How do men view sluts?

[ChuckWolf]

I've never been judgmental about women's sex drives or looked down at them for having them (excessive or not).

I'll call a woman stuff like "slut" or "whore" as part of role-playing dirty talk, if she's into that, but only then.

Besides being morally-wrong, discouraging and shaming women for their kinks is also very short-sighted; I want them to be fun & creative.

However, I do have a strong disdain for golddiggers/findom-types or anyone that has a mercenary attitude for sex (this does not extend to sex-workers, who are supporting themselves or a family).

 

[liqueur]

However, I do have a strong disdain for golddiggers/findom-types or anyone that has a mercenary attitude for sex (this does not extend to sex-workers, who are supporting themselves or a family).

Most of those you're dismissing are sex workers. The just happen to specialize in a particular kink that some men have. Not a kink I've ever understood— but maybe that's just because I've never had money to throw around on “luxuries.” All the same, the kink is the man's in these cases. The woman is earning a living, like any other sex worker.

 

[Statius]

In my loving relationship, when considered as being a slut, I found it to be exactly what she wants. I know then, that I please her on a greater level than she has ever had before, in and out of bed. Sorry this is a FF thing on a MF thread.

This is an everybody thread. Fuck the title. You're welcome to chime in, as is everyone. It's in topic so it counts.

 

[ChuckWolf]

Most of those you're dismissing are sex workers. The just happen to specialize in a particular kink that some men have. Not a kink I've ever understood— but maybe that's just because I've never had money to throw around on “luxuries.” All the same, the kink is the man's in these cases. The woman is earning a living, like any other sex worker.

I get it, but to me, there is absolutely a definitive line between golddiggers/findom-types and your average stripper/prostitute.

 

[liqueur]

I get it, but to me, there is absolutely a definitive line between golddiggers/findom-types and your average stripper/prostitute.

I guess what I'm suggesting is that the findoms are not there for you (or for me). They're there for the men who actually have that kink. So there's no need to judge them.

 

[ChuckWolf]

I guess what I'm suggesting is that the findoms are not there for you (or for me). They're there for the men who actually have that kink. So there's no need to judge them.

I guess that's one way to look at it.

 

[JordynRose]

This is an everybody thread. Fuck the title. You're welcome to chime in, as is everyone. It's in topic so it counts.

Thank you, I never wish to offend or be burdensome.

 

[Statius]

Thank you, I never wish to offend or be burdensome.

Know what I find burdensome? The hair splitting redic arguments on the site. The idea that if someone is gay or other they can't respond to a 'straight' thread. You're on LitE! Partake, comment anywhere. You have friends here. Just stay out of the political threads, no one is safe there.

 

[Statius]

Thank you, I never wish to offend or be burdensome.

One last comment and I swear I'll leave you alone. It's my opinion one shouldn't have to thank someone for doing the right thing or showing common courtesy or human respect. Okay, I'm done. I think. IDK my ADHD brain will let me know in a day or two.

Peace

 

[JordynRose]

One last comment and I swear I'll leave you alone. It's my opinion one shouldn't have to thank someone for doing the right thing or showing common courtesy or human respect. Okay, I'm done. I think. IDK my ADHD brain will let me know in a day or two.

Peace

We ADHD struggle at times, but never with malice.

Peace my friend.

 

[Bibtmbear1]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

I think everyone needs to be free in their sexual preferences & don’t need to be tied down to one sexual partner for life after marriage. We should be free to explore.

 

[Haida_lee]

I've never been judgmental about women's sex drives or looked down at them for having them (excessive or not).

I'll call a woman stuff like "slut" or "whore" as part of role-playing dirty talk, if she's into that, but only then.

Besides being morally-wrong, discouraging and shaming women for their kinks is also very short-sighted; I want them to be fun & creative.

However, I do have a strong disdain for golddiggers/findom-types or anyone that has a mercenary attitude for sex (this does not extend to sex-workers, who are supporting themselves or a family).

Yes, I personally often hear the word "whore" during sex, and we agreed to use it to create a game during sex. There's a distinct sensation when I receive that nickname (perhaps under normal circumstances, I'd be angry about it). I feel a total surrender at that moment. We call it thematic sex.