How do men view sluts?

[apom]

This brings up a pet peeve of mine...why are men and women viewed so differently based on being sluts? Men seem to be idolized while women are criticized for it.

I kind of like the judgement.

 

[Foxed]

I kind of like the judgement.

Same

 

[GoNorth2Camp]

I think most men admitting or not, honestly wish their wife or gf to be a huge slut. Just for them. And only on their timetable for when it’s convenient to them. Not sure that’s how the world works though.

I for one, want my gal to be a slut, and look upon her confidence and ability to be one as a source of pride. I feel a sense of pride knowing she’s the best cock sucker in the room and has the wettest open fuckable pussy around. If she’s not a slut then we’re likely not compatible. My drive works best when with someone sexually open and free.

Unlike some on here, I don’t think I’d be comfortable with her being a slut with other men. Just my preference, but I don’t feel comfortable sharing. I wouldn’t mind if she has gfs she plays with and I’d encourage her to dress slutty when we are out and drawing sexual attention from the guys and gals. Arm candy But at the end of the day knowing this desirable slut is mine and that others can look but can’t touch what I have, is what gets me off.

That said, I don’t look down on any slut as long as she is empowering herself. Do it lady!

Truly words of wisdom.

The human intelligence of men and women are what set us up with the ability to truly enjoy sex. I think the term slut is more of a derogatory statement and should be used with a woman who is OK in that situation. Men are not considered sluts, even though they may have railed 100 women. Why should a woman be looked down upon because she enjoys sex just as much. Society as a whole would benefit from learning to open their sexual minds. Imagine a happier and less stressful world if sex, and the many variations of, was a more accepted norm.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I view sluts with admiration and desire. Women brave enough to chose how they will live in the face of societal norms and pressures.

Yep. This.

 

[Penus_Flytrap]

I'm starting to think women can judge just as harshly. I'm seeing this older guy, with his wife's approval, she developed MS and wanted him to have a sex partner that she trusted. He doesn't seem to care or question my partners, but his wife sure does. She's always asking me if I've been with anyone else, as if she's wanting reassurance that I'm still the sweet, innocent girl that I appear to be. It makes me uncomfortable so I always answer no. I get this vibe like she'll definitely judge me if I do, and figured it was a boomer thing. Then one time I overheard her talking on the phone to her friend and she mentioned that I was still being his "good little slut" because she thinks that her husband is the only guy I'm sleeping with, but yet she apparently still thinks of me as a slut nonetheless. I didn't take it too personally, I mean, I guess I am. She's still like a second mother to me, so I'm trying to avoid her judgmental side. No one else I know really asks me those kinds of questions and I don't talk about my sex life outside of here, but I do feel the need to lie about my sex life if anyone does ask. Maybe I'll start letting people think that I'm a virgin.

 

[magicalmoments]

I'm starting to think women can judge just as harshly...

Oh! You reckon!

 

[KinkStevens]

Sluts are sluts. Ive dated several and treating them with respect or not had more to do with their consideration, integrity, intelligence, humility, etc. than the dicks they sat on. But even if I’d seriously date a slut, they’re to be fucked and used, not revered. I know there are simps who like to put sluts and whores on pedestals and thats ok if they want to. I do not, but I also don’t treat them as less than full people. I like sluts because they often dont play the cat and mouse game. If they’re interested in you, they’ll offer their pussy, ass, and throat without games. I can respect that.

 

[KinkStevens]

This brings up a pet peeve of mine...why are men and women viewed so differently based on being sluts? Men seem to be idolized while women are criticized for it.

Because thats the world. Men and women aren’t the same. A slutty women lessens her value in men’s eyes at a greater rate than a whorish man lessens his value in women’s eyes and for good reason. I live and let live, and dont care if a women chooses to be a slut. Enjoy yourself. Just accept that it lessens your value more for every dick you suck. With exception of cuckolds, undercover cocksuckers, and a few others, men want youth and purity or pretty close to it, not a slut with football numbers. They’re mostly good for fucking only.

Everything isn’t going to be equal and fair. For example, women can be attracted to other women or like tasting pussy occasionally and most men are fine, maybe even happy, with that, but let a man suck a dick or two. Most women won’t want him for any real relationship. She might even find him gross.
Thats life

 

[Michael_Keaton]

There are too many definitions and too many labels for my liking. Is whether someone is a slut depend on a ratio of different sexual partners to a specific length of time? If so, what's that ratio?

I was married for 30 years, single for about 15 years, and now attached again. During that 15 years I practiced what I would call 'serial monogamy' and dated maybe a half dozen women, a couple of them only once or twice and without our having sex. The rest were relationships of between 1-5 years and I believe we were exclusive to one another during that time. I also believe that the ladies I was with during those times had different partners before and after me. And that's ok.

So I was having sex - and a lot of it - with different women over a specific length of time. Does that make me a slut? What's the ratio?

If I'm a 'male slut" I can live with that label so it doesn't really matter to me. "I yam what I yam", as Popeye would say. I'm just pointing out that we tend to throw these potentially insulting/demeaning labels without any knowledge of what that label means.

 

[nostuff]

We need to come up with a new descriptive word.

How about "woman"?

 

[Newreality]

With our eyes or binoculars and telescopes (if they are further away).

 

[leftwantingmore]

How about "woman"?

Perfect!!!! Great name

 

[swansong1]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

I hate the term!

 

[CuriousJInLA]

Very favorably and appreciative!

 

[Herkermer2]

I love them! I’m divorced because I didnt marry a slut. Sluts that know and own it, are the most honest people you’ll find. I’ll only be in a relationship where she is a slut. If you don’t have honesty in a partner, you don’t have anything. Unless one is a true sadist, a woman that’s not honest about her sexuality and the most basic human needs, is not capable of being honest about a lot of things.

 

[BInowGay]

Lovingly

 

[JodyLynn]

I would have considered myself a slut most of my life through a sex worker and a slut are two different things. I think men would be much happier marrying sluts are at least get their future wives some shut training before marriage. Men love a slut in the bedroom, one with no inhibitions but then again. We may make them look bad for knowing too muck.

 

[fullservice65]

Up-close, if lucky.

 

[GreatWhiteCock]

Upside down with their pussy in my face

 

[SirCharles64]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

To me, sex is sex. Something that just about everyone enjoys. Also to me, sex and love are 2 different things. I've never minded sharing. I do stipulate when in a relationship to discuss first. But honestly, I'd prefer a slut over monogamous.

 

[SirCharles64]

This brings up a pet peeve of mine...why are men and women viewed so differently based on being sluts? Men seem to be idolized while women are criticized for it.

Because some men are idiots.

 

[womaneater58]

I enjoy sluts so I prefer to view them naked.

 

[midnight_doctor_2]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

Men generally don't care if you are a slut or not. They just want you available when it is their turn and remember, one day you won't be their favor flavor anymore.

 

[madlapper]

Love them!

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

I would have considered myself a slut most of my life through a sex worker and a slut are two different things. I think men would be much happier marrying sluts are at least get their future wives some shut training before marriage. Men love a slut in the bedroom, one with no inhibitions but then again. We may make them look bad for knowing too muck.

You absolutely correct I know I would love to be married to a slut I don't know why but that is so erotic.n Even to have her tease other men in front of me and even fuck other guys in front of me would be the ultimate.