BeautyInTheStruggle
Virgin
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- Aug 8, 2025
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So, Hi - I'm new here! 
I'm not new to forums and used to own/run/moderate several back in "the day" before Facebook took over everything and yes that does date me very well I think. Anyway my point of adding that was, if I've put this in the wrong place please move it or remove it, I'll understand.
So after lurking, replying to some topics I finally decided which one of my million questions about story writing I'd like to ask first, sparked in part because this morning we had an unplanned internet outtage - and after losing large chunks of stories twice in the past due to hard drive failures I now keep my stories in the cloud. This meant I was limited to stories I have specifically set as "offline" unfortunately it seems though I have been doing SO well in sticking to writing on one story in particular I forgot to set offline on this one.
After fumbling with the modem, searching for network status at my location and finding out it was a wider problem than just my end (I had hoped it was just the modem in need of a restart), I made a cup of coffee, watched various family members do whatever things they found to temporarily amuse themselves in this highly internet dependant house we have and contemplated what I might write.
I currently didn't have any new ideas banging around in my head insisting I get them down on paper so they will at least give me some peace and quiet, I can't blame the stories for wanting this - after all its quite a noisy place in my head, even I'm not sure how to live with that!
So I turned to a story idea I had recently written a few short paragraphs down on, a story (book / novel ?) intended to be one of ten in series two of the one I have reliably been working on for a few months now (also one out of a set of ten stories). And contently played around with fleshing the idea out some more until finally the internet was back.
But it begs the question I am asking now, as I've wondered myself for quite some time.
Is too many "in progress" stories detrimental to writing well?
By this I mean, I have around 40 stories, they all share similar themes the main of which is romance with somewhat explicit scenes, however they also feature a range of other subjects/styles from non-con, werewolves, shapeshifters, dragon/human, stockholm type syndrome, kidnapping, Indians, civil war, you probably get the idea now.
I'm interested to know if other writers generally have several in progress stories at a time, do you have them in progress but only actively write on one at a time, or do you mix it up? Do you find that if you write on more than one it leads to those stories having a similar "flavour" - ie MFC in both has much the same characteristics?
Am I doing it wrong to have so many in progress stories, or is this normal?
To be fair to myself I've been writing for over twenty years now, with a big gap in the middle due to loss of progress on stories and then life events leaving me with no inspiration to write the fun or happy scenes, but also perhaps from lack of time. I have recently given up a time consuming and costly hobby and decided to see if I could pick my writing back up and I have, just a little too well in regards to the number of stories I am writing.
In the year or so since picking writing back up I have possibly started 15 stories in some way or another, though the last 6 months I have been focused almost entirely on an idea for a series that came to me, and mostly particularly one book in that, the third
in a set of ten although each would be/are written in a way as to stand alone (with the first and second only partially done, I'd attempt to explain why I'm at this book instead of the first I started with but I fear I have already written way too much at this point).
Anyway if you've read this far and have something to say on the subject please do!

I'm not new to forums and used to own/run/moderate several back in "the day" before Facebook took over everything and yes that does date me very well I think. Anyway my point of adding that was, if I've put this in the wrong place please move it or remove it, I'll understand.
So after lurking, replying to some topics I finally decided which one of my million questions about story writing I'd like to ask first, sparked in part because this morning we had an unplanned internet outtage - and after losing large chunks of stories twice in the past due to hard drive failures I now keep my stories in the cloud. This meant I was limited to stories I have specifically set as "offline" unfortunately it seems though I have been doing SO well in sticking to writing on one story in particular I forgot to set offline on this one.
After fumbling with the modem, searching for network status at my location and finding out it was a wider problem than just my end (I had hoped it was just the modem in need of a restart), I made a cup of coffee, watched various family members do whatever things they found to temporarily amuse themselves in this highly internet dependant house we have and contemplated what I might write.
I currently didn't have any new ideas banging around in my head insisting I get them down on paper so they will at least give me some peace and quiet, I can't blame the stories for wanting this - after all its quite a noisy place in my head, even I'm not sure how to live with that!
So I turned to a story idea I had recently written a few short paragraphs down on, a story (book / novel ?) intended to be one of ten in series two of the one I have reliably been working on for a few months now (also one out of a set of ten stories). And contently played around with fleshing the idea out some more until finally the internet was back.
But it begs the question I am asking now, as I've wondered myself for quite some time.
Is too many "in progress" stories detrimental to writing well?
By this I mean, I have around 40 stories, they all share similar themes the main of which is romance with somewhat explicit scenes, however they also feature a range of other subjects/styles from non-con, werewolves, shapeshifters, dragon/human, stockholm type syndrome, kidnapping, Indians, civil war, you probably get the idea now.
I'm interested to know if other writers generally have several in progress stories at a time, do you have them in progress but only actively write on one at a time, or do you mix it up? Do you find that if you write on more than one it leads to those stories having a similar "flavour" - ie MFC in both has much the same characteristics?
Am I doing it wrong to have so many in progress stories, or is this normal?
To be fair to myself I've been writing for over twenty years now, with a big gap in the middle due to loss of progress on stories and then life events leaving me with no inspiration to write the fun or happy scenes, but also perhaps from lack of time. I have recently given up a time consuming and costly hobby and decided to see if I could pick my writing back up and I have, just a little too well in regards to the number of stories I am writing.
In the year or so since picking writing back up I have possibly started 15 stories in some way or another, though the last 6 months I have been focused almost entirely on an idea for a series that came to me, and mostly particularly one book in that, the third

Anyway if you've read this far and have something to say on the subject please do!