I know you too well to share my kinks.

[PrettyLilPussy19]

The games we play . . .

Many of us started out with Truth or Dare, Strip Games, Naked Twister (or regular Twister, for that matter ), Seven Minutes in Heaven, etc.

But as we “mature” we stop playing these games. Why?

Do you still engage in sexual games (the fun kind)?

Yeah, Im with the previous answerers in that I don't think most of these sexy games are common. A little Truth or Dare or Spin the Bottle but nothing remotely sexy. Are they happening or are they myth? Now im curious.

What sexual games would you still play if your partner was into it?

Can we make spreadsheets and roll dice?

Wahat was your best sexy game experience when you were definitely 18 or older?

This question is hard bc I like a sexy group project but I wouldn't say its a game..

Do you feel less interested in seeing your friends, neighbors, strangers naked, now that you’re a “mature adult” with bills, mortgages, etc. or do you think about inviting the lawn service guys, or UPS girl in for a round of strip poker?

Im always curious about naked bodies. Everyone is so interesting and beautiful or sexy in their own way. We get so used to seeing naked "perfection" that sometimes we forget most bodies dont look like that. They are the exception. In reality, the little "flaws" or differences between us is what really sparks my erotic imagination. I like looking but I don't know that I need to invite everyone over for such a formal affair! Maybe I need different friends irl? I think on Lit , Ive seen all my friend's bits to some degree. Also I don't want to have to get naked. I don't have that exhibitionist streak.

Are you the type of person that still enjoys swinging on a swing, going down a slide, racing to the next tree, or is that in your past?

I enjoy being playful and, while I accept that being an adult has lots of responsibilities, I made a choice a long time ago to never give up on whimsy, silliness, and play. I won't let negativity rule my brain (we all have bad days but I mean permanently) and I will find ways to choose joy. It's definitely a mindset and a choice.

Will you take part in Naked Bingo when you’re in the Old Folks Home?

Ill probably be the person calling the Bingo numbers knowing me.

Have you ever invented a fun sex game that we should know about?

I have come up with lots of fun things for myself and partners to play with but no, you shouldn't
Nice try though! I respect it!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I've been to nude beaches before; after awhile, the shock of it is gone and you really do just get used to seeing bodies as bodies.

This is why I don’t like nude places. I like nudity to be fun, and rare. The minute it becomes normalized, it loses some of the glory.

Kinda like working at a strip club. Nudity becomes normal.

I’d still look.

Nudist beaches and such are NOT sexy to me.

The only one I’ve been to was a horrible experience. It seemed everyone was male and at least in their lower sixties. I saw skin that looked more dried and fried than a hundred year old suitcase!

It was nothing like the movies told me it would be. Not a single all-girl, slow-motion volleyball game on the beach ANYWHERE!

A little Truth or Dare or Spin the Bottle but nothing remotely sexy. Are they happening or are they myth? Now im curious.

Oh, they’re real! And they can be very sexy with the right people.

Can we make spreadsheets and roll dice?

Does the person who rolls the highest number get to decide who gets spread on the sheets?

I like a sexy group project but I wouldn't say its a game..

What is a sexy group project? Care to elaborate?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

The games we play . . .

Many of us started out with Truth or Dare, Strip Games, Naked Twister (or regular Twister, for that matter ), Seven Minutes in Heaven, etc.

Truth or dare used to be a game that was played at sleepovers - I remember this vividly- and being mortified by things they were asking people to do. “Run around outside without your shirt.” “Call one of those late night phone-sex numbers.”

Did you worry more about the truths or dares when you were younger? How about now?

Briefly when I first joined Lit, there was a Truth or Dare game I took part in but it was a little different. The Truths and Dares were really meant to get to know each other. Some were sexy. But I don’t remember anything that made me uncomfortable. It was a really nice way to get to know some people here on Lit.

But as we “mature” we stop playing these games. Why?

The thrill of those games isn’t the same. They can still be fun but it’s a different feel.

I like ice cream, but cotton candy flavored ice cream isn’t my favorite anymore. My tastes have matured. I do still like playing those sorts of games but I like something a little ..deeper.

Do you still engage in sexual games (the fun kind)?

I think that asking each other playful questions counts as a sexual game, so yes, I do this with my person. It always leads to more and more conversation and inquiries and fantasies. Some teasing, playful banter, that definitely counts too.

