Ladies, your virginity

[UtilityCurve]

I'm getting on in years and the number of new partners I will ever have are less than a handful, but one recollection across all those more fruitful times is that no girl/woman ever remembered her first time fondly.

If I were able to fix anything about the future, it would be a hard choice between relieving a woman's labor at birth and making the surrender of her virginity beautiful.

 

[Pabiporffor]

Can't agree there. True many girls first time were a disaster but I've chatter with enough to know for many it was a magical time.

 

[hiker283]

My wife's first time was great for her and made her want more. Unfortunately, it was not with me.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife's first time happened when she lost a game of strip poker and had to spread her legs for a neighbor boy. It was not fun for her.

 

[Nenavidimto]

That is a challenging thought - my wife’s first time was “forced” by a college student when she was wrongly at a college party while much younger. While I would want to take away what happened and her following trauma. She readily admits it made her stronger, smarter and shaped her sexuality which I find extremely perfect.

Also, I’d add that she believes the pain of child birth was part of what bound her to each child.

I’m thinking we just try to make all experiences better in the moment by helping woman feel more confident every other day in life.

 

[LusciousLili]

My first time was fine but it was just one time of many. Virginity is a human construct and I think people place way too much value in it.

 

[Kolejdayz]

My first time was fine but it was just one time of many. Virginity is a human construct and I think people place way too much value in it.

Some put more emphasis on experience

 

[OneEyedSteve]

Let's be honest. Most guys first time was crap. Over too soon and no idea what we were doing when we were at it. Unless a young woman lost hers to an older guy with some experience, that would have been their experience too

 

[bobb_sledd]

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/that-first-time.1640564/

 

[Kolejdayz]

Let's be honest. Most guys first time was crap. Over too soon and no idea what we were doing when we were at it. Unless a young woman lost hers to an older guy with some experience, that would have been their experience too

Early on -- when we were both virgins -- my GF would let me do everything but actually fuck her. She said she was saving herself for an older more experienced guy. And that's exactly what she did

 

[apom]

I'm getting on in years and the number of new partners I will ever have are less than a handful, but one recollection across all those more fruitful times is that no girl/woman ever remembered her first time fondly.

If I were able to fix anything about the future, it would be a hard choice between relieving a woman's labor at birth and making the surrender of her virginity beautiful.

It was a mix for me, a brutal memory and one of the most amazing experiences of my life.