Small Penis Humiliation

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Its nit hiw big it is, its what you do with it

You might be missing the point of the thread.

 

[NancyPan]

Its nit hiw big it is, its what you do with it

Only in your fantasies… They’ve just been too kind or shy to tell you the truth.

 

[dingdongditchding]

I want a sexy woman to invite me into her bed (with her husband) and I want to suck him off in front of her.

 

[SmallHubby7897]

I'm a cuck very into small penis humiliation.

Before my wife became a hotwife she never directly said that I have a small penis even though she thought so

Before me, my wife had only one man who wasn't much bigger than me.

She had her first big cock around two years after we got married when she cheated on me with her boss at the time.
He was much bigger than me
She told me that when she saw it for the first time she didn't even know what to do.
It was the first time she felt pain when being fucked,

Not only because she felt her pussy being stretched but also because it was the first time that a cock bottomed out her pussy, she could feel his cock hitting her cervix with each thrust.

Considering she continued to fuck him and since becoming a hotwife all the bulls she has been well endowed

I can safely say that she has loved big cocks ever since,since she openly admits now to being a size queen

 

[Naughtyboy1999]

How small is small compared to tiny or average?

 

[NancyPan]

https://www.google.com/search?q=res...7WaMhIrTAnM&vssid=_gXC_aM61EIDtptQP79askAk_40

 

[9to5]

https://www.google.com/search?q=res...7WaMhIrTAnM&vssid=_gXC_aM61EIDtptQP79askAk_40

looks like I am average.at 5.6 mark

 

[NancyPan]

looks like I am average.at 5.6 mark

That is correct. You are a gentleman and a scholar. The topic has been well-researched. I am about 1.5 less than average, BUT She has made it clear that She prefers my tongue anyway.

 

[9to5]

That is correct. You are a gentleman and a scholar. The topic has been well-researched. I am about 1.5 less than average, BUT She has made it clear that She prefers my tongue anyway.

its whatever works best for her. for me its using the wand on her and not my cock

 

[policywank]

I'm a cuck very into small penis humiliation.

Before my wife became a hotwife she never directly said that I have a small penis even though she thought so

Before me, my wife had only one man who wasn't much bigger than me.

She had her first big cock around two years after we got married when she cheated on me with her boss at the time.
He was much bigger than me
She told me that when she saw it for the first time she didn't even know what to do.
It was the first time she felt pain when being fucked,

Not only because she felt her pussy being stretched but also because it was the first time that a cock bottomed out her pussy, she could feel his cock hitting her cervix with each thrust.

Considering she continued to fuck him and since becoming a hotwife all the bulls she has been well endowed

I can safely say that she has loved big cocks ever since,since she openly admits now to being a size queen

It is not uncommon for a woman to experience some discomfort the first time she gets fucked by a big cock. Men who are less well endowed will often interpret such observations in such a way as to assuage their own insecurities. And yes some women respond to that initial discomfort and never go back.

Obviously there are limits, but the reality is that a woman's body is quite adaptable and with proper stimulation can readily adapt to a larger cock. And once she does she will realize the unique pleasures of being fucked by a big dick. Of course it is just one of many sexual experiences, but one that she will want to keep going back to.

 

[NancyPan]

It is not uncommon for a woman to experience some discomfort the first time she gets fucked by a big cock. Men who are less well endowed will often interpret such observations in such a way as to assuage their own insecurities. And yes some women respond to that initial discomfort and never go back.

Obviously there are limits, but the reality is that a woman's body is quite adaptable and with proper stimulation can readily adapt to a larger cock. And once she does she will realize the unique pleasures of being fucked by a big dick. Of course it is just one of many sexual experiences, but one that she will want to keep going back to.

Why does knowing that you enjoy the “unique pleasures of being fucked by a big dick” cause me to admire you even more while reinforcing my own sexual inadequacy? It’s a rhetorical question — you and I both know the answer, so you don’t need to answer, but you can put it in print if you’d like.

 

[amigayorbi]

Hi I have been looking to chat about this.

Quite small when soft and about 5 or so when fully hard.

I guess it’s a racial thing too - average size?

