No offence, AU, but SN has had you on strings for months now and you're too blinded by obsession with them to see it. You're not alone, but you're the biggest example of it. If you want to cut the strings, just move on. Even the people who hated them the most have all moved on.The main reason that I have been loud about her is that I believe that collective action (or discussion) is a legitimate response to bullies
You weren't here when it started. A few writers collectively made fun of SN and had some laughs at their expense. Nothing too bad, just made fun of their reviews and called them crackers. Next thing SN just arrived and took things too far defending themselves against that "collective action". They deserved to be banned because it went way beyond defending themselves. You can't go onto a forum and pick people up and throw them around, even if those people fired the first shots. They also said they were being bullied when they arrived, hence their sudden arrival, but they chose to just run straight through them all without any thought for an appropriate response. We've seen that if SN doesn't respect you, they just run straight through you.
But they've been gone for 2 or 3 years now. You're devoting so much of your time and energy to someone who isn't coming back.
I'm really sorry this happened to you. I made a comment above about developing a thick hide through science papers.
I saw that at the time and didn't agree. If it's true, then show us all how thick your hide really is. Either reach out to them and talk about it or just ignore them and stop giving them so much attention. This all needs to stop.
I noticed a few days ago that she was launching a fresh battleship of outrage, targeting people with attractive profile pics, trans and lesbian stories.
No one likes SN and you clearly hate them, but if you click on the link to their profile that you provided in a dedicated thread, it's clear that they're looking for LGBTQ+ content to read and review. You've framed that as them targeting minorities to abuse them because of their sexuality, which is not true. I've seen comments from SN about being either gay or bisexual, depending on whether they are male, female or trans.
Do you see how problematic that is? You can be right about SN being mean and harsh in their reviews, but coming here to suggest that they're part of the KKK, when they didn't say that, damages your own credibility. It gives me reason to doubt your judgement, even when you're right. You're so blinded by obsession that you can't see that. I'm convinced that soon someone will blame SN for starving the Palestinian children.
Have you ever had a discussion with SN? Some of us have either interacted with them on the board or spoken to them, so they aren't radio silent. Someone is running the SN account. Did you ever raise any of the hundreds of posts or threads you've created about them? Did you ever post a comprehensive response to their comment on your story? One that would've discredited and refuted them on a point by point basis and wiped the floor with them?
After they sent you their lengthy comment/review, you had a choice to make. Either spend half an hour posting 500-1,000 words where you humiliate them with a refutation on every point they raised in your review, or you could spend 100+ hours writing 80,000+ words on the board about how much you hate them and not correct anything they've said in your review. You chose the latter and it doesn't make any sense to me.
You've got the time and energy for at least 500 words because it feels like you're single handedly keeping the entire SN topic going. If SN was a business, you'd be the single largest shareholder. If what they said about your story was so wrong, then it'll be easy to show that. You've shown us for months and months that you care very deeply about what they think and it's better for the board if you finally squash it. Just move on.
3 months from now, either the SN topic will finally be dead or AU's obsession is going to keep it going. Most of us want the SN topic to die. Stacnash Fatigue is real. We're sick to death of it.