Cock Talk

[NC_Coastal]

Was sex openly discussed or acknowledged in your household?
No. I was raised Southern Baptist.

Did you discover your Dad’s Playboys? Your Mom’s Playgirls? Watch R-rated movies you weren’t supposed to watch? Did you hack the parental controls? What was your introduction into sexy stuff?
My uncle had a stack of Playboys and erotic paperbacks stacked in his basement closet. I found them when I was 12 or 13.

Now that you’re older than 18, do you realize that everyone knew you were masturbating, or were you a Ninja Bean Flicker/Wang Cranker?
LOL. Never entered my mind.

How did you hide your porn? Did you hide it? What was it?
I might've taken a few magazines and books from my uncle's stash. I kept them in the back of my closet.

Compared to today, have your masturbation fantasies matured, remained the same or completely changed from when you were 18?
Depends on where my sex life was at the time. But my fantasies have evolved to include many fantasies than came true.

How did “the talk” go? Did you have “the talk” or was your sexual knowledge entirely learned from the locker room until you finally had sex when you were 35?
Never heard "the talk." Everything I learned was from friends, teammates and girlfriends.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

They really should lol. We’ve had the bush talk so I won’t bring it up again, but these past few months idk, I like playing with my pubic hair I’m planning a wax and I’m gonna miss these babies.

Babies is sorta a weird term for it. But I guess I understand.

 

[EvaLane]

Babies is sorta a weird term for it. But I guess I understand.

They’re only a few months old which begs the question - do pubes have a different reference of time, sort of like dog years? Pube years?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Literotica Fact states that all of our sexual awakenings did NOT happen until our 18th birthdays and that FACT will not be disputed here.

*all of these questions, and your subsequent answers, take place after your 18th birthday.

Was sex openly discussed or acknowledged in your household?

Only in that is was something I should avoid and they wish they'd avoided because sexy leads to kids and kids will ruin your liiiiiife.
I was given a book and left to the burgeoning internet. <cue PLP>

Did you discover your Dad’s Playboys? Your Mom’s Playgirls? Watch R-rated movies you weren’t supposed to watch? Did you hack the parental controls? What was your introduction into sexy stuff?

I remember seeing a Hustler when I went with my dad to get a haircut once. It was traumatizing at the time. Not because it was connected to something he might have seen but because everyone looked so angry! I associated sex with that attitude for a long time I think. <cue PLP> I remember watching the blurry soft core channels we didn't get and everyone once and while catching a nipple and most, I remember a girl in my gym class printing out stories from Lit to pass around. Words were always the way into my erotic imagination <cue.... ok I'll stop>

Now that you’re older than 18, do you realize that everyone knew you were masturbating, or were you a Ninja Bean Flicker/Wang Cranker?

I don't think that anyone thought that then...it was certainly never discussed openly.

How did you hide your porn? Did you hide it? What was it?

This is so embarrassing but I remember taking some of the printed stories home and umm... "reading" to them and then spending 15 minutes tearing the pages into confetti sized garbage before I threw it away. The fear and shame was real <...>

Compared to today, have your masturbation fantasies matured, remained the same or completely changed from when you were 18?

There's been a lot of change and growth and understanding but I realized last night when talking to someone... some specific things were with me from the beginning. Brains are weird!

How did “the talk” go? Did you have “the talk” or was your sexual knowledge entirely learned from the locker room until you finally had sex when you were 35?

I was given a book and didn't really get into anything afterwards. Until the night before I got married and my mother decided she needed to prepare my virginal brain. Lol, she had nothing to worry about, by then I was an expert on a great many things but it's cute that she thought I was still such a good girl.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

They’re only a few months old which begs the question - do pubes have a different reference of time, sort of like dog years? Pube years?

Does it really beg that question? I’m not sure it does. I’m pretty sure you’re the only one who leapt from one to the other.

But sure. It’s as good as any other arbitrary time frame I guess. The question would have to be what the universal standard pube year would be. Is there a physical phenomenon we can define it in reference to or do we have to designate a queen pube against which all pube years are measured.

I bet @aussiegeekygal has thoughts. She read the book!

