Strip Clubs

[live4thebj]

Does anyone still go to them? What are lap dances costing these days? Are people still tipping only a dollar? Etc.

I haven’t been to one in over 14 years.

 

[OldJock60]

A waste of money. Something to be avoided.

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

it depends where you go. big city CA, TX, FL, NY is obviously going to have more franchise and hustle than midwest or northern states. indies may not have the same looking girls but you may have a better experience if you don't walk in with an attitude that its beneath you bc you come from the big city. tips are all over the place and depend on how pissed or entitled ppl feel and how the club and the dancer has treated them by charging x for drinks and x for a dance and again thats depending on where u are and where u go. free cam sites have pretty much taken the piss out of clubs esp after covid but some ppl still want that up close and real experience or save some $ and buy your girl some flowers lol

 

[ned63]

Yrs ago there was a strip joint in my town. After it burned down the city mighty high ups decided that there shall be no more of that kind of place in our town. Still to this day there isn't a strip joint here. Damn it was fun to go to in its day.

 

[hulmule]

I think there around. I was never into them. I rather hit the bar and try my luck

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

I think there around. I was never into them. I rather hit the bar and try my luck

happiness starts with bad choices lol

 

[hulmule]

happiness starts with bad choices lol

Oh trust me ive been happy most of my life... Until menopause hit lol

 

[Sir_Timo_Volodok]

A waste of money. Something to be avoided.

Someone's never been to Portland, OR.

Whole part of the culture in this city. Not my jam in most locales. Here? Definitely something to be experienced. I know women who take their lunch break at the local strip clubs. We do "strip club date night" every month or so and our relationship is better for it.

https://www.oregonencyclopedia.org/articles/stripping_in_oregon/

Are people still tipping only a dollar? Etc.

Most of the ones we frequent have a $2 per song min if you're sitting at the table. People are usually bigger tippers than that though.

 

[live4thebj]

I do agree they are a waste of money. However there were things that I occurred at stage and at the lap dances that were memorable. Very memorable. Two included porn stars touring clubs.

 

[wouldloveto]

Someone's never been to Portland, OR.

Whole part of the culture in this city. Not my jam in most locales. Here? Definitely something to be experienced. I know women who take their lunch break at the local strip clubs. We do "strip club date night" every month or so and our relationship is better for it.

Portland is where I began to like strip clubs... about 40 years ago...

I do agree they are a waste of money. However there were things that I occurred at stage and at the lap dances that were memorable. Very memorable. Two included porn stars touring clubs.

I went to one a while back. It was a club I used to go to decades ago. Back in the day the place would have had a bunch of guys getting off work and whooping it up. The place was dead, but the bartender was cool, and there were a couple of hot dancers working. One hit me up for a lap dance, which I had not had in eons... She was mostly your typical dancer, but she was fun to chat with, so I agreed. For those two songs I was transported to earlier times... it was great.

Fast forward to a month or so ago... I had time to kill and decided to go to a strip club I had seen advertised for years. It was an off time, no dancers on stag, but there was one girl available for lap dances. It was way different than the old days, much more a transaction than a flirt. I was not really feeling it, but I got a dance. Again, I was amazed how good it was. So much so that the next time I was nearby I stopped in again. Different girl... not worth it at all, mechanical, disinterested, etc.

So, fun can be had at the right one, but I will leave it to the younger crowd.

 

[Sir_Timo_Volodok]

Portland is where I began to like strip clubs... about 40 years ago...

but there was one girl available for lap dances. It was way different than the old days, much more a transaction than a flirt. I was not really feeling it, but I got a dance. Again, I was amazed how good it was.

Lap dances aren't really my thing. I've been peer pressured into a few and it's not as though they're not fun, but I'd +1 what you say about it being transactional.

Honestly, what I find deeply amusing/enjoyable about the Portland strip club experience is just the casualness of it all. We've had long running conversations about every topic under the sun with random naked women, politics, sports, school, you name it, you can probably talk about it with a stripper in Portland. I'm probably getting old, but I'd rather sit at the stage with my friends listening to the dancer pontificate about the news than sit alone getting a transactional lap dance.

It's also great people watching. Despite the super-progressive/sex positive attitudes here, there's invariably still that one creeper dude sitting at the end by himself, tongue practically hanging out of his mouth, as though he's never seen a naked woman before. I'm going there with at least one woman (my partner) and usually a few more, so we get a disproportionate amount of attention from the dancers, and it's always great to see the disappointed look on creepy guy's face when that happens.