What sexual games would you still play if your partner was into it?

It’s fun to have a little wager on a baseball game or something like that. Winner gets to have the other person grant them a wish of some kind or maybe wear their favorite outfit- something that’s a turn on for them. Things like that are really fun and can create some exciting tension.

What was your best sexy game experience when you were definitely 18 or older?

I played a couple games at college. Strip poker. A board game called “Sip and Strip” . This was not a normal thing but it was fun when it happened.

Do you feel less interested in seeing your friends, neighbors, strangers naked, now that you’re a “mature adult” with bills, mortgages, etc. or do you think about inviting the lawn service guys, or UPS girl in for a round of strip poker?

Nah, I don’t think so. I’ve gotten that thrill out of my system for the most part.

It’s fun to see people’s pictures on Lit or share one, but that’s the extent of it.

Are you the type of person that still enjoys swinging on a swing, going down a slide, racing to the next tree, or is that in your past?

I’m very playful and I think it’s important to stay in touch with what keeps you feeling whimsical and lighthearted, and not take yourself too seriously.

Will you take part in Naked Bingo when you’re in the Old Folks Home?

Why not? Never say never!

Have you ever invented a fun sex game that we should know about?

Not yet, but I’ll start brainstorming

 

[hotwords229_A]

It’s fun to have a little wager on a baseball game or something like that. Winner gets to have the other person grant them a wish of some kind or maybe wear their favorite outfit- something that’s a turn on for them. Things like that are really fun and can create some exciting tension.

I love this!

 

[lindi_85]

The games we play . . .

Many of us started out with Truth or Dare, Strip Games, Naked Twister (or regular Twister, for that matter ), Seven Minutes in Heaven, etc.

But as we “mature” we stop playing these games. Why?

I didn’t have fun friends like you apparently. Never played any of those games tbh.

Do you feel less interested in seeing your friends, neighbors, strangers naked, now that you’re a “mature adult” with bills, mortgages, etc. or do you think about inviting the lawn service guys, or UPS girl in for a round of strip poker?

I’ve often fantasised about what people look like naked. Although my thoughts generally lean towards they don’t want to see me naked

Are you the type of person that still enjoys swinging on a swing, going down a slide, racing to the next tree, or is that in your past?

Heck yes! In fact I am usually the only parent on school camp enjoying the festivities

Will you take part in Naked Bingo when you’re in the Old Folks Home?
Have you ever invented a fun sex game that we should know about?

I would love to try strip poker or naked bingo. I’m keen.

 

[Apisto42]

I’m really looking forward to the old folks home. As long as @PrettyLilPussy19 and @Love_Is_Blonde are there.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Apparently, there is a new I Know What You Did Last Summer movie out with a return of Jennifer Boobs Hewitt.

I was thinking about how I always wanted to see her naked and how she never let me (or the world) see her naked.

That goes for Jessica Alba, Jessica Beil, Katherine Isabelle and so many others. I am not beginning to accept that we may never get to see those beautiful bastards she’s carrying around.

Who do you wish you could see naked from any time in history?
Why do we feel compelled to see each other naked knowing that we will never have a chance to have sex with them?
Did you ever see someone naked, that you really wanted to see naked, and then were disappointed in some way?
Who is someone you saw naked that looked way better than you expected?
On a scale of 3 to 3.6, how much do you enjoy looking at the naked human body?

 

[Apisto42]

Apparently, there is a new I Know What You Did Last Summer movie out with a return of Jennifer Boobs Hewitt.

I was thinking about how I always wanted to see her naked and how she never let me (or the world) see her naked.

Jennifer Boobs was one of the best parts of the Garfield movie.

That goes for Jessica Alba, Jessica Beil, Katherine Isabelle and so many others. I am not beginning to accept that we may never get to see those beautiful bastards she’s carrying around.

Who do you wish you could see naked from any time in history?

Cleopatra. Was she really beautiful or just powerful?

Why do we feel compelled to see each other naked knowing that we will never have a chance to have sex with them?

Cause we’re dudes dude. It’s our monkey brain.

Did you ever see someone naked, that you really wanted to see naked, and then were disappointed in some way?

Hm, let me think.

Nope. They were naked.

Who is someone you saw naked that looked way better than you expected?

Before or after we had sex?