 

[MindYaBitness]

Only in that is was something I should avoid and they wish they'd avoided because sexy leads to kids and kids will ruin your liiiiiife.
I was given a book and left to the burgeoning internet. <cue PLP>

I remember seeing a Hustler when I went with my dad to get a haircut once. It was traumatizing at the time. Not because it was connected to something he might have seen but because everyone looked so angry! I associated sex with that attitude for a long time I think. <cue PLP> I remember watching the blurry soft core channels we didn't get and everyone once and while catching a nipple and most, I remember a girl in my gym class printing out stories from Lit to pass around. Words were always the way into my erotic imagination <cue.... ok I'll stop>

I don't think that anyone thought that then...it was certainly never discussed openly.

This is so embarrassing but I remember taking some of the printed stories home and umm... "reading" to them and then spending 15 minutes tearing the pages into confetti sized garbage before I threw it away. The fear and shame was real <...>

There's been a lot of change and growth and understanding but I realized last night when talking to someone... some specific things were with me from the beginning. Brains are weird!

I was given a book and didn't really get into anything afterwards. Until the night before I got married and my mother decided she needed to prepare my virginal brain. Lol, she had nothing to worry about, by then I was an expert on a great many things but it's cute that she thought I was still such a good girl.

My mom's wedding lecture is still my favorite, "I don't care if you've got the dirtiest, nastiest crotchless underwear, and he's the one wearing them! What goes on in that bedroom is between the two of you and no one else. Relax & have fun!"

 

[peekingone]

My mom's wedding lecture is still my favorite, "I don't care if you've got dirtiest, nastiest crotchless underwear, and he's the one wearing them! What goes on that bedroom is between the two of you and no one else. Relax & have fun!"

You post any of those panties you might get tossed of Lit Keep those under your hat so we can keep you hear.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Does it really beg that question? I’m not sure it does. I’m pretty sure you’re the only one who leapt from one to the other.

But sure. It’s as good as any other arbitrary time frame I guess. The question would have to be what the universal standard pube year would be. Is there a physical phenomenon we can define it in reference to or do we have to designate a queen pube against which all pube years are measured.

I bet @aussiegeekygal has thoughts. She read the book!

I wrote the book, my man

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I wrote the book, my man

I meant the book on weights and measures not growing pubes.

Wait…did you write both?!?!?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Literotica Fact states that all of our sexual awakenings did NOT happen until our 18th birthdays and that FACT will not be disputed here.

*all of these questions, and your subsequent answers, take place after your 18th birthday.

Absolutely!

Was sex openly discussed or acknowledged in your household?

No and then yes. At first, no. It was handled with those books with cartoony pictures and the message “if you have questions, just ask”.

But then, when I was in love for the first time and I thought that hey…I might be pregnant, well then we had lots of talks! (It turns out I wasn’t). But then I got lots of talks about oral sex! Hey! Did you know there is a thing called oral sex?? It’s great fun! All the kids are doing it! So, yeah, after that, it put things into perspective.

Did you discover your Dad’s Playboys?

Penthouses! Yes. My parents were divorced and when I’d visit my dad’s house and he’d leave for work, I’d make a beeline for the stack of magazines.
“Dear Penthouse,
You’ll never guess what happened to me today…There I was in my garage, minding my own business when my neighbor showed up out of the blue. She was wearing this flimsy blouse and no bra. It was a hot August day, and I could just make out her nipples on her glistening breasts beneath the linen cloth…”
I think my reading comprehension skills skyrocketed after my weeks at my dad’s house. I certainly got lots of extra reading practice.

Your Mom’s Playgirls?

Watch R-rated movies you weren’t supposed to watch?

Back to dad’s house. He had VHS tapes galore. I tried one of those movies and I was like OOOO MMMYYYY GGOOODD. what did I just find?? So I watched lots of 1980s people having sex. It was eye opening to say the least. So I invited my best friend over to show her what I discovered. But she did not have the same reaction that I did. She was pretty repulsed. So I quickly ejected the tape and didn’t try sharing that stuff again. that was sort of when I realized I was a little strange about my interests.

Did you hack the parental controls? What was your introduction into sexy stuff?

Nope, just what I shared above.

Now that you’re older than 18, do you realize that everyone knew you were masturbating, or were you a Ninja Bean Flicker/Wang Cranker?
How did you hide your porn? Did you hide it? What was it?

I didn’t hide it but I went to great lengths to not get caught.

Compared to today, have your masturbation fantasies matured, remained the same or completely changed from when you were 18?

I have a plethora of fantasies. Sometimes the less common ones don’t take off and that’s ok. I have plenty to go around.

How did “the talk” go? Did you have “the talk” or was your sexual knowledge entirely learned from the locker room until you finally had sex when you were 35?

