How do men view sluts?

[ChuckWolf]

I've never been judgmental about women's sex drives or looked down at them for having them (excessive or not).

I'll call a woman stuff like "slut" or "whore" as part of role-playing dirty talk, if she's into that, but only then.

Besides being morally-wrong, discouraging and shaming women for their kinks is also very short-sighted; I want them to be fun & creative.

However, I do have a strong disdain for golddiggers/findom-types or anyone that has a mercenary attitude for sex (this does not extend to sex-workers, who are supporting themselves or a family).

 

[liqueur]

However, I do have a strong disdain for golddiggers/findom-types or anyone that has a mercenary attitude for sex (this does not extend to sex-workers, who are supporting themselves or a family).

Most of those you're dismissing are sex workers. The just happen to specialize in a particular kink that some men have. Not a kink I've ever understood— but maybe that's just because I've never had money to throw around on “luxuries.” All the same, the kink is the man's in these cases. The woman is earning a living, like any other sex worker.

 

[Statius]

In my loving relationship, when considered as being a slut, I found it to be exactly what she wants. I know then, that I please her on a greater level than she has ever had before, in and out of bed. Sorry this is a FF thing on a MF thread.

This is an everybody thread. Fuck the title. You're welcome to chime in, as is everyone. It's in topic so it counts.

 

[ChuckWolf]

Most of those you're dismissing are sex workers. The just happen to specialize in a particular kink that some men have. Not a kink I've ever understood— but maybe that's just because I've never had money to throw around on “luxuries.” All the same, the kink is the man's in these cases. The woman is earning a living, like any other sex worker.

I get it, but to me, there is absolutely a definitive line between golddiggers/findom-types and your average stripper/prostitute.

 

[liqueur]

I get it, but to me, there is absolutely a definitive line between golddiggers/findom-types and your average stripper/prostitute.

I guess what I'm suggesting is that the findoms are not there for you (or for me). They're there for the men who actually have that kink. So there's no need to judge them.

 

[ChuckWolf]

I guess what I'm suggesting is that the findoms are not there for you (or for me). They're there for the men who actually have that kink. So there's no need to judge them.

I guess that's one way to look at it.

 

[JordynRose]

This is an everybody thread. Fuck the title. You're welcome to chime in, as is everyone. It's in topic so it counts.

Thank you, I never wish to offend or be burdensome.

 

[Statius]

Thank you, I never wish to offend or be burdensome.

Know what I find burdensome? The hair splitting redic arguments on the site. The idea that if someone is gay or other they can't respond to a 'straight' thread. You're on LitE! Partake, comment anywhere. You have friends here. Just stay out of the political threads, no one is safe there.

 

[Statius]

Thank you, I never wish to offend or be burdensome.

One last comment and I swear I'll leave you alone. It's my opinion one shouldn't have to thank someone for doing the right thing or showing common courtesy or human respect. Okay, I'm done. I think. IDK my ADHD brain will let me know in a day or two.

Peace

 

[JordynRose]

One last comment and I swear I'll leave you alone. It's my opinion one shouldn't have to thank someone for doing the right thing or showing common courtesy or human respect. Okay, I'm done. I think. IDK my ADHD brain will let me know in a day or two.

Peace

We ADHD struggle at times, but never with malice.

Peace my friend.

 

[Bibtmbear1]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

I think everyone needs to be free in their sexual preferences & don’t need to be tied down to one sexual partner for life after marriage. We should be free to explore.

 

[Haida_lee]

I've never been judgmental about women's sex drives or looked down at them for having them (excessive or not).

I'll call a woman stuff like "slut" or "whore" as part of role-playing dirty talk, if she's into that, but only then.

Besides being morally-wrong, discouraging and shaming women for their kinks is also very short-sighted; I want them to be fun & creative.

However, I do have a strong disdain for golddiggers/findom-types or anyone that has a mercenary attitude for sex (this does not extend to sex-workers, who are supporting themselves or a family).

