squirting but no gspot orgasm?

[Luvexx_1]

The past few of times i’ve used my gspot vibrator to penetrate myself i’ve only squirted i’m not sure why? i’ve had it for almost a year now and i’ve always been able to have an actual orgasm up until recently. I’ve tried going to the bathroom beforehand or drinking less water a couple of hours prior to but it’s not helping. I mean it’s super hot for sure but i’d rather at least have that sweet feeling of a gspot orgasm before i squirt. If anyone has any tips or insight let me know!

 

[jckontharocks]

So hot. Sorry. That's not helpful. Can I side my fingers to help you? Haha

 

[SilentSometimes]

I need people (specifically people with vaginas who can and have squirted) to weigh in here because I was with someone who was able to make me squirt for the first time in my life. And not just a little bit: it was significant!

However, when we talked about it, he kept referring to it as an orgasm and it didn’t feel like one.

For me, it’s a separate feeling. Orgasms for me are much more powerful and pleasurable and mind numbing and toe curling. Even though I was able to juice a good amount, it felt… different. Not bad but not great, just different.

I’m not going to be able to describe it well because it only happened a couple of times, but do any women know what I’m talking about?

When you squirt is it ALWAYS as an orgasm? Or is this something different for you?

 

[Davidishot69]

I need people to weigh in here because I was with someone who was able to make me squirt for the first time in my life. And not just a little bit: it was significant!

However, when we talked about it, he kept referring to it as an orgasm and it didn’t feel like one.

For me, it’s a separate feeling. Orgasms for me are much more powerful and pleasurable and mind numbing and toe curling. Even though I was able to juice a good amount, it felt… different. Not bad but not great, just different.

I’m not going to be able to describe it well because it only happened a couple of times, but do any women know what I’m talking about?

When you squirt is it ALWAYS as an orgasm? Or is this something different for you?

When my wife squirts, she tells me it's a really strong orgasm for her. Once she starts she doesn't stop

 

[SilentSometimes]

And for the love of god, PLEASE: If you’re a guy, don’t give me example about how women you’ve been with react.

I need first hand experiences here, not descriptions of your best guesses of how it feels.

 

[bestkeptsecret678]

On behalf of all the (now) silent men watching this thread, I’m anxiously awaiting additional first hand accounts.

SILENT needs your input…

 

[SilentSometimes]

Hello!
I have squirted only a few times (with some guy I dated in my 30s who had magic fingers)

But I do remember that I also felt that i didn’t “orgasm” I really enjoyed it and wanted more but it wasn’t the same as when I orgsam through sex or through masturbation. I’m not sure that helps, sorry!
And not to derail but I also find my orgasms through sex and from masturbating feel different? Do you? Orgasms when I’m alone are more intense than when I’m having sex.

Oh totally, masturbation orgasms are way more intense for me. I assume that’s because I can do exactly what I want, when I want it. I find that men change it up too often when I say “keep doing that, I’m going to cum”. They get too exited or speed up or change the movement and I either lose the orgasm or it’s just not as intense.
I think I should just find men who want to take my masterclass in how to make me cum rather than being like “don’t worry. I’ve got this. I’m good at making women orgasm” because the “know it alls” rarely know all.

 

[Milliemackle]

Oh totally, masturbation orgasms are way more intense for me. I assume that’s because I can do exactly what I want, when I want it. I find that men change it up too often when I say “keep doing that, I’m going to cum”. They get too exited or speed up or change the movement and I either lose the orgasm or it’s just not as intense.
I think I should just find men who want to take my masterclass in how to make me cum rather than being like “don’t worry. I’ve got this. I’m good at making women orgasm” because the “know it alls” rarely know all.

Mate I can relate.

I actually get anxiety sometimes when I’m close to coming and I’m scared the guy is going to change it up! Then that’s effectively me ruining my own orgasm. It’s like the anxiety of being in the cinema with someone who is talking loudly….even when they’ve stopped talking I’m waiting for them

Im sure lots of men would be absolutely eager to take that class

 

[ThatLuckyGuy]

Ruined orgasms mmmm

 

[Roleplay_Hugo_UK]

I’ve come hardest when fucking or when being stroked off and sucked. Not being in control and all that anticipation is very very hot for me.

 

[SweetieGinger69]

The past few of times i’ve used my gspot vibrator to penetrate myself i’ve only squirted i’m not sure why? i’ve had it for almost a year now and i’ve always been able to have an actual orgasm up until recently. I’ve tried going to the bathroom beforehand or drinking less water a couple of hours prior to but it’s not helping. I mean it’s super hot for sure but i’d rather at least have that sweet feeling of a gspot orgasm before i squirt. If anyone has any tips or insight let me know!

