Safe words

[Mistressdunlop]

Did you know? The "safe word" system—like using "red" to stop and "green" to go—was popularized by BDSM communities to ensure everyone feels safe and respected. Consent is the hottest part of the scene!

 

[justanewsub]

Did you know? The "safe word" system—like using "red" to stop and "green" to go—was popularized by BDSM communities to ensure everyone feels safe and respected. Consent is the hottest part of the scene!

The boobs don't hurt either lol! But, I agree!

 

[AG31]

Did you know? The "safe word" system—like using "red" to stop and "green" to go—was popularized by BDSM communities to ensure everyone feels safe and respected. Consent is the hottest part of the scene!

I wish "the scene" would find another word, so "BDSM" could go back to being all encompassing.

 

[DoItAgain1144]

My long distance partner and I introduced "yellow." Basically, "This is okay, I just need a moment." Typically its for reconnection. Like we're feeling emotionally separate, so we pump the breaks on the pleasure. We address what is missing, then carry on where we left off.

Red for us is a hard stop. Fun and games are done for the day usually to give space and safety. Lots of conversation about what got uncomfortable. Interestingly, we've only had to call "red" one time, and it was in discussing something that hit close to home. She and I are both married so it was something that you would think was totally innocuous, but it hit a chord that was a painful memory in one of our marriages. The offended party called "red." We talked. Took a pause. Stayed friends for the day.

I will say that she and I have known each other for a long time. And I'm one of those strange doms that needs to feel deeply emotionally connected to my sub in order for anything to actually progress.

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I am good with direct communication or safe words. If I’m ignoring a “no”it has to be part of a CNC or role play situation that we had previously thoroughly discussed. As much as I enjoy being a little sadistic I would feel terrible if I caused some sort of harm. Physically or mentally.