A little late but overall I was proud of my mom going to the oral sex conversation. I don’t think everyone would have.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

. So I invited my best friend over to show her what I discovered. But she did not have the same reaction that I did. She was pretty repulsed. So I quickly ejected the tape and didn’t try sharing that stuff again.

this reminds me of a small story about my dads tapes. They were some mail order tapes that had multiple movies on one tape. One of the movies was a bisexual porn called Switch Hitters (I forget which number). It didn’t phase me much but wasn’t my thing I just fast forwarded to the scenes I wanted anyway. But I loaned it to a friend of mine and he next time I saw him he was aghast that I’d given him “gay porn” to watch . I was like, there was a lot of d in p on that tape. You didn’t have to watch the guys if it bothered you ?

 

[EvaLane]

Compared to today, have your masturbation fantasies matured, remained the same or completely changed from when you were 18?

Sooo, I’m going to go a little off-book here. Sorry to cut it short but really, my answers were starting to look stiff in all the worst ways. So! Why not shake that off and just have fun with this one

I’m actually giddy to announce… yes!!!

They’ve matured, finally. I can practically feel generations of my ancestors unclenching, whispering, “She did it!”

kind of

I mean, they have matured. They’re not quite as frantic or reckless. I don’t fantasize about being kidnapped, brutalized, and strung up on an altar for the greater good anymore…not nearly as often

Ok, ok, jokes asideeeee, it’s actually kind of nice, being able to get off on just being wanted and desired, but like, gently. Appreciated, maybe?

I wish I knew exactly when that shifted, when that kind of attention stopped making me all squeeky. It still does, but sometimes it doesn’t.

I think it’s the people, the ones I’m letting close now feel different than the ones I used to. Even writing that makes me a little… hmm. Nostalgic, maybe even a little, well.

Anywayyyy, the point is yes, my fantasies have matured and are still maturing. I’m excited for the summer

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Sooo, I’m going to go a little off-book here. Sorry to cut it short but really, my answers were starting to look stiff in all the worst ways. So! Why not shake that off and just have fun with this one

I’m actually giddy to announce… yes!!!

They’ve matured, finally. I can practically feel generations of my ancestors unclenching, whispering, “She did it!”

kind of

I mean, they have matured. They’re not quite as frantic or reckless. I don’t fantasize about being kidnapped, brutalized, and strung up on an altar for the greater good anymore…not nearly as often

Ok, ok, jokes asideeeee, it’s actually kind of nice, being able to get off on just being wanted and desired, but like, gently. Appreciated, maybe?

I wish I knew exactly when that shifted, when that kind of attention stopped making me all squeeky. It still does, but sometimes it doesn’t.

I think it’s the people, the ones I’m letting close now feel different than the ones I used to. Even writing that makes me a little… hmm. Nostalgic, maybe even a little, well.

Anywayyyy, the point is yes, my fantasies have matured and are still maturing. I’m excited for the summer

It took me to like the 5th paragraph to realized you weren’t still talking about your pubes.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Dear Penthouse,
You’ll never guess what happened to me today…There I was in my garage, minding my own business when my neighbor showed up out of the blue. She was wearing this flimsy blouse and no bra. It was a hot August day, and I could just make out her nipples on her glistening breasts beneath the linen cloth…

Go on . . .

 

[Mei5ter]

So I watched lots of 1980s people having sex.

I resemble that remark...

It was eye opening to say the least. So I invited my best friend over to show her what I discovered. But she did not have the same reaction that I did. She was pretty repulsed. So I quickly ejected the tape...

... and if that's a euphemism, I want to know what for.

No. But my bff’s dad had milk crates of penthouse letters, hustler and random strike mags in the attic. Very educational.

Milk crates. Interesting choice of container.

I mean, they have matured. They’re not quite as frantic or reckless. I don’t fantasize about being kidnapped, brutalized, and strung up on an altar for the greater good anymore…not nearly as often

Give it a few years, and they'll have matured to the level of "I fantasize about being still on speaking terms with my partner after an hour spent together in IKEA".

 

[Mei5ter]

Does it really beg that question? I’m not sure it does. I’m pretty sure you’re the only one who leapt from one to the other.

But sure. It’s as good as any other arbitrary time frame I guess. The question would have to be what the universal standard pube year would be. Is there a physical phenomenon we can define it in reference to or do we have to designate a queen pube against which all pube years are measured.

