I know you too well to share my kinks.

[hotwords229_A]

Drunken?! Why drunken?

He was always drunk for some reason.

 

[Endless_Night]

And being surrounded by a bunch of naked dudes isn't my idea of a good time.

Right? It sounds vaguely threatening . . . .

 

[hotwords229_A]

I would challenge that statement.

I’ve recently deputized myself to represent all men everywhere. And, after checking the stats, it’s true—all men want to be surrounded by naked women.

 

[Endless_Night]

He was always drunk for some reason.

What?! What on earth are you talking about?

Oh. Are you saying he's related to @deefalttwunnyfor?

 

[hotwords229_A]

What?! What on earth are you talking about?

Oh. Are you saying he's related to @deefalttwunnyfor?

Did you click the link? Photographic proof!

 

[Endless_Night]

I’ve recently deputized myself to represent all men everywhere. And, after checking the stats, it’s true—all men want to be surrounded by naked women.

I suspect you are projecting, Muscles.

There's been a lot of that going around today.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I suspect you are projecting, Muscles.

There's been a lot of that going around today.

Okay, find me the guy.

 

[Endless_Night]

Okay, find me the guy.

Perhaps any of the gay gentlemen on Lit?


There are gay gentlemen on Lit, right?

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Perhaps any of the gay gentlemen on Lit?


There are gay gentlemen on Lit, right?

Based on my unscientific observations, there seems to be a not insignificant number.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Perhaps any of the gay gentlemen on Lit?


There are gay gentlemen on Lit, right?

In that case, just flip it. They would want to be surrounded by dick. True story.

 

[Endless_Night]

Based on my unscientific observations, there seems to be a not insignificant number.

There ya go.

Presumably they are not all that interested in naked women. At least, that's how my understanding of how gay works.

 

[Endless_Night]

In that case, just flip it. They would want to be surrounded by dick. True story.

Pretty sure. Possibly. Maybe.

Not everyone is into orgies.

 

[hotwords229_A]

There ya go.

Presumably they are not all that interested in naked women. At least, that's how my understanding of how gay works.

I’ve called gay guys out for ogling women, they then proclaimed “Nobody’s that gay”. *

*Based on actual events.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Not everyone is into orgies.

Have you met men?

 

[Endless_Night]

I’ve called gay guys out for ogling women, they then proclaimed “Nobody’s that gay”. *

*Based on actual events.

I give up!

*throws in towel*

 

[hotwords229_A]

I give up!

*throws in towel*

Were you only wearing a towel?

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Pretty sure. Possibly. Maybe.

Not everyone is into orgies.

**points at self**

This girl right here. Have been invited to a few sex parties, pretty much just observed, saw a couple of orgies, kinda made me not wanna see other naked people for a while LOL

 

[Endless_Night]

Were you only wearing a towel?

Omg. Stop it!

 

[lindi_85]

What are your sexual shortcomings?

I have no clue. Can I phone a friend?

We focus a lot on what we’re attracted to, but how much time do you spend being attractive (whatever that means to you) to your partner?

Fuuuck. I feel like too much time is spent on this.IRL Losing weight, buying toys and outfits, giving him a strip tease, offering porn, being ‘porn like’ and nothing. I want to be wanted so desperately that I try too hard and push him away. I’m actually at the stage where I give up and hope for the best. I have an incredible person and an amazing husband and I read erotica, life is good.

Are you good at asking your partner what they need to get off (without being that person who needs a Yelp rating after sex)?

I believe I communicate clearly about what I need… eventually. at least I have since joining lit. I still have a tendency to prioritise the other persons sexual comfort and believe that I could lose some amazing relationships if I didn’t

Do you feel like you put more effort into sex than your partner? Or do they put more effort into your needs?

I put more effort in (imo). There’s effort from him I think but not the desire. I think he wants to want me but doesn’t . I can’t really know exactly what he thinks and don’t want to misrepresent him.

If you could snap your fingers and have your partner really want to try something sexual, what would it be?

