Is Romance Important to You or Is it All About the sex?

After 33 years married, our romance is just being good to one another. It's having a nice date night followed by some making out on the couch. When the clothes come off though it's just animal sex. "MAKE ME CUM!"
 
All of my sex is with my wife, and romance is always part of it. In the past, she had sex with others and it was just sex for fun, no romance at all.
 
minimum romance to stat. after whisky and tipsy it is hard rough variety work till tired and down.
 
I love romance. But sometimes even without, there is a crazy electricity between two people. That beautiful sexual tension.

When I first came to Lit, and indeed two similar boards beforehand, I was desperate to find respite from an inescapable home situation. So there was a lot of online sex. But even though that was amazing. It’s no comparison to having that person actually in your arms.

So although I’ve not completely lost interest in online Lit sex, I actually find myself preferring an interesting chat! What is wrong with me? 🤣

Oh! Another thing re the romance or sex dynamic. Intelligence is so damned sexy!
It may through the equation even more out of kilter 😁
 
As a virgin, romance is totally worth it. I haven’t had any sexual encounters without there being romance or love there.

Unless I’m watching porn. Then it’s just rough and lust and yummy.
 
After 33 years married, our romance is just being good to one another. It's having a nice date night followed by some making out on the couch. When the clothes come off though it's just animal sex. "MAKE ME CUM!"
After 47 years it's tough throwing the romance in there like the old days. She's horny we fuck I'm horny we fuck. The fucking is fine just like it always has been, but the lust has left the building. Sex is sex feels god damn good.
 
You know I did hook ups and had a fwb, but I want the romance with the passion. Where we are connected mentally, emotionally, spiritually (doesnt gotta believe in what I do but is open to let me be me) and physically. 😮‍💨 And this is why I’m single. 😅
 
I can’t have sex without romance. Heck, I can’t even kiss without it. Now maybe my definition of ‘romance’ isn’t as expansive as some other people’s, but even a spontaneous encounter won’t happen without flirting, compliments, appreciation, sincerity.

I’ve had plenty of gangbangs, both privately and on camera for content creation. I’ve always sat down and talked with each guy first. I want to feel lusted for and seduced. And if that doesn’t happen, then he doesn’t get to join in.
 
Last edited:
I can’t have sex without romance. Heck, Insnt even kiss without it. Now maybe my definition of ‘romance’ isn’t as expansive as some other people’s, but even a spontaneous encounter won’t happen without flirting, compliments, appreciation, sincerity.

I’ve had plenty of gangbangs, both privately and on camera content creation. I’ve always sat and talked with each guy first. I want to feel lusted for and seduced. And if that doesn’t happen, then he doesn’t get to join in.
so true, Emma! :)

romance means intense, lustful and enjoying everything you do when, well, fucking
 
so true, Emma! :)

romance means intense, lustful and enjoying everything you do when, well, fucking
forgot to add that I show him too. eye contact is romantic as fuck, and so is verbal interaction while presenting my body as sexy as possible when he looks at me. he melts away, and I get extremely wet and horny
 
Back
Top