 

[policywank]

Why does knowing that you enjoy the “unique pleasures of being fucked by a big dick” cause me to admire you even more while reinforcing my own sexual inadequacy? It’s a rhetorical question — you and I both know the answer, so you don’t need to answer, but you can put it in print if you’d like.

Men have become so committed to the narrative that size doesn't matter that they have co-opted women into perpetuating that narrative. Men's ability to punish women for not telling them what they want to hear has been substantially mitigated over time. So, now men seek to achieve that result by being insufferable towards any woman that doesn't tell them what they want to hear.

Are all women who say size doesn't matter lying? No. We all have different preferences. But the one common experience we have is that the path of least resistance is to cater to male insecurities. To do otherwise is at best as hassle and at worst dangerous. So, we all (or most of us) say size doesn't matter whether we feel that way or not. There are two exceptions. One is if we are looking to cut a man down - usually as retaliation but there some women who are just mean. And the other is if we are talking one-on-one to a guy that has a big dick that we want to fuck. Then those of us that do prefer larger will say so enthusiastically and discretely.

This claim that size doesn't matter is sort of the active version of not complaining. I am referring to the dudes who think they must be awesome or at least adequate because "they've never had any complaints". That isn't the way it works. If the sex is bad we just don't come back for more. Being forthright about it would achieve nothing except us having to deal with an insecure vindictive little boy.

It is largely because of these dynamics that guys keep coming back to this question. Men want to believe what they have been told, but deep down they know they have created the conditions to compel us to tell them what they want to hear, so they can't really ever accept it.

It is a small group of men like you who have been compelled to embrace the truth. It may have been difficult to accept but ultimately doing so has freed you from your delusions and your wife from the obligation to feed them. It is only logical that you would admire the women who finally told you the truth and helped you properly and accurately identify your place in the sexual hierarchy.

 

[lola_plunge]

I love reminding him that he is the smallest I’ve had.. xx

You're evil!

 

[NancyPan]

Men have become so committed to the narrative that size doesn't matter that they have co-opted women into perpetuating that narrative. Men's ability to punish women for not telling them what they want to hear has been substantially mitigated over time. So, now men seek to achieve that result by being insufferable towards any woman that doesn't tell them what they want to hear.

Are all women who say size doesn't matter lying? No. We all have different preferences. But the one common experience we have is that the path of least resistance is to cater to male insecurities. To do otherwise is at best as hassle and at worst dangerous. So, we all (or most of us) say size doesn't matter whether we feel that way or not. There are two exceptions. One is if we are looking to cut a man down - usually as retaliation but there some women who are just mean. And the other is if we are talking one-on-one to a guy that has a big dick that we want to fuck. Then those of us that do prefer larger will say so enthusiastically and discretely.

This claim that size doesn't matter is sort of the active version of not complaining. I am referring to the dudes who think they must be awesome or at least adequate because "they've never had any complaints". That isn't the way it works. If the sex is bad we just don't come back for more. Being forthright about it would achieve nothing except us having to deal with an insecure vindictive little boy.

It is largely because of these dynamics that guys keep coming back to this question. Men want to believe what they have been told, but deep down they know they have created the conditions to compel us to tell them what they want to hear, so they can't really ever accept it.

It is a small group of men like you who have been compelled to embrace the truth.

I am proud now to be in this group. We are a special minority who truly desire to serve and submit to Women!

It may have been difficult to accept

Especially in the beginning, when my Wife first told me the truth, that my PE frustrated her, that my penis rarely provided orgasms, and that she far preferred her vibrator and my oral worship.

but ultimately doing so has freed you from your delusions and your wife from the obligation to feed them.

Yes, we have both been much happier, and her honesty and my ultimate acceptance laid the groundwork for our FLR.

It is only logical that you would admire the women who finally told you the truth and helped you properly and accurately identify your place in the sexual hierarchy.

True. And you are one of the Women who has helped me understand and accept. Thank you! (I do, though, sometimes still dream about fucking….)

 

[policywank]

I am proud now to be in this group. We are a special minority who truly desire to serve and submit to Women!

Especially in the beginning, when my Wife first told me the truth, that my PE frustrated her, that my penis rarely provided orgasms, and that she far preferred her vibrator and my oral worship.

Yes, we have both been much happier, and her honesty and my ultimate acceptance laid the groundwork for our FLR.