Mine happens simultaneously with an orgasm. I can’t ever recall squirting and not having an orgasm accompany it but I bet if I stuck to gspot only stimulation and don’t include the clit at all that it could happen on its own

 

[Massive_Ass69]

The past few of times i’ve used my gspot vibrator to penetrate myself i’ve only squirted i’m not sure why? i’ve had it for almost a year now and i’ve always been able to have an actual orgasm up until recently. I’ve tried going to the bathroom beforehand or drinking less water a couple of hours prior to but it’s not helping. I mean it’s super hot for sure but i’d rather at least have that sweet feeling of a gspot orgasm before i squirt. If anyone has any tips or insight let me know!

I’ve only squirted a few times. The first time was like you explained, I didn’t even know I squirted for real and the guy thought I came-I guess in a way I did, but I wasn’t satisfied. It wasn’t a clitoral or g-spot orgasm.
My current partner is on a quest to make me squirt. He makes me cum with his tongue, fingers, and dick (vaginal & anal), AND he makes me ejaculate (cream) so I am quite alright with not squirting because he satisfies me every other way. He makes me cum from clitoral stimulation and penetration. He cares more about making me squirt than I do. At this point I think he wants to be able to say he has made me cum in every way.

What device do you use?

 

[SilentSometimes]

Ma

Mine happens simultaneously with an orgasm. I can’t ever recall squirting and not having an orgasm accompany it but I bet if I stuck to gspot only stimulation and don’t include the clit at all that it could happen on its own

Maybe that’s what is missing: I should be trying to align my clitoral stimulation and gspot at the same time?
I’ll try it!

 

[SilentSometimes]

I’ve only squirted a few times. The first time was like you explained, I didn’t even know I squirted for real and the guy thought I came-I guess in a way I did, but I wasn’t satisfied. It wasn’t a clitoral or g-spot orgasm.
My current partner is on a quest to make me squirt. He makes me cum with his tongue, fingers, and dick (vaginal & anal), AND he makes me ejaculate (cream) so I am quite alright with not squirting because he satisfies me every other way. He makes me cum from clitoral stimulation and penetration. He cares more about making me squirt than I do. At this point I think he wants to be able to say he has made me cum in every way.

What device do you use?

No devices: just fingers.

Is there a device hack??!!

 

[NippleMuncher]

I find that men change it up too often when I say “keep doing that, I’m going to cum”. They get too exited or speed up or change the movement and I either lose the orgasm or it’s just not as intense.
I think I should just find men who want to take my masterclass in how to make me cum rather than being like “don’t worry. I’ve got this. I’m good at making women orgasm” because the “know it alls” rarely know all.

It has been my experience that women are prone to the same problem for the same reason.

It takes honest communication and time between partners to learn each other's ways. And, it takes a willingness of each partner to take direction in their endeavors to pleasure each other. Great sex is ALWAYS a two way street!

 

[HornyKatie1979]

I went through this too. Was very rare I squirted when I was young, though much more now in in my mid-40s. Not all of the squirts are full orgasms, though I love the sensation and keeping going leads to an orgasm most times.

 

[YourNewEnglandGirl]

For me, squirting is part of a very intense orgasm.

 

[SilentSometimes]

It has been my experience that women are prone to the same problem for the same reason.

It takes honest communication and time between partners to learn each other's ways. And, it takes a willingness of each partner to take direction in their endeavors to pleasure each other. Great sex is ALWAYS a two way street!

This comment wasn’t helpful. Please stay on topic.
Are you a woman who has squirted and you have some advice or experience you can add to this conversation?
If not: please don’t add your feelings about what you think “women’s problems” are.

 

[SilentSometimes]

I went through this too. Was very rare I squirted when I was young, though much more now in in my mid-40s. Not all of the squirts are full orgasms, though I love the sensation and keeping going leads to an orgasm most times.

When you say that you keep going, do you mean pushing through on the squirting that’s currently happening? Or do you mean that you stop and go and squirt a few times and it eventually leads to an orgasm?

 

[HornyKatie1979]

When you say that you keep going, do you mean pushing through on the squirting that’s currently happening? Or do you mean that you stop and go and squirt a few times and it eventually leads to an orgasm?

A bit of both really, depending how horny I am and how much time I have.

 

[SilentSometimes]

A bit of both really, depending how horny I am and how much time I have.

