matter how small or big, no matter how simple or embarrassing you may think it is.

But, also, to having the courage to approach sensitive topics with your partner, e.g. fantasies you might have and/or experiences you might want to live, because depending on your personal situation they may indeed never materialize, but if you don't ever broach the subject you are by very definition guaranteeing that exact outcome. And, at the end of the day, a lack of communication is absolutely never ever conductive to a productive and fulfilling relationship, and that is especially true on the sexual aspect.
 
This is a good message, and I think it applies not only to with having the courage to seek medical help to hopefully resolve some issue you may be facing, no matter how small or big, no matter how simple or embarrassing you may think it is.

But, also, to having the courage to approach sensitive topics with your partner, e.g. fantasies you might have and/or experiences you might want to live, because depending on your personal situation they may indeed never materialize, but if you don't ever broach the subject you are by very definition guaranteeing that exact outcome. And, at the end of the day, a lack of communication is absolutely never ever conductive to a productive and fulfilling relationship, and that is especially true on the sexual aspect.
Very true, communication is essential. Even if the result of the conversation is not what one would have hoped, at least there is clarity and then one can either accept the conclusion or make changes accordingly. Thx
 
My ex husband gave me my most memorable oral. I’d never been comfortable with oral because my first husband was abusive and critical of everything I did so it was hard for me to relax and let myself go during sex with him. But ex #2 blew my mind from our first kiss on. The first time I rode his face while holding onto the headboard was pure bliss. But it was the mind blowing leg shaking orgasm he gave me one night while going down on me that I’ll never forget ! I’d never had a leg shaking orgasm before and it was so hot 🥵!! Sadly we didn’t stay together much longer and I’ve never had another. I hope to again one day .
 
My ex husband gave me my most memorable oral. I’d never been comfortable with oral because my first husband was abusive and critical of everything I did so it was hard for me to relax and let myself go during sex with him. But ex #2 blew my mind from our first kiss on. The first time I rode his face while holding onto the headboard was pure bliss. But it was the mind blowing leg shaking orgasm he gave me one night while going down on me that I’ll never forget ! I’d never had a leg shaking orgasm before and it was so hot 🥵!! Sadly we didn’t stay together much longer and I’ve never had another. I hope to again one day .
I usually give my wife oral before and after I cum in her. It’s the ‘after’ that usually gives her the leg shaking orgasm every time. Not sure if it’s because she’s so sensitive at that point or the thought of me eating my own cum (and hers), or the fact that I’m so enthusiastic about licking her but it really sets her off.
 
My ex husband gave me my most memorable oral. I’d never been comfortable with oral because my first husband was abusive and critical of everything I did so it was hard for me to relax and let myself go during sex with him. But ex #2 blew my mind from our first kiss on. The first time I rode his face while holding onto the headboard was pure bliss. But it was the mind blowing leg shaking orgasm he gave me one night while going down on me that I’ll never forget ! I’d never had a leg shaking orgasm before and it was so hot 🥵!! Sadly we didn’t stay together much longer and I’ve never had another. I hope to again one day .
Those back arching, leg shaking ones are the best!
 
My ex husband gave me my most memorable oral. I’d never been comfortable with oral because my first husband was abusive and critical of everything I did so it was hard for me to relax and let myself go during sex with him. But ex #2 blew my mind from our first kiss on. The first time I rode his face while holding onto the headboard was pure bliss. But it was the mind blowing leg shaking orgasm he gave me one night while going down on me that I’ll never forget ! I’d never had a leg shaking orgasm before and it was so hot 🥵!! Sadly we didn’t stay together much longer and I’ve never had another. I hope to again one day .
Sounds to me like you should make a trip north. 😈😈😏
 
My ex husband gave me my most memorable oral. I’d never been comfortable with oral because my first husband was abusive and critical of everything I did so it was hard for me to relax and let myself go during sex with him. But ex #2 blew my mind from our first kiss on. The first time I rode his face while holding onto the headboard was pure bliss. But it was the mind blowing leg shaking orgasm he gave me one night while going down on me that I’ll never forget ! I’d never had a leg shaking orgasm before and it was so hot 🥵!! Sadly we didn’t stay together much longer and I’ve never had another. I hope to again one day .

Great post!

Face riding while holding the headboard like you describe is quite underrated. Of course it allows the woman the control to move and position herself as she pleases for maximum stimulation that works for her, but the headboard also gives her stability so there's not as much worry about balance and fatigue. And of course her partner has the easy ability with his hands to roam her torso, breasts and butt for additional stimulation.

One of my favorites as well.
 
My tranny masseuse delivered an incredible head to toe massage on me....Early on massaged my ass in/out....Penetrated me deep with a 7" vibrating dildo that she left in for the whole massage....We evolved into a 69' position where she fingered my PSpot until I exploded....Nothing like feeling your release move through your prostate with just the right amount of pressure applied....It's addicting....LOL...!!
 
Best oral was with my ex wife, she was washing up at the kitchen sink, I came up behind her and started feeling her body. When she responded I turned her around went down on my knees and started licking. It was the first time she received oral standing and also became the first time she squirted!
 
My ex husband gave me my most memorable oral. I’d never been comfortable with oral because my first husband was abusive and critical of everything I did so it was hard for me to relax and let myself go during sex with him. But ex #2 blew my mind from our first kiss on. The first time I rode his face while holding onto the headboard was pure bliss. But it was the mind blowing leg shaking orgasm he gave me one night while going down on me that I’ll never forget ! I’d never had a leg shaking orgasm before and it was so hot 🥵!! Sadly we didn’t stay together much longer and I’ve never had another. I hope to again one day .
As a man who likes to give this kind of pleasure, this is wonderful to read
 
At my first full-time job after college, a coworker and I used to hook-up secretly, and one of the smartest things I ever did was whispering to her one morning that I couldn't wait to taste her pussy that night. Every time we made eye-contact for that entire day she knew what I was thinking. She got off a bit earlier than I did so by the time I got to her apartment she was ready to go. She told me she'd never had such intense orgasms. It was the first time I'd seen a woman fall asleep still moaning.