Me? Is me an answer? . I’d love to be with two men, or have him watch while I’m fucked . I’d love to fly to [location hidden] to fuck aforementioned person. Neither of us would ever risk that, but sometimes I like to play pretend in my head.

Do you ever sit down and talk about how to improve your partner’s sexual experience with you? Why not? Should you?

I’ve tried, apparently it’s weird.

Does your partner want to try something that you just can’t do (for whatever reason)?

Not that I know of and I’d be open to exploring anything a loved one wanted to share with me. I think a lot is in delivery though and I can sometimes mistake tone and intention in the written form.

What do YOU need to work on sexually to be better at it and be a more awesome fucker?

Not be so needy. Feel more sexually confident and not place my value on whether he wants to fuck me, or he responds to my picture . I’m getting there.

Do you think it would be beneficial to have “practice sex”, where you just play with each other and instruct what you like and don’t like, so when it’s “real” you have a better experience?

Yes. I’d love to explore my man’s body. No agenda, no time limit, just exploration.

 

[Endless_Night]

**points at self**

This girl right here. Have been invited to a few sex parties, pretty much just observed, saw a couple of orgies, kinda made me not wanna see other naked people for a while LOL

*also points at self*

I just don't really understand the appeal.

 

[hotwords229_A]

**points at self**

This girl right here. Have been invited to a few sex parties, pretty much just observed, saw a couple of orgies, kinda made me not wanna see other naked people for a while LOL

I imagine orgies are more fun to take part in than watch. Not a pretty sight.

 

[Endless_Night]

I’ve tried, apparently it’s weird.

What? Why does he thinks it's weird?

Or, I simply must go to sleep. I'm exhausted!

But, if you care to answer I will read in the morning.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Me? Is me an answer?

Yes, and it’s a good answer.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I imagine orgies are more fun to take part in than watch. Not a pretty sight.

They don't look fun at all. The logistics of trying to figure out where arms/legs/butts/penises/etc. are going seemed like a hassle and was, interestingly enough, one of the unsexiest things I've witnessed.

A lot of people can't even fuck one person well; introducing other people into the mix did not help.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

What are your sexual shortcomings?

I can't think of any off the top of my head. Maybe not a shortcoming, but I have tended to be more sexually demanding than my prior partners.

We focus a lot on what we’re attracted to, but how much time do you spend being attractive (whatever that means to you) to your partner?

I don't have a partner, and I'm not actively dating, so I don't put as much effort into being attractive. Unless I'm going to an event, I'm generally in active wear or street wear. I'm fairly low-maintenance in general.

Are you good at asking your partner what they need to get off (without being that person who needs a Yelp rating after sex)?

I believe in clarity of communication, so I would have no issue asking my partner about any desires/sexual interests they may have. I mean, it's similar to what I've done with my subs. Identifying needs and figuring out how to meet them is an important part of any relationship.

Do you feel like you put more effort into sex than your partner? Or do they put more effort into your needs?

When I was partnered, I feel like we were generally equally yoked as far as effort, I just wanted sex more than some of them did.

If you could snap your fingers and have your partner really want to try something sexual, what would it be?

If I were partnered, I don't believe I'd need to do anything out of the ordinary to get them to try something sexual with me. My partners were generally down to clown, so to speak.

Do you ever sit down and talk about how to improve your partner’s sexual experience with you? Why not? Should you?

Not currently partnered, but when I was, we had pretty open conversations

Does your partner want to try something that you just can’t do (for whatever reason)?

Never had a partner that wanted something I didn't.

What do YOU need to work on sexually to be better at it and be a more awesome fucker?

I'd really have to think about this... my Yelp reviews are pretty great LOL

Do you think it would be beneficial to have “practice sex”, where you just play with each other and instruct what you like and don’t like, so when it’s “real” you have a better experience?

That was something I'd do with previous partners naturally. Sometimes you don't want to have penetrative sex, but we'd still lay in bed and explore one another, and discover things we liked (and discuss things that were a hard no for the both of us).