Cuckoldry and humiliation: a thread for women as well as men

[lily_wall_]

Will you marry me?

Ask me that in front of my husband please

I think maybe it's less complicated than you think. All of us (to varying degrees) have multifaceted minds. I'm guessing there's a portion of your mind — a more conventional and socialized part — let's call that part Miss Morals — that is uncomfortable with these things you — the darker, earthier you —have done, and even more so, with the things you want to do. Talking with your friend, seeing your own apettites externalized, sort of confronts Miss Morals with those things, with uncomfortable results. All of us project sometimes. In this case, it looks to me as if Miss Morals is projecting the anger she feels toward Darker Earthier You outward at your friend. Doing that makes it at least somewhat more comfortable.

You're good at analyzing.
The target matters too, I guess. She talking about her boyfriend vs someone talking about my husband

 

[liqueur]

You're good at analyzing.

Thanks

The target matters too, I guess. She talking about her boyfriend vs someone talking about my husband

Interesting insight. Now my mind is fascinated with that thought. Wondering how it would feel if (with your encouragement) she were putting down your husband in that manner. Would it make you angry? Aroused? Both?

 

[lily_wall_]

Basically a therapist. You help me explore without curing so you could tell me to schedule more sessions

This is a joke btw. Therapist can help even by just listening to you and let you ramble on. That's more help than some get

 

[lily_wall_]

Thanks

Interesting insight. Now my mind is fascinated with that thought. Wondering how it would feel if (with your encouragement) she were putting down your husband in that manner. Would it make you angry? Aroused? Both?

She has before and since that brunch, but it was just the two of us when she did, no other friend or acquaintance or stranger. Even when I've encoraged my luvers, it was only between the two of us, no third person. They all made had me aroused

 

[13Fantasies]

Okay y'all be my therapist...

My fantasies go wild and dark and I've opened up about it in a few in other threads. One of them is cucking my husband. And cuck him hard. I want to humiliate him, degrade him, deny him pussy and when he gets desperate, I want to give him a choice of tasting me on my luver's cock. I want him to take that choice, hesitatingly at first, then be okay with, then eventually crave my pussy juice on another cock. I want him to feel weird about the idea of tasting me directly, it must always be from another cock. When my luver is away, and my husband wants a taste of me, I want him to go try find a man to fuck me. I want him to ask his friends, and I want his friends to laugh at him as they take turns in me. I want our neighbors to know, and the whole street, and people at grocery checkout, that my husband is a cuck. I want others to question maybe he really just likes cock, maybe he's bi, or gay, sissy. Yes and no. He's not any of them, but if a cock is covered in my juices, then he's all of them... My fantasy wanders on and on, and gets more and more humiliating for my husband.

All that will remain a fantasy. My wonderful husband is not into it and I will never want him to do something just for me. It has to be for both of us. But now that you have an idea of what I like, here's a real life situation that happened a few years ago.

Me and two of my girlfriends were having brunch and the conversation led to one of them telling us about the new guy she hooked up with. She kept comparing him to her boyfriend. The more she kept insulting her boyfriend, the more irritated I got. I wanted to slap the grin off her face. Sitting there, I was disgusted at her. On my walk back, I kept thinking about it, and as I calmed down, I was confused as to why I was feeling that way. Cucking a man is clearly my fetish, I should have enjoyed it. I have slept with men who understood this side of me and we would talk about my husband in a way that drives me crazy (her boyfriend being one of those men, she doesn't know). And still when someone else does this, I fucking hate it.

Amateur therapist of lit, explain that please lol

You know I'll cuck your husband every day of the week. Your girl friends ' husbands/boyfriends too.

 

[lily_wall_]

You know I'll cuck your husband every day of the week. Your girl friends ' husbands/boyfriends too.

I know you're eager and capable. You don't have to tell me lol

 

[liqueur]

She has before and since that brunch, but it was just the two of us when she did, no other friend or acquaintance or stranger. Even when I've encoraged my luvers, it was only between the two of us, no third person. They all made had me aroused

The thought of women talking together about their husbands/boyfriends that way arouses me. The thought of them being aroused by that talk arouses me ten times more. Because— i guess— I like to imagine them talking about me that way.

 

[bearzfan1985]

Cuckolding is broad like many things in life. I am not into being told how worthless I am or told to enjoy the "cream pie" left behind. For me, the ultimate with this fantasy is learning either from my wife or the other man how strongly my wife responded to the other man's cock. Knowing she started out not that interested, but in the end, everyone knew that the other man owned her pussy.

 

[TryingTooHard]

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/26/4a/f1/264af18fe27586a0a73c03f7e0144e75.jpg

 

[TryingTooHard]

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[TryingTooHard]

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[TryingTooHard]

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[TryingTooHard]

There seems to be a very lively interest in many threads about cuckoldry & cheating, and all their various ass-pects. So I thought I'd post my own question. I’d love to hear from both women with step out on their own, and the men who love them for it.

My question is about humiliation. I myself have had a lifelong kink for humiliation, and I think the humiliation that I've experienced in cuckold-type situations is what first turned me on to it. There are other things about it that also turn me on, but humiliation is by far the biggest factor. How about you?
Does humiliating him, or being humiliated by her, turn you on?
Or is it just the general sexiness and freedom from constraints that does it for you? Or something else?

I agree with you that humiliation is the most intense sexual emotion that I experience whenever my wife is fucked by her ex boyfriend. He knows that I have a submissive streak and he exploits it. Fully.

My wife humiliates me in her own way, not only when Steve is around but also when we are alone together.

 

[zach55]

Okay y'all be my therapist...