True. And you are one of the Women who has helped me understand and accept. Thank you! (I do, though, sometimes still dream about fucking….)

It is ok to still dream about fucking and maybe even dream of being more of a man than you really are when doing so, if your wife permits it of course (since you are in an FLR). The key is that you must not allow that to facilitate any delusions or alter your behaviour in real life.

When our FLR first began I told my husband that he must not even think of doing anything or regarding himself in a way (including fantasy) that was inconsistent with his reality. Obviously I can't completely control his thoughts, but he is very obedient and readily displays any guilt he may have so I can come close to full control. But once he had fully internalized his place (as I think that you have done) I allowed him more latitude. The interesting thing is that now he says he is less inclined to dream of such things because they lack credibility even in a dream. For him to imagine that he is a vibrant stud is akin to imagining that he can flap his arms and fly - it is too silly and outlandish to give him any pleasure. When he does imagine himself fucking it is with a more realistic take on how it would be and some other twists to make it interesting.

 

[NancyPan]

It is ok to still dream about fucking and maybe even dream of being more of a man than you really are when doing so, if your wife permits it of course (since you are in an FLR). The key is that you must not allow that to facilitate any delusions or alter your behaviour in real life.

I was allowed it often enough early in our marriage that I do recall what it feels like. I just sometimes crave it, but I know that my place is oral worship, and She has no use for “it.”

When our FLR first began I told my husband that he must not even think of doing anything or regarding himself in a way (including fantasy) that was inconsistent with his reality. Obviously I can't completely control his thoughts, but he is very obedient and readily displays any guilt he may have so I can come close to full control. But once he had fully internalized his place (as I think that you have done) I allowed him more latitude. The interesting thing is that now he says he is less inclined to dream of such things because they lack credibility even in a dream. For him to imagine that he is a vibrant stud

I would never, ever imagine this — not even desire it. What I dream about is the feeling of penetration.

is akin to imagining that he can flap his arms and fly - it is too silly and outlandish to give him any pleasure. When he does imagine himself fucking it is with a more realistic take on how it would be and some other twists to make it interesting.

 

[SirSparky]

https://ibb.co/3y6yWhV8

 

[BillyWalrus]

My penis is average sized more or less but I have stopped using it completely and I have never been happier sexually.

My trans girlfriend has a nice big cock and she takes the masculine role in our sex life. I take the feminine role and use my holes to satisfy her. For over six years we have been together and it is so fulfilling to be her bottom. I don't care if I ever fuck anyone ever again!

 

[policywank]

I was allowed it often enough early in our marriage that I do recall what it feels like. I just sometimes crave it, but I know that my place is oral worship, and She has no use for “it.”

I would never, ever imagine this — not even desire it. What I dream about is the feeling of penetration.

For a lot of men sex is about power as much as it is about the physical sensations. That is why ego gets in the way regardless of their sexual status. Being a good Sub does involve expunging that part of the experience to the point that you wouldn't even imagine it as a factor.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

For a lot of men sex is about power as much as it is about the physical sensations. That is why ego gets in the way regardless of their sexual status. Being a good Sub does involve expunging that part of the experience to the point that you wouldn't even imagine it as a factor.

I have never really understood the sex is about power. I have never felt that I was dominating during sex.

 

[policywank]

I have never really understood the sex is about power. I have never felt that I was dominating during sex.

It isn't always a matter of domination.

It can be about control - I don't necessarily mean in the bedroom so much as our inclination to be possessive and therefore control our partner's sexual activities.

And men also are very much caught up in whether they can bring a woman to orgasm. They need to feel as though they have the ability...the power...to bring about her orgasm. The simple reality is that the female orgasm is more complex and elusive than the male orgasm (and can be faked). Accepting that some notable percentage of the time their partner will not orgasm often induces men to feel that they have lost some power and therefore seek to regain it in whatever way.

We also see it in how men perceive female promiscuity. A promiscuous woman is a turn on as long as she is being controlled by a man, but as soon as she gains her own agency and chooses the men she desires she is a bitch that must be controlled because of male jealousies.

Finally, look at porn which is still geared mostly towards men (even though women do watch it). In real life women are the sexual gate keepers and it is men who pursue us. But porn often revolves around switching those roles and having women throw themselves at men appealing to the male audience's desire to be in control because they know they are not.