Yes, I personally often hear the word "whore" during sex, and we agreed to use it to create a game during sex. There's a distinct sensation when I receive that nickname (perhaps under normal circumstances, I'd be angry about it). I feel a total surrender at that moment. We call it thematic sex.

 

[Cool88]

I would say every single woman and girl I fucked after my divorce were sluts. I don’t judge and I enjoyed them being one. Most moms and some early 20’s as young as 21.

Yes,must have been some very good slut pussy.In private 1 on 1 with me they can be as slutty as they want to be because I am not telling nobody they would know period. My lips are sealed because pussy and fucking is just to good ro be running your mouth all over the place.

 

[Trimjob69]

Horizontally

 

[MaximTerhune]

I'll say it again!
"The most endearing quality of a slut is she is totally honest, open and gracious!"
Just a fabulous partner!

 

[Whispor]

I have always been attracted to promiscuous women, or sluts, even from the time I was a teen. I adored them. I lusted for them. I never would consider pursuing them, however, due to my own feelings of sexual inadequacy. Nevertheless they were frequently the subject of my masturbatory fantasies.

I suppose my adoration for the slut, which I do NOT consider a derogatory term, stems from my own pursuit of pleasure using erotica and sexual fantasies to have the most pleasurable orgasms when masturbating. There seemed to be an admiration in me for girls/women who sought sexual pleasure as frequently as I did. They just had more options for experiencing real sexual experience than I did or most other men for that matter.

The more "slutty" a woman was, the more I became fascinated by them. Does that make sense to anyone?

 

[ClockworkFox]

I would date a slut.

Sluts don't go on dates. They get taken to a dark alleyway with pallets, boxes and rubbish dogs and tramps have pissed on, they get on their knees like good girls to suck cock, if they're lucky they get to hold up their slutty short skirt to be licked out standing against the wall, then they get banged good and hard against the wall the way sluts like to be fucked, and woe betide them if their mouth spills so much as a drop of warm spunk afterwards. They they trot off home and find hubby snoring on the sofa watching Blankety Blank or some such shite, they sigh, smile and think "God, I'm such a happy little slut it isn't true."

 

[apom]

I think the meaning of the word depends on the people involved and the context. A lot of people think it's my name.

 

[ClockworkFox]

I think the meaning of the word depends on the people involved and the context. A lot of people think it's my name.

Slut means apom, i.e. you? Er ... good girl, in that case. (?)

 

[apom]

Slut means apom, i.e. you? Er ... good girl, in that case. (?)

Something like that.

 

[Volk359]

So, where can I find all these sluts?

 

[liqueur]

The more "slutty" a woman was, the more I became fascinated by them. Does that make sense to anyone?

Absolutely, yes. For my part, the more “slutty” a woman was, the more romantically as well as sexually I was attracted to them.

Given how strong that attraction was, and how early in life it manifested (and that more than a few gave strong signals of interest returned) it's strange that I never succeeded in forming a relationship with any of them.

 

[seekingAlpha]

I absolutely adore and prefer sluts over women who identify themselves as more sexually reserved. I love sex and therefore I want the woman I am with to love sex just as much as I do. In fact, I have always used "slut" as a term of endearment for my subs, and they relished the term just as much as I do.

 

[MamaBitte]

I'm not religous at all. I wish our society's sexual morals weren't so uptight and rigid...
I would have been very happy if my wife had been more of a slut ...
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And I wish I could live out my "male sluttiness" more in real life.

 

[MrMannson]

I have always been very aroused by the mere thought of a slut. I absolutely love the female body and soul and to know that one sleeps around and fucks as many or whomever they want drives me crazy.

It may be because I have been married to the polar opposite of a slut for many years. Prior to that, I was engaged to the definition of a slut. My ex was wild and very promiscuous. My friends knew it and kind of envied me. Unfortunately there are non sexual related side effects at times of being with someone like that, and we broke up.

Nowadays, if I find out someone is a slut or see one being wild and free, I get wild thoughts all over again!