How do men view sluts?

[KinkStevens]

This brings up a pet peeve of mine...why are men and women viewed so differently based on being sluts? Men seem to be idolized while women are criticized for it.

That needs subject matter I dont come here to discuss. The good thing for people that have an issue with that double standard is that it has calmed down a lot over the years and sluts are less criticized than they were.

 

[Cool88]

Overall,I think it is a dumb word to use against a woman who likes to have sex and fuck.

 

[leftwantingmore]

Overall,I think it is a dumb word to use against a woman who likes to have sex and fuck.

We need to come up with a new descriptive word.

 

[womaneater58]

I think the term slut has become a phrase degrading to women who enjoy sex. I've never heard a similar negative name for a man that enjoys sex. I love women and always enjoy being with a woman that enjoys sex as much as I do.

 

[Japansurfer]

I think I view ‘sluts’ very different now in my late 40’s as I did in my late teens/early 20’s. In fact I think what I though a slut was has changed by definition!

 

[DaddyforhisKitten]

I would date a slut.

I married one, it's great!

 

[Burstplayer]

Love 'em! Wish I had one!

 

[Rod_Davison]

I have found over the years that the only women I really fall for romantically are slutty, and the sluttier they are, the higher the attraction. I have been lucky to know several that also clicked on other levels. I derive intense fulfillment from seually sharing someone I love deeply with others and seeing the pleasure it gives her.

 

[EmmAgain]

I think men view sexually independent women with a mixture of lust and envy. Most desperately want to sleep with us and become very resentful if we reject them. They would give their left ears for the sort of sexual power we’ve learned to wield.

 

[ForgottenSpouse]

I only use the term slut if they hearing it, but I look it more as a woman/person who lives thier life for themselves. I’d rather be married to a slut than a nun! I have a nun now and doesn’t want any type of physical touch.

I’d rather have someone that is open minded and willing to explore.

 

[gregy70]

As wife material

 

[Wonderer67]

I am appreciative of sluts.

I am not always crazy about the word. Some women don’t like it. Some do.

Regardless of the term, most men are super sexual. It’s harder to find women who are just as sexual and appreciative of sex, different partners, exploring kinks and fetishes.

I am appreciative of them!

Carpe diem!

 

[OneEyedSteve]

I think men view sexually independent women with a mixture of lust and envy. Most desperately want to sleep with us and become very resentful if we reject them. They would give their left ears for the sort of sexual power we’ve learned to wield.

Left ear? Most would give their left bollock to drink your bath water

 

[Sophie_20]

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[chrisatb5]

With great affection

 

[Wetforest]

Speaking from experience, I’ve never met any of these men that say they want slut wives and girlfriends in real life. It’s mostly online. Men tend to get turned on by me being a hoe. I excite them but some guys don’t even meet me. I get ghosted a lot when I send my address after talking to men online. A lot of them don’t trust me. I think they use me to discuss a fantasy and jerk off but don’t want to touch me. And with others, I get fucked but no dates. I got laughed at a few times after expressing that I have a crush. And if I’m not sexual with a guy but he finds out that I’m slutty, they disappear. The hotwife, slutwife, slutty gf stuff to me is mostly fantasy. I know it exists but men view me as a thing to use and get pleasure from. It’s hot sometimes, lonely other times. I could just stop fucking but I don’t want to. But yeah men don’t really take me seriously as a romantic prospect. Just someone to fuck. Which sucks because I’m a hopeless romantic.

 

[impresso]

Speaking from experience, I’ve never met any of these men that say they want slut wives and girlfriends in real life. It’s mostly online. Men tend to get turned on by me being a hoe. I excite them but some guys don’t even meet me. I get ghosted a lot when I send my address after talking to men online. A lot of them don’t trust me. I think they use me to discuss a fantasy and jerk off but don’t want to touch me. And with others, I get fucked but no dates. I got laughed at a few times after expressing that I have a crush. And if I’m not sexual with a guy but he finds out that I’m slutty, they disappear. The hotwife, slutwife, slutty gf stuff to me is mostly fantasy. I know it exists but men view me as a thing to use and get pleasure from. It’s hot sometimes, lonely other times. I could just stop fucking but I don’t want to. But yeah men don’t really take me seriously as a romantic prospect. Just someone to fuck. Which sucks because I’m a hopeless romantic.

That's the way it is. Most men can't be happy with a woman like that because of a lot of mental blocks, up to and including the fear of her comparing him to others. Fucking with sluts but marrying a virgin is such a common principle...

 

[womaneater58]

I love a woman who enjoys sex as much as I do.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em.