On a scale of 3 to 3.6, how much do you enjoy looking at the naked human body?

3.9M.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Ladies? Nothing? There is no guy whose balls you’d like to see? Schlong, butt, nothing?
I find this hard to believe!

 

[Apisto42]

Ladies? Nothing? There is no guy whose balls you’d like to see? Schlong, butt, nothing?
I find this hard to believe!

I bet if you did a little strip tease, the ladies would come hollering.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I bet if you did a little strip tease, the ladies would come hollering.

Well, the question was about famous people, but . . .

Aren’t you the one who worked in a strip joint? You may be better at it than me.

 

[Noor]

I’m the same as I was although I’ve become jaded lately, but maybe it’s temporary.
I don’t expose myself anymore or less than I did back 2001.

 

[Endless_Night]

I feel I should preface this by saying I'm not all that interested in seeing people naked.

Unless, of course, I'm having sex with them, or want to have sex with them.

Who do you wish you could see naked from any time in history?
Hmmm. Coming up blank.

Why do we feel compelled to see each other naked knowing that we will never have a chance to have sex with them?
I do not, but on a collective level, people seem to, generally speaking. If anyone has a good answer for this, let me know. I'm curious.

Did you ever see someone naked, that you really wanted to see naked, and then were disappointed in some way?
No. If I get that far I'm apt to be fairly pleased. I can't help but wonder if that happens, though. Clothing hides a multitude of things.

Who is someone you saw naked that looked way better than you expected.
No one famous, but I have seen several women who looked dumpy or otherwise unremarkable in clothes, that had surprisingly nice bodies.

On a scale of 3 to 3.6, how much do you enjoy looking at the naked human body?
Depends. If it's a body I'm interested in looking at, all day long.

If not . . . I occasionally see nudes in black and white that are lovely, but otherwise 0. (Weird scale, Muscles. )

 

[Apisto42]

Well, the question was about famous people, but . . .

Aren’t you the one who worked in a strip joint? You may be better at it than me.

My one and only time on stag was a hoot, but it was part of a bday celebration for one of the girls.

 

[hotwords229_A]

My one and only time on stag was a hoot, but it was part of a bday celebration for one of the girls.

We need to hear more about this.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Who do you wish you could see naked from any time in history?

No one in particular.

Why do we feel compelled to see each other naked knowing that we will never have a chance to have sex with them?

Cause (some) naked bodies are beautiful. There are people I've seen naked that I'm not attracted to, but I appreciated their bodies in an aesthetic way.

Did you ever see someone naked, that you really wanted to see naked, and then were disappointed in some way?

No. If I'm at the point of seeing them naked, I already have a general idea of what hey look like underneath clothing.

Who is someone you saw naked that looked way better than you expected?

No one I can think of.

On a scale of 3 to 3.6, how much do you enjoy looking at the naked human body?

If it's someone I'm attracted to, I never get tired of looking at their body.

 

[hotwords229_A]

So you and your partner have talked it over and decided to have a threesome . . .

How did you (or would you) go about finding a third person?
Have you ever been turned down by a friend or neighbor when inviting them for a threesome? How awkward was it after that?
Are (or would) your threesomes be reciprocal, meaning, for example, if she agrees to another woman will you agree to another man?
When in a threesome, are you the type to draw a line across the other body with the agreement that ‘you can have that side and I’ll take this side’, or are you down for a free-for-all?
Have you ever been in a threesome that pushed your boundaries? Would you like to be?

 

[Endless_Night]

How did you (or would you) go about finding a third person?
I've sorta had a threesome.

(Falling asleep before it gets started still counts, right? )

That was more of the moment and environment rather than thought out in advance.

Have you ever been turned down by a friend or neighbor when inviting them for a threesome? How awkward was it after that?
No, but I can see where that could awkward real fast.

Are (or would) your threesomes be reciprocal, meaning, for example, if she agrees to another woman will you agree to another man?
Threesomes don't interest me, but if I was going to go there, reciprocal, sure.

When in a threesome, are you the type to draw a line across the other body with the agreement that ‘you can have that side and I’ll take this side’, or are you down for a free-for-all?
Ummmm. I going with this might be situation dependent?

Have you ever been in a threesome that pushed your boundaries? Would you like to be?
Nope.

Nope.

 

[hotwords229_A]

So you and your partner have talked it over and decided to have a threesome . . .

