Meeting a Lit member in person

[Wouldlovetoo]

It would depend on who they were and if I came to know them well. Still it would be a public meeting first.

 

[Shady_nz]

Have met a couple and both unfortunately I've lost touch with

 

[Pad_Foot]

I might be willing to try again
Platonically of course

 

[Tallulah82]

I might be willing to try again
Platonically of course

Of course.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Of course.

How could one expect more?

 

[Tallulah82]

How could one expect more?

Not to expect. But quietly hoping, and mentally ready to cross that line? Or would you ONLY meet if you knew the attraction wasn't there to be a temptation in the first place?

 

[CiaoSteve]

For those who did have the pleasure of meeting, how did it come about?

 

[terriblesecrets]

If and when we come to that bridge, I'll cross it!

 

[Liberia]

Plan to. One will hopefully visit me next year in an European city close enough to manage with some pre-planning, two I will include when traveling for my research anyhow. I've met people from the internet forever, many offline friendships I cherish started online. I am very fond of my friends, wherever I may have met them first.

Does the place of meeting really matter that much? Your similarities may be an interest in politics, blues music, the old ethernet or some shared kink or suffering, but you still build an emotional connection and friendship from there.

Obviously one should always be safe and not meet with someone they don't know without some common sense. But the whole stranger danger hysteria is not really a thing in Europe.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Not to expect. But quietly hoping, and mentally ready to cross that line? Or would you ONLY meet if you knew the attraction wasn't there to be a temptation in the first place?

Oh.. ??
I think from here on out? I'd best be prepared to cross the line
I punished an old lover for a week by ruling out sex. Bad decision in hind sight though, I think we would have become entangled has more gone on.
How about you ?
There certainly has to be a friendship for a meeting to be worthwhile

 

[sunset_dreaming]

I would like to meet her. To hold her hand. To feel her warmth.

Oceans separate us though.

 

[Bacchus6153]

That’s my ultimate goal. I just haven’t met any women on here from MA or RI.

 

[deft]

That’s my ultimate goal. I just haven’t met any women on here from MA or RI.

Try Tinder?

 

[Bacchus6153]

I should give it a try. Have you tried it? How was your experience?

 

[Glorygirl78]

Have met a few. Some lasted longer than others. Wouldn’t trade any of them.

 

[Sprocketman74]

I have not done this. It would have to be in public first. There are not many in my area also.

 

[dawn_of_night]

How far would you be willing to travel to meet someone?

One guy came to me, over 7 hours....
Others we met in the middle, or in town where we were....
And another moved to the Midwest from New Jersey!
I wouldn't have any experience if it weren't for Lit....

 

[madmatt618]

Came very close to meeting someone here a long time ago. We were both married. I chickened out. We continued to have an online relationship for a few months until I stopped it trying to focus on saving my marriage. Probably one of the biggest regrets in my life was walking away from having any contact with her. I still think about her and what that meeting might have been.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Of course.

Of course you will be very busy soon.

 

[Greedy_lion]

I would love to meet someone and dominate them immediately. Or perhaps have them watch me with my sub..
No luck yet.

 

[SusanHoward]

I don’t know if it’s from being on Lit, but sometimes I meet guys who say they remember seeing me somewhere. The look in their eyes (and elsewhere) is pretty hot!

 

[Bacchus6153]

You look familiar….lol!!

 

[SimplyMsT]

Theres a couple of Litsters that I wouldn't mind meeting in person ...

 

[Ratchetman1982]

Theres a couple of Litsters that I wouldn't mind meeting in person ...

Pick me! Pick me!!!

 

[Rickslaw101]

From online, yes, but Lit specifically, no. Hope springs eternal though, and this is certainly one of my fondest hopes...