🌟📬THE JULY PM CHALLENGE📬 :: Year Five📮🌟

If you currently have your glasses and pencil skirt on, were the days with no tickets a oversight or intentional?

And if you say intentional, is that genuine intentional, or fuck off Salty?

It's messing with my excel formulas having blanks 😜
Well as I usually drag myself out of my warm bed to post these challenges for you guys - before coffee or masturbation or anything! - I can see that sometimes I do forget that very important detail by mistake.
I will got back and correct that. Thank you so much Salty for correcting me publicly, it really does something to me.
 
Well as I usually drag myself out of my warm bed to post these challenges for you guys - before coffee or masturbation or anything! - I can see that sometimes I do forget that very important detail by mistake.
I will got back and correct that. Thank you so much Salty for correcting me publicly, it really does something to me.
So it was "fuck off Salty"

Gotcha 🫡
 
Day 13 PM sent!
Do I really only have to pick one thing I love about Lit? There's so much that keeps me coming back here.
I love having a place to meet smart and interesting people with so many different life experiences and backgrounds... I'm always learning something new here. Plus, boobs.
One thing I'd change... I wish it was easier to send pics via PM. Although I can see why that might be easily abused (I can just imagine dong pics flying everywhere). But for those of us who don't intend to send dong pics to unsuspecting victims it's a bit of a pain that we have to find other ways to share images outside of the boards.
 
Done

I know I'm shouting into the void with this one and it won't be read, but 🤷🏼‍♂️

😔

One thing I love about lit? I've never found a place like it to be creative and meet other creative types. Even though my creativity isn't really that welcome here anymore.

Something I'd change? The random and excessive waits to get a AV change through on here 🙄
 
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PM CHALLENGE - DAY TWELVE

PM at least one Litster whom you admire and let them know why you admire them so!

1. There are so many reasons to admire people on Lit - their creativity, the way they express their sexuality, how they enforce their boundaries, something specific they've done for you - let that admirable person in your life know how much you admire them.
2. Once you've sent your PM come tell us three qualities in a person that you find admirable and collect TEN prize tickets!


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Day 12 - Done!

People have come and gone in my life that helped me grow and they all had the same qualities. They were empathic to the world around them, they were motivated to reach their goals, and they never pushed personal relationships aside for career opportunities.
 
PM sent

The thing I love the most about Lit is it, to me anyway, seems like the most unlikely of spaces for such an interesting, funny, smart, and hot group of individuals to have gathered and formed a community. I also love that it's ad and algorithm free. A place that is a true reflection of the people who use it.

If I could change anything it would be to be able to block people properly instead of just ignore them. That or an eye roll reaction! I'd use that mercilessly!
 
This is certainly going to further expose me as being stupid about things apparently everyone else knows, but who are the moderators? Thanks.
 
...... and algorithm free.
I don't know that I'd ever clearly thought about this but you are so right!!
This is certainly going to further expose me as being stupid about things apparently everyone else knows, but who are the moderators? Thanks.

Look at the very top of the forum. You'll them listed. ToPleaseHim is the mod for the Playground
 
done.

I like lit due to it enabling me to come across people that I never would have met in other circumstances. The stripper from Milwaukee. The sex worker from Nottingham. The adult film star from Adelaide. Are just some of the people I've yet to meet. But I like all of you bored home people, office workers, IT analysts and project managers. From foreign places no less. Who'd have thunk it?
 
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PM CHALLENGE - DAY NINE

PM at least one Litster and be little bit nosey with a question you've been dying to ask.

1. Remember no one owes you an answer or reply
BUT if you never ask you'll never know!
2. Your nosiness can be a question about the person directly or their opinion on something - think creatively.

3. Once you've sent your nosey message come let us know and tell us a topic you're always nosey to know more about for SEVEN prize tickets!

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I'm going to claim this one as done, a few days late. But I usually ask people that I DM with how they came to Lit and what their initial Lit story is, which I've done with a couple of new people since this challenge started, so that counts, right?

So that's also my answer to #3 - how did you find Lit & what made you come to & join in the forums?

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PM CHALLENGE - DAY TEN

PM at least one Litster who has caught your eye for some reason but you've never had a reason to say hello to

1. I know figuring out an angle to start a PM can be difficult but here's your chance! Just - "I'm doing this challenge and you're the one who's caught my eye!" Maybe even tell them what they've done to catch your eye
2. Take a look around Lit and really see the people and what the post. There are many diamond's in the rough among the quieter posters.

3. Once you've send your PM come tell us and tell us what color your eyes are for THREE prize tickets.

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Ok, done! My eyes are green:

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PM CHALLENGE - DAY ELEVEN

PM at least one Litster with a "it's the thought that counts" present!