How did you (or would you) go about finding a third person?

This is a mystery to me. I suppose it’s just something that has to happen when lightening strikes with just the right people.

Have you ever been turned down by a friend or neighbor when inviting them for a threesome? How awkward was it after that?

I have not. But I’m also now realizing that my friends and neighbors have never invited me into a threesome either.
I need to get better friends and neighbors.

Are (or would) your threesomes be reciprocal, meaning, for example, if she agrees to another woman will you agree to another man?

Sure.

When in a threesome, are you the type to draw a line across the other body with the agreement that ‘you can have that side and I’ll take this side’, or are you down for a free-for-all?

I think it can only work as a free for all. I don’t know how you can stick to the rules when in the moment.

Have you ever been in a threesome that pushed your boundaries? Would you like to be?

No and Yes!

 

[Apisto42]

So you and your partner have talked it over and decided to have a threesome . . .

How did you (or would you) go about finding a third person?

Nope. Seems sticky in not a good way.

Have you ever been turned down by a friend or neighbor when inviting them for a threesome? How awkward was it after that?

Nope. Been asked to a couple. Said no. I slightly regret one of those, but not much. As in, if I had the ability to go back in time, I wouldn’t change my answer.

Are (or would) your threesomes be reciprocal, meaning, for example, if she agrees to another woman will you agree to another man?

Hypothetically, I think the MFM is probably the more enjoyable scenario.

When in a threesome, are you the type to draw a line across the other body with the agreement that ‘you can have that side and I’ll take this side’, or are you down for a free-for-all?

I don’t understand the question. I think any group setting would need to be a free for all for me to enjoy.

Have you ever been in a threesome that pushed your boundaries? Would you like to be?

Eh. @aussiegeekygal could probably make it exciting.

How did you (or would you) go about finding a third person?
I've sorta had a threesome.

(Falling asleep before it gets started still counts, right? )

How am I not surprised?

 

[Endless_Night]

How am I not surprised?

 

[hotwords229_A]

if I had the ability to go back in time, I wouldn’t change my answer.

Not even to change your answer to, “I’m not interested, but I know this guy @hotwords229_A” ?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

How did you (or would you) go about finding a third person?

I feel like the only way that I’d want a threesome to happen would be for it to just occur naturally one evening rather than be a planned event. If I went into an evening thinking “Tonight! I shall have the threesome!”, I would psyche myself out and overthink my way out of any enjoyment of it. I would work myself up, and not in a good way, trying to figure out how to make it sexy and in the process take all the fun out of it for myself.

Have you ever been turned down by a friend or neighbor when inviting them for a threesome? How awkward was it after that?

No because it has never been an option. If so, I imagine it might be awkward for a while or something that we shrug off after a while. I’ve certainly acted a fool in front of my friends before and we’ve worked through it.

Are (or would) your threesomes be reciprocal, meaning, for example, if she agrees to another woman will you agree to another man?

This tit for tat seems to be a mood killer for me. Can things just happen naturally? If it turns into “well I did this for you, now you have to do this for me”…. Welllll actually wait a minute. That being in someone’s debt thing can be hot. Hmmm Let me think about this one.

When in a threesome, are you the type to draw a line across the other body with the agreement that ‘you can have that side and I’ll take this side’, or are you down for a free-for-all?

I can see both sides of this. (Heh, get it?). Ahem.. ok I think that if I was participating in a threesome, I might go into it with some ground rules with my partner. There are some things that are only for him, and I want a man who values me in that way. If everything is on the table, that’s not the type of man I want. I need to know that I’m special to him.

Have you ever been in a threesome that pushed your boundaries? Would you like to be?

The idea of MFM is super hot. I’m not sure if it would be in reality, but it has always been at the top of my fantasies. It probably needs to stay there.

 

[hotwords229_A]

If everything is on the table, that’s not the type of man I want. I need to know that I’m special to him.

This is my problem with threesomes as well. I don’t think I could do it with someone I love. I think threesomes are better with sexy friends where it is purely for the pleasure.

You’re right, it’s probably better left to fantasy.

 

[Apisto42]

Not even to change your answer to, “I’m not interested, but I know this guy @hotwords229_A” ?

Ha

You caught me in an off year. Next year I’ll go back in time and say, “this sounds great, I’ve got a buddy that wants to join us.”