Do women lie about their number of sexual partners?

[KimberlyG]

I think some do and some don't.
Like what has been said above there is a double standard between men and women. I think many women who were very active would be reluctant to tell their BF or spouse. It could cause problems and/or lead to so many questions.
My husband, for the most part, didn't want to know. he knew I wasn't a virgin when he married me. Also, like Emma said, do you just count PIV or do you count BJ's, etc. My PIV count was low but I gave a lot of BJ's, especially in college.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I looked it up once non-PIV still counts as sex under some definitions. Then there is almost PIV, LOL

 

[KimberlyG]

I looked it up once non-PIV still counts as sex under some definitions. Then there is almost PIV, LOL

That's too much for a girl to keep track of. Lol

 

[Kolejdayz]

That's too much for a girl to keep track of. Lol

Makes me recall one of my first GFs who would let me do anything including almost VIP but technically remained a virgin. She met a much older guy, of course, who took care of her (she told me all about it too -- although I am not sure why) and then realized that she was a slut

 

[KimberlyG]

Makes me recall one of my first GFs who would let me do anything including almost VIP but technically remained a virgin. She met a much older guy, of course, who took care of her (she told me all about it too -- although I am not sure why) and then realized that she was a slut

I had a lot of fun in college and liked to party, but I had to really really like and connect with a guy to do PIV.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I had a lot of fun in college and liked to party, but I had to really really like and connect with a guy to do PIV.

College was when I discovered that older more experienced guys are easier for girls to connect with and I was sad. Then I got older myself and I wasn't sad any more.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Makes me recall one of my first GFs who would let me do anything including almost VIP but technically remained a virgin. She met a much older guy, of course, who took care of her (she told me all about it too -- although I am not sure why) and then realized that she was a slut

Interesting. To me sex is sex. I consider oral more intimate in fact. But everyone has their own notions.

 

[nock]

Lie? No. But I might selectively miscount.

Selectively miscount, that's it: selectively. The topic came up once with my very good friend, a girl, but not my girlfriend. She "forgot" several of the guys she was with - "You forgot F.?" Oh, yes sure, but he doesn't count. And M? He doesn't count either... I found that sweet..

 

[hiker283]

I had a lot of fun in college and liked to party, but I had to really really like and connect with a guy to do PIV.

I only count PIV when considering how many men my wife has been with. However, I don't think she did less stuff with men without ending up having sex with them. Of course, that is after giving up her virginity.

 

[willi1796]

Doesn't it really matter who got fucked by how many people?
The main thing is that it was fun.
I asked my wife and she answered "1." If there were more, I wouldn't care.

 

[Pabiporffor]

We don't lie, we just don't include guys who last less than ten minutes. After all you don't claim you've visited a town just because your train stopped there for a few moments do yo

 

[IARainman]

Uh huh, just like men do the other way...
The old rule of three - If a man says 9 it was just 3. A woman says 2 it was 6....

What if she says 6? Is it really 18 or is it not straight algebra?

 

[hiker283]

What if she says 6? Is it really 18 or is it not straight algebra?

My wife has admitted 12. I really don't think it is much higher than that, if at all. It took a while to get the number out of her.

 

[Polranny25]

I can not speak for all, but my B/F asked me, and I said 3 when the actual number had a zero in it

03 or 30 , which is closer?

 

[lil_pete]

My wife has admitted 12. I really don't think it is much higher than that, if at all. It took a while to get the number out of her.

Not playing devil's advocate... for my mind I'd be more inclined to believe an answer that came straight up.
At the end of the day it doesn't matter.
I wrote my original answer tongue in cheek, by memory it was called the rule of 3 and it applied more to younger guys and girls

 

[Meekly_Anna]

Well, who knows the nations, counts the names?
But honestly, are you all still sane?
If a man has had many partners, he's a stud, but if a woman has done the same, she's a slut?
And all this whining about ‘she had other men!’ So what? At least she knows how to fuck, and if you ask her nicely, she might teach you something.
Just turn the situation around. How many people were you in bed with before you were faithful to her?
And you are faithful, aren't you?

Apart from that, it's nobody's business. I don't think this conversation, ‘Darling, how many blokes did you sleep with before we met?’ ever happens in real life. Why would it?

 

[bunny4med]

Not as much as men. Too high when talking to other men, too low when talking to woman.
It doesn't really matter unless you are their first.

 

[willi1796]

Well, who knows the nations, counts the names?
But honestly, are you all still sane?
If a man has had many partners, he's a stud, but if a woman has done the same, she's a slut?
And all this whining about ‘she had other men!’ So what? At least she knows how to fuck, and if you ask her nicely, she might teach you something.
Just turn the situation around. How many people were you in bed with before you were faithful to her?
And you are faithful, aren't you?

Apart from that, it's nobody's business. I don't think this conversation, ‘Darling, how many blokes did you sleep with before we met?’ ever happens in real life. Why would it?

I completely agree with you, it's completely irrelevant who has slept with how many people.
The main thing is that it works between them and they both enjoy sex.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Well, who knows the nations, counts the names?
But honestly, are you all still sane?
If a man has had many partners, he's a stud, but if a woman has done the same, she's a slut?
And all this whining about ‘she had other men!’ So what? At least she knows how to fuck, and if you ask her nicely, she might teach you something.
Just turn the situation around. How many people were you in bed with before you were faithful to her?
And you are faithful, aren't you?

Apart from that, it's nobody's business. I don't think this conversation, ‘Darling, how many blokes did you sleep with before we met?’ ever happens in real life. Why would it?

Oh it does happen in real life because it's a turn on for some men. One reason being exactly what you said -- it's great when she knows how to fuck

 

[Meekly_Anna]

Oh it does happen in real life because it's a turn on for some men. One reason being exactly what you said -- it's great when she knows how to fuck

Or that they can whine about what a bitch they married.
Probably a huge turn on, too.
If they didn't like it, why marrying her anyway?

 

[Kolejdayz]

Or that they can whine about what a bitch they married.
Probably a huge turn on, too.
If they didn't like it, why marrying her anyway?

Couldn't agree more about why marry them, although my first wife wasn't entirely honest about the number. When she told me it was a huge turn

 

[Meekly_Anna]

Couldn't agree more about why marry them, although my first wife wasn't entirely honest about the number. When she told me it was a huge turn

My reply would have been "Hush now, cariad, it's not for your ears."

 

[Kolejdayz]

Then I would have been disappointed and not excited

 

[Meekly_Anna]

Then I would have been disappointed and not excited

Right then, cariad, if you're set on knowing, come and sit yourself down, put the kettle on, 'cos this is a proper tale you're in for.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Right then, cariad, if you're set on knowing, come and sit yourself down, put the kettle on, 'cos this is a proper tale you're in for.

I always want to know -- my blessing and my curse. I'll be gone flirting for a while, but I can't wait for your story. PM if you care to.