Thank you! I’m new to squirting and I find the intensity of it a bit much. Maybe I need to push through it a little longer to reach my orgasm. I’ll try that!

 

[HornyKatie1979]

Thank you! I’m new to squirting and I find the intensity of it a bit much. Maybe I need to push through it a little longer to reach my orgasm. I’ll try that!

I guess my best tip is, practice, practice, practice whenever you can

 

[NippleMuncher]

This comment wasn’t helpful. Please stay on topic.
Are you a woman who has squirted and you have some advice or experience you can add to this conversation?
If not: please don’t add your feelings about what you think “women’s problems” are.

This is neither the time nor place, nor do I intend to get into a pissing match with you. The umbrage that I took was that you're blaming men for not being able to follow instruction or do the things that you as a woman wants/needs to reach orgasm. This topic is NOT a battle of the sexes, which is exactly what your post that I responded to was trying to incite. Your comment was that men were to blame for not doing what you wanted, I was merely pointing out that women can be called out for the same exact thing. So, instead of pointing blame and offering "master classes" in how to please a woman, maybe recognize that clear and open communication between partners hasn't been achieved. Maybe recognize that the class of partner that you've been choosing isn't up to your standards. Maybe don't infer that men are solely to blame.

I get that women take a whole lot of shit from men in general. I get how absolutely infuriating it is having to deal with this level of crap on a daily basis. My comment was in no way shape or form an attempt to belittle you or your comment. It was not intended to derail the topic, but instead to offer another perspective that just maybe not all men are the pigs as you imply. Just maybe a lack of communication might have something to do with your experiences. Just maybe someone might have an opinion that opposes your own.

If you haven't already blocked me, I can give you several guarantees:
1 - Not all men are pigs.
2 - If you were my partner I would be listening to your wants and needs and would be taking constructive criticism to the betterment of our activities.
3 - In regards to #2, I would expect nothing less from you.
4 - As partners, if we've had clear discussions of our wants and needs and one or the other wasn't fulfilling those needs, then it would be time to end the relationship and move on if the differences were significant enough to do so.

Best wishes to one and all in finding a fulfilling partner to achieve all your desires with.

 

[SilentSometimes]

This is neither the time nor place, nor do I intend to get into a pissing match with you. The umbrage that I took was that you're blaming men for not being able to follow instruction or do the things that you as a woman wants/needs to reach orgasm. This topic is NOT a battle of the sexes, which is exactly what your post that I responded to was trying to incite. Your comment was that men were to blame for not doing what you wanted, I was merely pointing out that women can be called out for the same exact thing. So, instead of pointing blame and offering "master classes" in how to please a woman, maybe recognize that clear and open communication between partners hasn't been achieved. Maybe recognize that the class of partner that you've been choosing isn't up to your standards. Maybe don't infer that men are solely to blame.

I get that women take a whole lot of shit from men in general. I get how absolutely infuriating it is having to deal with this level of crap on a daily basis. My comment was in no way shape or form an attempt to belittle you or your comment. It was not intended to derail the topic, but instead to offer another perspective that just maybe not all men are the pigs as you imply. Just maybe a lack of communication might have something to do with your experiences. Just maybe someone might have an opinion that opposes your own.

If you haven't already blocked me, I can give you several guarantees:
1 - Not all men are pigs.
2 - If you were my partner I would be listening to your wants and needs and would be taking constructive criticism to the betterment of our activities.
3 - In regards to #2, I would expect nothing less from you.
4 - As partners, if we've had clear discussions of our wants and needs and one or the other wasn't fulfilling those needs, then it would be time to end the relationship and move on if the differences were significant enough to do so.

Best wishes to one and all in finding a fulfilling partner to achieve all your desires with.

No, you took the quote out of context to tell me I’m a poor communicator and it’s not men’s fault if I can’t cum with them.

The FULL QUOTE had me responding to another woman as to why our orgasms when we masturbate are more intense than when we’re having sex with someone. I was validating her feelings that it’s not just her that has that experience AND explaining that when we fuck ourselves we can maintain the same pressure and speed and pleasure consistently for harder orgasms. With other people, there are other factors.

Besides that, this original conversation is about women trying to learn from other women their experiences with squirting with or without orgasm.

So you jumping in to say “It takes honest communication and time between partners to learn each other's ways… Great sex is ALWAYS a two way street!” Yeah. That’s not adding to the conversation of women helping women squirt.

So please fuck off with your “best wishes in finding a partner to achieve all your desires with” when that’s not what we’re talking about. Pay attention.