 

[BillyWalrus]

It isn't always a matter of domination.

It can be about control - I don't necessarily mean in the bedroom so much as our inclination to be possessive and therefore control our partner's sexual activities.

And men also are very much caught up in whether they can bring a woman to orgasm. They need to feel as though they have the ability...the power...to bring about her orgasm. The simple reality is that the female orgasm is more complex and elusive than the male orgasm (and can be faked). Accepting that some notable percentage of the time their partner will not orgasm often induces men to feel that they have lost some power and therefore seek to regain it in whatever way.

We also see it in how men perceive female promiscuity. A promiscuous woman is a turn on as long as she is being controlled by a man, but as soon as she gains her own agency and chooses the men she desires she is a bitch that must be controlled because of male jealousies.

Finally, look at porn which is still geared mostly towards men (even though women do watch it). In real life women are the sexual gate keepers and it is men who pursue us. But porn often revolves around switching those roles and having women throw themselves at men appealing to the male audience's desire to be in control because they know they are not.

Very perceptive comments!

 

[NancyPan]

It isn't always a matter of domination.

It can be about control - I don't necessarily mean in the bedroom so much as our inclination to be possessive and therefore control our partner's sexual activities.

And men also are very much caught up in whether they can bring a woman to orgasm.

I will admit that this remains very important to me. As humiliating as it was for her to tell me that my cock rarely brought her to orgasm, I feel very proud when my oral worship succeeds in an orgasm.

They need to feel as though they have the ability...the power...to bring about her orgasm. The simple reality is that the female orgasm is more complex and elusive than the male orgasm (and can be faked). Accepting that some notable percentage of the time their partner will not orgasm often induces men to feel that they have lost some power and therefore seek to regain it in whatever way.

Giving her the power to decide when or if I am allowed to orgasm significantly changed our relationship.

We also see it in how men perceive female promiscuity. A promiscuous woman is a turn on as long as she is being controlled by a man, but as soon as she gains her own agency and chooses the men she desires she is a bitch that must be controlled because of male jealousies.

Finally, look at porn which is still geared mostly towards men (even though women do watch it). In real life women are the sexual gate keepers and it is men who pursue us. But porn often revolves around switching those roles and having women throw themselves at men appealing to the male audience's desire to be in control because they know they are not.

The world would be a better, safer, and kinder place with more women in positions of authority, IMHO.

 

[policywank]

I will admit that this remains very important to me. As humiliating as it was for her to tell me that my cock rarely brought her to orgasm, I feel very proud when my oral worship succeeds in an orgasm.

Giving her the power to decide when or if I am allowed to orgasm significantly changed our relationship.

The world would be a better, safer, and kinder place with more women in positions of authority, IMHO.

I think that there is a difference between very much wanting to help a woman achieve orgasm (we are partners in achieving our own orgasms) for her pleasure versus doing so to feed the man's ego. The former is all about caring and it is ok to be proud of that. The latter has very little to do with caring and is mostly about the man wanting to have sexual power. In that case the fact that it is not directly about our pleasure significantly reduces the chances that he will succeed because it affects our headspace. It creates a dynamic where our focus shifts from our own pleasure to feeding his ego/delusions - few things turn me off as much as knowing I might need to fake it so his ego doesn't get bruised, which can then become a self-fulfilling thing.

As it relates to women in positions of authority, yes I think there should be more. But it isn't necessarily because we are anymore qualified to be in authority. I just think that we have to open our eyes to the fact that gender isn't a particularly good indicator of leadership ability. If we took a more balanced approach and looked at the characteristics that make for good leadership without giving preference to men or traditionally glorified male traits the result would be more women in positions of authority.

"Equality" has been an objective for a few decades now as women seek to be released from the oppression of the patriarchy. But to my mind that doesn't necessarily mean that the partners in a marriage always have to be equal in authority with everything decided by consensus. Many couples work better when one partner takes the lead. In that context, I think that equality means that either partner can take the lead rather than the lead role being established by gender.

In the sexual realm we are usually in the lead anyway, whether or not the men recognize it. That is magnified for you fellas that are lacking in endowment - as much because of your own psychology and the emphasis that you put on it as anything else. That is, IMO, part of why an FLR is so suitable for you.