Climaxing During Intercourse

[GoodnessO]

Different folks for different strokes (pun intended). I've found that changing the position, angle of entry or rotating my hips so that I'm grinding against the clitoris helps with women who struggle to orgasm during penetration.
I'm not shy about asking a woman what she likes and then trying to use that information to show her a good time.
I'm not big at all, decidedly average, but I am athletic and strong so I can always find a position that gets my partner off. That's not being boastful, it's just a fact. It's about 25- 30 years since I've been with a woman who I wasn't able to give an orgasm to during intercourse.

Yeah, grind, baby.

 

[OneEyedSteve]

I've only used it solo. But I'd try it with a man, if he doesn't have a large cock.

Funnily enough we got one of these yesterday. I didn't get much out of it, but it increased her pleasure once I had the right angle of entry to press the external part against her clitoris (she had 4/5 orgasms in about 10 minutes once I'd worked it out). Will be fun to try it with one of our DP toys thrown into the mix

 

[GoodnessO]

Funnily enough we got one of these yesterday. I didn't get much out of it, but it increased her pleasure once I had the right angle of entry to press the external part against her clitoris (she had 4/5 orgasms in about 10 minutes once I'd worked it out). Will be fun to try it with one of our DP toys thrown into the mix

I found that I like to use that Wee-Vibe "backwards" when using it solo. Meaning I insert the more rounded part that has the vibrator, into my vagina, & then the more flat end is against my glans clit.

 

[discjockey74]

I found that I like to use that Wee-Vibe "backwards" when using it solo. Meaning I insert the more rounded part that has the vibrator, into my vagina, & then the more flat end is against my glans clit.

I am imagining this!!

 

[OneEyedSteve]

I found that I like to use that Wee-Vibe "backwards" when using it solo. Meaning I insert the more rounded part that has the vibrator, into my vagina, & then the more flat end is against my glans clit.

That's exactly what my wife did yesterday when she tried it out alone. She said it's ok, but once I joined it became apparent what it's main usage will be. She's got a boxful of toys to keep her entertained when she's alone. Women are so lucky

 

[NxtLvlHuman]

I also have a Wee-Vibe, Chorus model... designed for use on it's own, or in addition to other penetration or play (such as a live cock, or even some sort of dildo, or oral). So far I've only used it solo, & with no other toys. I think it would be great to use if the male partner doesn't have a huge cock.

It can really be a game changer!

 

[lil_jenni]

I wanted to reiterate five things (and there are more, but these are the five I like) that I think guys should take from the recent series of posts here.

1. Every woman is different, so what works with one may not work with another.
2. That variation is probably greater in range than you think, because, with a few outliers, what works to get one guy off will be at least similar to what works for another, and thus I think its difficult for a lot of guys to comprehend how different women may be from each other.
3. If a woman isn't relaxed, she likely is not going to climax. However, please note that what relaxes one woman may not relax another. I know that sounds confusing, and I am sure it is, but here's a hint -- fucking talk to each other. It will do wonders. Oh, and take the time to explore with her. That's what I do when I am with a new female lover--I take my time to explore and communicate. With guys, I used to show my boobies (and/or ass) and ask if they wanted a blowie, and that got them pretty much half way to cum town. Then a few test moves, gauged what they liked, and went at it. I'm not syaing guys are simple, but... yeah...
4. If a woman can climax with you in any way, take the fucking win. Don't worry if it is not the way you want it to happen. Don't worry about it if you think your tongue or cock or fingers are magic but she like/needs it a different way. Take the fucking win, period.
5. Make it fun. People get too fucking serious about fucking. Yeah, it might mean everything with someone you love, but it should be fun too. Make it fun. She might not come from PIV sex, but I bet she will enjoy it if you make it fun for both of you, especially if you can help her climax another way as part of the fun.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I can generally climax from insertion only, but rubbing my clit (or grinding it against his pelvis if I'm on top), pinching a nipple, etc. is all a part of the experience. Staring into his eyes and seeing them dilate as he gets closer to cumming makes me want to cum even more.

 

[Eyelevel]

I am so big I can climax and then make my partner climax with my soft cock. Can all men do this?

 

[GoodnessO]

I am so big I can climax and then make my partner climax with my soft cock. Can all men do this?

Whether all men can do it? I'd say probably not exactly. But a woman might be able to cum on a soft cock... I've done it more than once.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Whether all men can do it? I'd say probably not exactly. But a woman might be able to cum on a soft cock... I've done it more than once.

This. I don't have a ton of experience cumming on a soft cock (as my partners have generally remained hard even after they've cum) but the few times I have, it's been perfectly fine.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

I can generally climax from insertion only, but rubbing my clit (or grinding it against his pelvis if I'm on top), pinching a nipple, etc. is all a part of the experience. Staring into his eyes and seeing them dilate as he gets closer to cumming makes me want to cum even more.

Mmmmmmm!!!!!! That's very sensual, hot and erotic to make me very aroused/horny to want you to do what you need to climax with me..

 

[NaughtyPartyGirl]

I'm really good at faking it. Meg Ryan has nothing on me!

 

[GoodnessO]

I'm really good at faking it. Meg Ryan has nothing on me!

That topic could kickoff a new thread: Why do women fake orgasms?

 

[NaughtyPartyGirl]

That topic could kickoff a new thread: Why do women fake orgasms?

Great idea. Think I'll start it.

 

[NaughtyPartyGirl]

If I'm on top and in control of the movements I can orgasm most of the time.

Amen. Easy to rub the clit against his pubic bone or pubic hair.

 

[GoodnessO]

Great idea. Think I'll start it.

The Lioness website has a good article about it (why women fake orgasms). Lots of other great articles there, too.

 

[Slickflboy07]

I'm fortunate in that I orgasm easily. My nipples are very sensitive and I can orgasm from just nipple play. I have found that with proper foreplay and getting me really worked up, then I will climax from penetration nearly every time, and usually more than once. I also, at times, can get rolling orgasms, where one just rolls into another one in a short amount of time. The intensity varies.

I bet the hubby loves this about you!

 

[KimberlyG]

I bet the hubby loves this about you!

Yes, he does.

 

[Slickflboy07]

Yes, he does.

Very lucky guy!

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

I'm fortunate in that I orgasm easily. My nipples are very sensitive and I can orgasm from just nipple play. I have found that with proper foreplay and getting me really worked up, then I will climax from penetration nearly every time, and usually more than once. I also, at times, can get rolling orgasms, where one just rolls into another one in a short amount of time. The intensity varies.

Ooooooo!!!! I would love to see your facial and body expressions as you climax!!!

 

[KimberlyG]

Ooooooo!!!! I would love to see your facial and body expressions as you climax!!!

And the accompanying moans and screams.

 

[Ellies_adventures]

99% of the time my wife will orgasm prior to penetrative, via oral, toy or fingers. Sometimes a bite on the neck, licking ears or talking dirty will push her over the edge. She always needs piv afterwards, and sometimes gets close to another orgasm when I'm about to cum but seldom gets there. If we have time, I will lick her pussy clean afterwords which often brings another orgasm on her her

 

[latinloverboy6913]

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?

I always like to lick a girl's pussy because I Love to eat pussy and we both have a n orgasim

 

[Slickflboy07]

And the accompanying moans and screams.

Mmm… perfect!!!