In terms of receiving, I once did something that made a woman feel very special. I think she decided to do something for me that would make me feel just as special. It was the first truly affectionate blowjob I ever experienced.
 
Hmm…. When I was giving or when I received? 🤔😘🤪
That's my conundrum also. Having a woman swallow me is an amazing, rapturous sensation. But watching her smooth lips descend onto mine... tasting her... watching and feeling her let go... tasting her... reaching up to hold and fondle her breasts... feeling her start to grind... and did I mention tasting her? 🥲
 
I’ve had more blowjobs with so many woman I am blessed. Many were phenomenal. Few were not so much.

There was this mother hands down the queen of BJ’s. Our first meet went from a 2 hour conversation meeting the first time to her sucking my cock like she was a vacuum cleaner. I orgasmed in less than a minute. NEVER felt anything like it. No surprise we were in a relationship for two years. We have so many sex stories during those times that I wouldn’t know to where to begin.

Work off that.
 
My tranny masseuse delivered an incredible head to toe massage on me....Early on massaged my ass in/out....Penetrated me deep with a 7" vibrating dildo that she left in for the whole massage....We evolved into a 69' position where she fingered my PSpot until I exploded....Nothing like feeling your release move through your prostate with just the right amount of pressure applied....It's addicting....LOL...!!
Where oh where is this masseuse?
 
It was a work blowjob back when I managed retail. I worked for a big chain drugstore, and had a night of call offs, so I was going to have to work a closing shift, along with Nikki, my assistant manager, and Jill, a clerk who had to leave an hour before closing. Now Nikki and I got along well, with some flirting between us. So I was in the office talking to a buddy of mine complaining about having to work late and being crabby. He said I needed a few beers to cheer up and I responded the only thing that could cheer me up was a blowjob.

I did not hear Nikki come into the office behind me. The next thing I hear Nikki say, “If you need a blowjob to cheer you up, all you have to do is ask.” I stammered something to my friend and hung up the phone. I apologized to Nikki and told her I didn’t mean it. She smiled and told me the offer was still valid.

So for the rest of the night, Nikki kept teasing me, telling me that after we closed she would be waiting in the breakroom to perform the offered service. I kept playing it off, but she was getting me pretty horny. Nikki is an attractive woman of Vietnamese heritage, who dresses goth style all in black, with piercings and tattoos, and a huge flirt. By the time we closed I was in constant state of arousal.

So after closing out the books I headed back to the break room, to get my lunch bag (that;s my story, and I’m sticking to it) both dreading and eager to find out what might be waiting for me. Sure enough Nikki was sitting in the break room waiting for me. She asks if I’m ready for my ‘cheer me up’ blowjob. I decided to call her bluff and leaned against the counter and said I was ready. She dropped two small pillows from the home section and knelt down in front of me. I upped the ante by unbuckling my belt, confident Nikki would finally say she was just teasing. But instead she took over and unbuttoned my pants and pulled down the zipper. I froze, and she yanked down my pants and underwear. My already hard cock popped out.

She commented on my already being aroused, and took me in her mouth. I knew instantly she was very talented in cocksucking. The way she working her tongue, her pierced tongue, over my cock made me shiver and groan. She chuckled and said she couldn’t believe she had her bosses cock in her mouth. I agreed, I was amazed my cock was in an employees mouth. I just stood there and let her give me a slow sensuous blowjob. She kept bringing me to the tip of an orgasm, then backed off. She was driving me crazy. Finally she bore down and let me explode into her mouth. She expertly drained every drop out of me, when she finished, she took a sip from her water bottle and asked if I was still crabby.

I said no, as she stroked my cock. She said I was still pretty hard, which I was. I was so turned on. She wondered if I had more to give and started sucking me again. I was immediately at her mercy again. Usually after coming, I needed a little downtime to reload, but not tonight. Nikki worked her magic, and had me coming in her mouth again. She took another sip of water and smiled at me. I plopped down in a break room chair, spent after a coming twice. Nikki stood up and hugged me. I knew what I had to do, and started unbuckling her pants. Nikki asked what I was doing, and I replied a blowjob like that needs to be repaid with a good pussy licking, but that is another story.
 
Maybe not “the” most satisfying but I’m still fond of the following experience due to its unexpectedness.

A group of us would often meet on the weekend at a one-room mountain cabin about an hour drive, and 30-min hike, from the Marine Base where we were stationed in southern California. I was often the first to arrive seeing as I did not work on Fridays – some didn’t make it up to the cabin until Saturday morning. I was asked to provide a ride for a female Marine who was new to our friend group who was also able to leave when I was leaving and didn’t have a car of her own.

Having only met her a few times I knew little about her. She wasn’t someone I would normally be attracted to so I wasn’t looking for anything to happen.

Once we hiked in and got the cabin open and started a fire in the fireplace, we settled in each reading material we had brought. It quickly became evident that we were both reading Penthouse Letters. Well after dark we figured no one else was going to make it up until the morning so we turned out the lights and got ready to turn in.

As I was settling in, I felt my blanket move. I rolled over to find her standing over me topless in the waning light of the fireplace. She straight-up said she wanted to give me a blowjob to thank me for giving her a ride to the cabin but she made it clear that we couldn’t have sex. I have to admit, she was quite talented.

When she, and I, were done, she went back her bed. As she was getting into bed she turned to me and said “this is our secret, okay?”.

We never spoke of it again.
 
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