St. Cross Andrew's Cross bondage

[Haida_lee]

My husband once took me to Bali, where we stayed at the Ubud Honeymoon Villa. I thought it was just an ordinary villa. It turns out there was a bondage room. I don't need to tell you what we did there. But what surprised me was that there was a cross-like device called St. Andrew's Cross. I was tied to it. The question is, what are men's fantasies about when they tie a woman's body to it? Why not just penetrate her? Why do they need such devices? Maybe men who are into BDSM can explain.

 

[MasterDarcy]

BDSM doesn't necessarily need to involve in sex and penetration.

Being tied to a st Andrews Cross can lead to many things:

Flogging, whipping (you have to be careful with bullwhips, as the open skin can expose muscle and organs), etc.

It doesn't need to revolve around physical pain. It can be a more psychological torture session. With spitting or name calling or using psychological triggers to break the sub/slave down till they cry or till they tremble with fear and trauma, etc.

Disclaimer: It ALWAYS has to be consensual and talked about and mutually agreed upon, before the aforementioned session.

It's not just a Dom/me fantasy.

BDSM isn't solely about the Dom/me calling the shots.

There are submissives (of either gender) who are masochistic and they crave pain, etc, and being tied up, etc, is a kink.

A Dominant worth their salt will be selfless towards their sub, whether the aforementioned Dominant shares the specific activity or not.

A healthy BDSM dynamic is about give and take and being selfless, even if that seems antithetical with the roles.

 

[XXVIII]

Id actually prefer to be the one tied to the St Andrew’s Cross with my wife doing the dominating.

 

[Ash999]

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My husband once took me to Bali, where we stayed at the Ubud Honeymoon Villa. I thought it was just an ordinary villa. It turns out there was a bondage room. I don't need to tell you what we did there. But what surprised me was that there was a cross-like device called St. Andrew's Cross. I was tied to it. The question is, what are men's fantasies about when they tie a woman's body to it? Why not just penetrate her? Why do they need such devices? Maybe men who are into BDSM can explain.

Haida: ordinary sex is quite boring if Not downright depressing, energy depleting and sooo deja vu but Dominating a slutty slavegal is energizing, exciting, sexy, erotic.. Just the sight of a curvaceous glute bent over willingly for a Red Blooded Male to spank, cane or paddle brings an adrenaline rush....but fornication or fucking gets tedious , repetitive and monotonous.....hope I explained it properly??