1. You're sending a link or a picture of a gift you'd send your Litster if money and shipping and privacy
didn't matter at all.
2. Remember this should an item because experiences may be a challenge in the future. Remember there are no limits! You could send someone a famous work of art, a million dollar diamond, something practical they've mentioned, something sexy you'd like to see them in! Use your brain cells while you have 'em!
3. Once you've sent your present, come let us know by telling us one of the best gifts you've ever received to collect SEVEN prize tickets!


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Ok, and done! My best gift that I've been given was the gift of someone's time... for my 30th birthday I was supposed to go to NYC with a friend to see some other friends, but I got super sick & couldn't go. The friend I was supposed to travel with had come to Boston from another country and was planning to see her sister along with our other friends in NYC, but she decided to stay in Boston with me even though I'm sure I wasn't very good company! But she cooked for me and we watched movies for the weekend, and I'm sure I would have been feeling very sorry for myself if I had been sick and alone on my 30th!
 
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PM CHALLENGE - DAY TWELVE

PM at least one Litster whom you admire and let them know why you admire them so!

1. There are so many reasons to admire people on Lit - their creativity, the way they express their sexuality, how they enforce their boundaries, something specific they've done for you - let that admirable person in your life know how much you admire them.
2. Once you've sent your PM come tell us three qualities in a person that you find admirable and collect TEN prize tickets!


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And done! I think I'm all caught up. The thing I love about Lit is like a lot of people have said - it's a place to meet people you'd never meet in the real world. And I also find it very freeing because sex is, mostly, just treated as a natural part of life here. Which it is, of course, but I come from being raised Catholic, in a house where sex is NOT TALKED ABOUT (even now, although none of us are Catholic anymore) at all and was always made to seem this huge taboo thing that decent people just don't mention. So I love having a place where it's given its proper place as a natural part of life.
 
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PM CHALLENGE - DAY TWELVE

PM at least one Litster whom you admire and let them know why you admire them so!

1. There are so many reasons to admire people on Lit - their creativity, the way they express their sexuality, how they enforce their boundaries, something specific they've done for you - let that admirable person in your life know how much you admire them.
2. Once you've sent your PM come tell us three qualities in a person that you find admirable and collect TEN prize tickets!


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I sent mine for twelve.

Three qualities I admire are: genuine, funny, and honest

ETA I suppose genuine and honest are synonyms so I’ll also add determined
 
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Once you've sent your PM come back and tell me one thing you love about Lit and one thing you'd change about Lit tomorrow if you could for EIGHT prize tickets.
What I love about lit is that I can largely be myself and not be judged for it. I can gap it when real life becomes too much and pick up where I left off.
I’d love the ability to make ourselves invisible to particular people. So instead of ignoring them we no longer exist 💨 🤔
 
I second that - as per my profile, I love that you can (virtually) meet people, have meaningful conversations and explore topics that it might simply not be possible to do so a lot of times when you do the equivalent meeting of people in the real world.

And absolutely, wrt a blanket block of people. I’d also find some way whereby people chatting one-on-one can leave whatever group they were in, thereby a) stopping them getting harassed speculatively by others when they don’t have time for it, and b) ideally making groups smaller but populated by people actually there to chat :)
 
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PM CHALLENGE - DAY FOURTEEN

PM at least one Lit Gentleman you appreciate.

1. It's Guy Appreciation Day around here and, while there are always a few bad apples, we are blessed with a group of smart, funny, sexy, thoughtful guys around here and it's time to let the men who add so much to Lit know it!
2. Appreciation isn't the same as a crush so - guys - please feel free to appreciate each other.

3. Once you PM your appreciation, come tell us some Lit gentlemen traits you love (let's highlight the good stuff!) and collect your SEVEN prize tickets.

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PM CHALLENGE - DAY FOURTEEN

PM at least one Lit Gentleman you appreciate.

1. It's Guy Appreciation Day around here and, while there are always a few bad apples, we are blessed with a group of smart, funny, sexy, thoughtful guys around here and it's time to let the men who add so much to Lit know it!
2. Appreciation isn't the same as a crush so - guys - please feel free to appreciate each other.

3. Once you PM your appreciation, come tell us some Lit gentlemen traits you love (let's highlight the good stuff!) and collect your SEVEN prize tickets.

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Done 1 so far. Traits I appreciate, perseverance, respectfulness and kindness.
 
Day 13 - Done!

What more can I say that hasn't been shared already? How else would I expand my circle beyond my immediate circle? It's been wonderful getting into the threads and learning about people.

Day 14 - Done!

There really are some great guys in here. I think, for me, the best personality traits I love seeing in a guy are: humor, thoughtfulness, and inquisitiveness.

There's a place and time for everything and done right, things can escalate wonderfully!
 
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