St. Cross Andrew's Cross bondage

[Haida_lee]

My husband once took me to Bali, where we stayed at the Ubud Honeymoon Villa. I thought it was just an ordinary villa. It turns out there was a bondage room. I don't need to tell you what we did there. But what surprised me was that there was a cross-like device called St. Andrew's Cross. I was tied to it. The question is, what are men's fantasies about when they tie a woman's body to it? Why not just penetrate her? Why do they need such devices? Maybe men who are into BDSM can explain.

 

[MasterDarcy]

BDSM doesn't necessarily need to involve in sex and penetration.

Being tied to a st Andrews Cross can lead to many things:

Flogging, whipping (you have to be careful with bullwhips, as the open skin can expose muscle and organs), etc.

It doesn't need to revolve around physical pain. It can be a more psychological torture session. With spitting or name calling or using psychological triggers to break the sub/slave down till they cry or till they tremble with fear and trauma, etc.

Disclaimer: It ALWAYS has to be consensual and talked about and mutually agreed upon, before the aforementioned session.

It's not just a Dom/me fantasy.

BDSM isn't solely about the Dom/me calling the shots.

There are submissives (of either gender) who are masochistic and they crave pain, etc, and being tied up, etc, is a kink.

A Dominant worth their salt will be selfless towards their sub, whether the aforementioned Dominant shares the specific activity or not.

A healthy BDSM dynamic is about give and take and being selfless, even if that seems antithetical with the roles.

 

[XXVIII]

Id actually prefer to be the one tied to the St Andrew’s Cross with my wife doing the dominating.

 

[Ash999]

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My husband once took me to Bali, where we stayed at the Ubud Honeymoon Villa. I thought it was just an ordinary villa. It turns out there was a bondage room. I don't need to tell you what we did there. But what surprised me was that there was a cross-like device called St. Andrew's Cross. I was tied to it. The question is, what are men's fantasies about when they tie a woman's body to it? Why not just penetrate her? Why do they need such devices? Maybe men who are into BDSM can explain.

Haida: ordinary sex is quite boring if Not downright depressing, energy depleting and sooo deja vu but Dominating a slutty slavegal is energizing, exciting, sexy, erotic.. Just the sight of a curvaceous glute bent over willingly for a Red Blooded Male to spank, cane or paddle brings an adrenaline rush....but fornication or fucking gets tedious , repetitive and monotonous.....hope I explained it properly??

 

[CaptCharles]

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My husband once took me to Bali, where we stayed at the Ubud Honeymoon Villa. I thought it was just an ordinary villa. It turns out there was a bondage room. I don't need to tell you what we did there. But what surprised me was that there was a cross-like device called St. Andrew's Cross. I was tied to it. The question is, what are men's fantasies about when they tie a woman's body to it? Why not just penetrate her? Why do they need such devices? Maybe men who are into BDSM can explain.

What pleasure did you experience on the cross? .. and did you test your limits and lose yourself to it?

 

[Haida_lee]

What pleasure did you experience on the cross? .. and did you test your limits and lose yourself to it?

This is what I'm asking, brother... what do men enjoy that makes them tie women to crosses? A woman knows exactly what she wants.

 

[CaptCharles]

Control and expression of ownership... the power over her pleasure.

 

[SmilingLez]

it's a different feeling being restrained standing up vs lying down. IMO, more vulnerable; therefore, more intimate. YMMV

 

[Dom70]

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My husband once took me to Bali, where we stayed at the Ubud Honeymoon Villa. I thought it was just an ordinary villa. It turns out there was a bondage room. I don't need to tell you what we did there. But what surprised me was that there was a cross-like device called St. Andrew's Cross. I was tied to it. The question is, what are men's fantasies about when they tie a woman's body to it? Why not just penetrate her? Why do they need such devices? Maybe men who are into BDSM can explain.

