Men vs. women: Turned on by observing LIVE sex

@Islander55, your observation elsewhere about women "outslutting" (I nominate that as 2025's word of the year) is exactly why I think MY hypothesis is on point. A guy watching another dude doesn't have that reflex, in my experience. We wait for the girls to set the temperature.
I think you are right with the majority but there are some men that just have to push things and some women that need to sit back and let it happen. I think a lot of women in the lifestyle knows they need to set the tone and perhaps even relish the opportunity.
 
Not for one second will you persuade me that that any woman does not deliberately wear higher heels, shorter skirts or lower necklines (and tightness generally) without an awareness (for good or caution) of the effect it will have on men.
I agree with you. Women know that they are wearing tight, small shorts, sheer material, low cut tops, leggings that show their panties thru them, or make a nice camel toe in them. yes men will be looking at them when they show off their body.
 
Not for one second will you persuade me that that any woman does not deliberately wear higher heels, shorter skirts or lower necklines (and tightness generally) without an awareness (for good or caution) of the effect it will have on men.
Of course women try to attract the attention of men even if they do not really want it. The same for men. They are always trying to attract the attention of women. Though I do think as we get older, we need to focus more on mental attraction than physical attraction. For many of us, short skirts, etc. no longer work the way they did when we were younger.
 
Of course women try to attract the attention of men even if they do not really want it. The same for men.
I'm sorry, but I cannot disagree more. Yes, the obvious attractions may be less effective than before (though no a woman alive knows knows little that is true: Stretch marks, sagging, FUPA-- there's a man out there who would have his last erection looking at yours,), but until I die (closer than I'd like to think) I will ever feel simulated by a woman intending to cause me interest than the reverse
 
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I'm sorry, but I cannot disagree more. Yes, the obvious attractions may be less effective than before (though no a woman alive knows knows little that is true: Stretch marks, sagging, FUPA-- there's a man out there who would have his last erection looking at yours,), but until I die (closer than I'd like to think) I will ever feel simulated by a woman intending to cause me interest than the reverse
I agree that everyone likes to feel that someone is interested in them but I do think as we age it is more important to focus on the more subtle indications. Really more of the verbal flirting rather than relying on tight clothes etc.
 
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