Last plug, it really gets my partner's juices going, which ain't a bad thing for yours truly, so....

but I will leave it to the younger crowd.

We're in our 40s.

 

[wouldloveto]

Lap dances aren't really my thing. I've been peer pressured into a few and it's not as though they're not fun, but I'd +1 what you say about it being transactional.

I have had periods of my life where a good lap dance was the goal. But things were different then...

Last plug, it really gets my partner's juices going, which ain't a bad thing for yours truly, so....

I tried to get my wife to go years ago, just as a lark, but she would have nothing to do with it. Unlike a wild gf I had way back when. She loved it, and had a ton of fun with one particular dancer.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Does anyone still go to them? What are lap dances costing these days? Are people still tipping only a dollar? Etc.

I haven’t been to one in over 14 years.

I’d feel like a fool paying some girl to tease me.

 

[Sir_Timo_Volodok]

Unlike a wild gf I had way back when. She loved it, and had a ton of fun with one particular dancer.

Between my partner and I only one of us has gotten kicked out of a strip club for inappropriate touching.

Spoiler: It wasn't me.

 

[wouldloveto]

She got warned by a bouncer, or rather he warned me to chill her out...

Back then you did not see many women patrons, either the dancer was impressed or she was a great actress.

 

[Dearelliot]

Nice places, the nude clubs in NJ, no alcohol. Touch, fondling is nice, love to handle their breasts, and you can sometimes get extras...Nice to have the sweet thing inches from your face

 

[razor33a]

After spending a few years overseas US strip clubs are boring.

 

[Cabeza]

happiness starts with bad choices lol

My new favorite quote

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

My new favorite quote

if you loved it it would be your new tattoo

 

[Wylie3]

most seem to be disappearing not surprising as when the tease went out of the strip they became boring

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

most seem to be disappearing not surprising as when the tease went out of the strip they became boring

ya why pay to go to a club when u can lock yourself in the shitter and jack it to ig pics of your cute female relative and her friends

 

[live4thebj]

Anyone gone to Montreal?

 

[Up4fun&69]

Yeah, it was different in my younger days. The 80s and 90s were the prime for me and strip clubs. I worked in NYC and within a few blocks of the office were 5 topless and 2 nude strip clubs. Sometimes to blow off steam at lunch or waiting for a late train, I'd go for a bit. I'm not that outgoing and I didn't throw money around, but I guess some of the girls found me to be a safe choice. As a result, I might pay for a lap dance but get two or three. And often they'd sit with me and refuse a drink, telling me to save my money. (It helps if you become friendly with the floor manager, too. In most of the places I went, it was a woman. So, they'd also sit with me and introduce me to new dancers.) Eventually, I dated one dancer for a while, was in contact for a few years with another who was from Europe, and hired another for a part-time bookkeeping job. It was fun and I made some nice friends and got some special treatment in the clubs where they worked.

I had similar experiences in Las Vegas and New Orleans when I visited often. A couple of dancers in those places asked me to join them for a night on the town. No sex. Just fun club hopping.

But one time on Long Island, NY, my buddies and I were out east for a good-bye weekend as I was soon to be moving to CA. We decided to visit every strip club on the way to NJ. At one place, there was one dancer who made eye contact with me and looked like she saw a ghost. Without finishing her set, she gathered her tips and clothes and went off stage to the back. I noticed that she kept peeking out from the dressing room every so often. After 30 minutes, she came over and asked, "Is that you, Dave? Dave Smith?" Nope. Not even close. Then she totally relaxed and told me that I looked exactly like a guy she dated in high school and was afraid I was him and would tell all of their friends what she was doing. After that, she spent the next hour before we left, doting over me and my friends and doing a few things on stage not allowed in topless clubs.

I'm now in my mid-60s and in Florida. There's a club in the town where I live, but as others have said, in less populated areas the girls aren't as professional, as friendly, as hot. I hear that the place by me is lucky if they get one average-or-less girl to dance on weekdays and maybe two on weekends. I'm tempted to see what goes on in clubs these days, but I'd rather just keep the old memories in place.

 

[ChuckWolf]

She got warned by a bouncer, or rather he warned me to chill her out...

Back then you did not see many women patrons, either the dancer was impressed or she was a great actress.

I feel like back in the day, women patrons were encouraged to get a little physical with the strippers.

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

I feel like back in the day, women patrons were encouraged to get a little physical with the strippers.

i've heard that too but women can get more aggressive and more toxic in that setting then men IME esp since male bouncers have to be more careful when handling a female customer and bc alot of them will have a man w them who wants to be a hot shit knight when the woman does act up