My fantasies go wild and dark and I've opened up about it in a few in other threads. One of them is cucking my husband. And cuck him hard. I want to humiliate him, degrade him, deny him pussy and when he gets desperate, I want to give him a choice of tasting me on my luver's cock. I want him to take that choice, hesitatingly at first, then be okay with, then eventually crave my pussy juice on another cock. I want him to feel weird about the idea of tasting me directly, it must always be from another cock. When my luver is away, and my husband wants a taste of me, I want him to go try find a man to fuck me. I want him to ask his friends, and I want his friends to laugh at him as they take turns in me. I want our neighbors to know, and the whole street, and people at grocery checkout, that my husband is a cuck. I want others to question maybe he really just likes cock, maybe he's bi, or gay, sissy. Yes and no. He's not any of them, but if a cock is covered in my juices, then he's all of them... My fantasy wanders on and on, and gets more and more humiliating for my husband.

All that will remain a fantasy. My wonderful husband is not into it and I will never want him to do something just for me. It has to be for both of us. But now that you have an idea of what I like, here's a real life situation that happened a few years ago.

Me and two of my girlfriends were having brunch and the conversation led to one of them telling us about the new guy she hooked up with. She kept comparing him to her boyfriend. The more she kept insulting her boyfriend, the more irritated I got. I wanted to slap the grin off her face. Sitting there, I was disgusted at her. On my walk back, I kept thinking about it, and as I calmed down, I was confused as to why I was feeling that way. Cucking a man is clearly my fetish, I should have enjoyed it. I have slept with men who understood this side of me and we would talk about my husband in a way that drives me crazy (her boyfriend being one of those men, she doesn't know). And still when someone else does this, I fucking hate it.

Amateur therapist of lit, explain that please lol

This is a classic case of cuck envy! Your friend was describing your fetish and in your mind not fair! How dare she take something that is so special to you!

These fantasies are very important to us and even though knowing other people have them brings some comfort, we still want them to be what sets us apart!

Our time is up for today! I think in our next session we will explore some of your other fantasies and maybe try a little role play to help bring them to light!

 

[Ed_Sumner]

I agree with you that humiliation is the most intense sexual emotion that I experience whenever my wife is fucked by her ex boyfriend. He knows that I have a submissive streak and he exploits it. Fully.

My wife humiliates me in her own way, not only when Steve is around but also when we are alone together.

I can vouch. The humiliation I've experienced as a result of my wife's rampant cheating with a tall, muscular, cocky, big-dicked single stud has brought me the most intense, powerful arousal and mind-blowing orgasms. I never imagined this level of sexual pleasure could even exist.

 

[TryingTooHard]

I can vouch. The humiliation I've experienced as a result of my wife's rampant cheating with a tall, muscular, cocky, big-dicked single stud has brought me the most intense, powerful arousal and mind-blowing orgasms. I never imagined this level of sexual pleasure could even exist.

That is exactly right!

 

[liqueur]

The humiliation I've experienced as a result of my wife's rampant cheating with a tall, muscular, cocky, big-dicked single stud has brought me the most intense, powerful arousal and mind-blowing orgasms. I never imagined this level of sexual pleasure could even exist.

I can't remember, from some of your earlier posts elsewhere: is your wife aroused by your humiliation? Does she feed you his semen? Does she suggest it might be better if you swallowed it directly from the source? Or does she even know that you know?

 

[Ed_Sumner]

I can't remember, from some of your earlier posts elsewhere: is your wife aroused by your humiliation? Does she feed you his semen? Does she suggest it might be better if you swallowed it directly from the source? Or does she even know that you know?

She knows that I know - we had two separate confrontations after I found out, in two stages, the full extent of her cheating. She also knows (now) that, over time, my initial shock, hurt, anger and humiliation turned into intense arousal. It's taken some time for her to understand and get comfortable with the fact that my humiliation at her hands (and his) is such a powerful turn-on, but she's getting there. She hasn't admitted to being turned on by it herself, but there are signs that she is. In terms of "feeding me his semen," by the time she flies home from her business travel it's always the next day (or later), but at my request she avoids showering so I can still smell and taste him on her when I finally get to devour her well-used pussy. She's never suggested that I get it directly from the source and has no idea how often I fantasize about that. But it can't happen because he has no idea I found out, still thinks she's cheating, and we're intent on preserving this excellent, smoking hot status quo.

 

[liqueur]

She hasn't admitted to being turned on by it herself, but there are signs that she is.

My hunch, based on what I've seen and experienced personally, is that it may already turn her on more than she admits (or admits to herself). And that she will get more overt and explicit with it over time.

In terms of "feeding me his semen," by the time she flies home from her business travel it's always the next day (or later), but at my request she avoids showering so I can still smell and taste him on her...

To my way of being, the only thing hotter than the scent and taste of fresh-fucked pussy is once that has had time to steep

She's never suggested that I get it directly from the source and has no idea how often I fantasize about that. But it can't happen because he has no idea I found out, still thinks she's cheating, and we're intent on preserving this excellent, smoking hot status quo.

Completely understandable. But even so (in due time) it could lead to some intense fantasy talk while you're eating he pussy. Or even to her bringing home other strange cock to you some day, if the humiliation aspect turns her on enough.

 

[SPARTAN047]

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/quarterlyamusedcatfish#rel=user:klops123;order=new

 

[liqueur]

I do wish it were possible to make threads where posting image and video links was impossible. This is a discussion thread, not a porn collection

 

[Markafterdark]

I’m genuinely amused by your peacock like confidence in asserting your point. I hope someone else triggers you to share more.

I hope not