I did the same many times.When my wife was away, before online porn, I used to rent a stack of porn VHS (later DVDs) and just get comfy and enjoy them while jerking off for hours. (I understand they call that 'edging' now.) I would just exhaust myself. When she would get home, I knew the last thing she would want is sex, so I had more than enough time to 'recover' before she would want any.