At times, it is not necessarily about the pleasure. It can be the visual (as we man ARE visual creatures...)
As was said in another post below...it is about the 'control' of the one bound to the cross...(or any other bondage situation)
AS was also stated (very well I might add) that conversation about what is going to happen is paramount. I take it there was no discussion beforehand?
I will attempt to answer your question (finally lol). Men's fantasies can run the gamut...from control...to the fantasy of capture and....more !
Why not just penetrate? That is not always the goal.(again...as was stated below) If THAT was the goal...the hand is a good tool...
Hope it helped a little bit
Did you enjoy it? (HAD to ask...cuz I'm a guy.) Some women LOVE the helplessness....and others HATE it I hear. I think with the discussion prior...it can be very erotic and pleasurable for both. I hope it was for you!

 

[Haida_lee]

At times, it is not necessarily about the pleasure. It can be the visual (as we man ARE visual creatures...)
As was said in another post below...it is about the 'control' of the one bound to the cross...(or any other bondage situation)
AS was also stated (very well I might add) that conversation about what is going to happen is paramount. I take it there was no discussion beforehand?
I will attempt to answer your question (finally lol). Men's fantasies can run the gamut...from control...to the fantasy of capture and....more !
Why not just penetrate? That is not always the goal.(again...as was stated below) If THAT was the goal...the hand is a good tool...
Hope it helped a little bit
Did you enjoy it? (HAD to ask...cuz I'm a guy.) Some women LOVE the helplessness....and others HATE it I hear. I think with the discussion prior...it can be very erotic and pleasurable for both. I hope it was for you!

Thanks u brother ...Honestly, I'm a woman who likes to be dominated. Being in a dungeon was the first time in my life, so it also raised questions for me.

 

[Haida_lee]

Haida: ordinary sex is quite boring if Not downright depressing, energy depleting and sooo deja vu but Dominating a slutty slavegal is energizing, exciting, sexy, erotic.. Just the sight of a curvaceous glute bent over willingly for a Red Blooded Male to spank, cane or paddle brings an adrenaline rush....but fornication or fucking gets tedious , repetitive and monotonous.....hope I explained it properly??

Thanks U brother

 

[Ash999]

Thanks U brother

Luv U , Sis!!!

 

[CEOescape]

lThanks U brother

you said it perfectly, I can close my eyes an vision I being placed on a st, Andrew cross

 

[Ash999]

Thanks U brother

If U permit may I post pics of Spanking my slutty Darling???!

 

[Haida_lee]

please master

 

[Fifemarriedsub48]

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My husband once took me to Bali, where we stayed at the Ubud Honeymoon Villa. I thought it was just an ordinary villa. It turns out there was a bondage room. I don't need to tell you what we did there. But what surprised me was that there was a cross-like device called St. Andrew's Cross. I was tied to it. The question is, what are men's fantasies about when they tie a woman's body to it? Why not just penetrate her? Why do they need such devices? Maybe men who are into BDSM can explain.

I am a sub male and it is not about the sex for me. It was that I had given over total control and full trust. I also love to be teased and edged with possibly no orgasm at the end.

 

[Ash999]

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[CaptCharles]

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Thank you for sharing this

 

[HarleyQuim]

I think a lot of people like the St Andrew’s Cross because of the visual. I mean getting tied up like that is sexy as hell. Also, everything is out of the way so impact play is easier. If the tie points are an inch or two away from the frame, there’s enough space to get to the other side of the lucky sub.

The only thing that makes me uneasy about this is that it was a form of execution. Feet should stay on the floor squarely and arms shouldn’t be tied so they’re stretched tight. It takes days to for the victim to suffocate on these things but it can cause respiratory problems if the subbie can’t support themselves on their feet.

 

[wwot40]

I think a lot of people like the St Andrew’s Cross because of the visual. I mean getting tied up like that is sexy as hell. Also, everything is out of the way so impact play is easier. If the tie points are an inch or two away from the frame, there’s enough space to get to the other side of the lucky sub.

The only thing that makes me uneasy about this is that it was a form of execution. Feet should stay on the floor squarely and arms shouldn’t be tied so they’re stretched tight. It takes days to for the victim to suffocate on these things but it can cause respiratory problems if the subbie can’t support themselves on their feet.

Your safety considerations are spot on. And it is the visual!