I bet @aussiegeekygal has thoughts. She read the book!

Pube dendrochronology?

 

[Apisto42]

I love this!

Hahaha! Wood shop.

Mine neither. In fact, I don’t think any of our moms did.
I think all of our dads fucked a stork or something.

That’s like . . . the very first place everyone looks!!!

As I mentioned, I was responsible for my laundry, so I was the only one changing the sheets.

 

[Apisto42]

We found a copy of the Joy of Sex in a closet of a rental house we moved into. It was hilarious. The guy was so hairy, hairier than my dad, and he's an ape! I thought it was very unattractive. Now, I'm grossed out by guys who shave everything, not manscape, but those who go full bald. Adult men should have some body hair!

I’m pretty open to lovers doing whatever they want with their own body and body hair. At the age I was when I first read Joy of Sex, it was the mid/late 80’s and seeing illustrations of women with copious armpit hair and leg hair (I think this was the original printing so late 60’s?) was a bit strange. But the weirdest part was the book talking about how the armpit is one of the bodies strongest erogenous zones and a good lover should pay attention to that area. With touching, kissing, smelling and licking.

Out of all of the things I learned from that book, i have not utilized that section.

 

[morelikeasong]

Was sex openly discussed or acknowledged in your household?

Not at all.

Did you discover your Dad’s Playboys? Your Mom’s Playgirls? Watch R-rated movies you weren’t supposed to watch?

No magazines in my house. One time we were at a family friend’s house and some of the older kids were watching Austin Powers. I remember sneaking in the room to watch some of that and thinking it was pretty taboo

Did you hack the parental controls?

I don’t think those existed? But also we didn’t have cable tv. I do remember getting drunk at a friend’s house and watching late night porn, laughing at the storyline, and then all covering our eyes and changing the channel at the sex parts

What was your introduction into sexy stuff?

Hmm… maybe MSN chat rooms

Now that you’re older than 18, do you realize that everyone knew you were masturbating, or were you a Ninja Bean Flicker/Wang Cranker?

Nooooo I think I was pretty covert.

How did you hide your porn? Did you hide it? What was it?

I didn’t look at porn until I was in my early 20s

Compared to today, have your masturbation fantasies matured, remained the same or completely changed from when you were 18?

Back then I didn’t really masturbate to fantasies. Or to porn. Purely existed in the sensation. So, I suppose in that sense, it’s changed completely (for the most part— if I’m not chatting or reading/looking at porn, I don’t really fantasize while I get off).

How did “the talk” go? Did you have “the talk” or was your sexual knowledge entirely learned from the locker room until you finally had sex when you were 35?

I knew the mechanics of sex from a super young age. The book Where Did I Come From. Then I remember a talk when I was older where my mom told me that sex was something special and felt good and also changed the relationship with someone significantly and that I should be prepared for that emotional change going into it and not do it with people I didn’t care about. I’m sure she also talked about protection.
I got pretty comprehensive sex ed between school and religious school at my temple. I remember the rabbi coming in to talk to our class and telling us (much to our embarrassment) that he banged his wife on the regular and that it was healthy and beautiful and a mitzvah… a double mitzvah on Shabbat!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I do remember getting drunk at a friend’s house and watching late night porn, laughing at the storyline, and then all covering our eyes and changing the channel at the sex parts

This is like reading Playboy for the articles.

Also, is late night porn different from early morning porn?

 

[morelikeasong]

Also, is late night porn different from early morning porn?

It was whatever was on HBO or some other very high number channel late at night! I have no idea what was on in the morning. Regular movies I imagine? We didn’t have cable at my house so I wouldn’t know lol

 

[hotwords229_A]

It was whatever was on HBO or some other very high number channel late at night! I have no idea what was on in the morning. Regular movies I imagine? We didn’t have cable at my house so I wouldn’t know lol

HBO was my go to porn as well. God bless those wonderful people.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Are you now, or have you ever been, aroused by a Lister?

Okay, it’s time to name some names . . . (Links to persons and places! Don’t feel the need to mention @hotwords229_A or Cock Talk. I think we all agree they’re both insanely hot!)

Is there an under-appreciated person on Lit (not one of the more popular or active ones) that you think is super sexy that doesn’t get the credit they deserve?
Is there a thread (in any forum) on Lit that you wish got more traffic and interaction?
Is there a couple of Listers who, when they flirt, you love to sit back and watch? Who are they?
Are there two Listers who maybe don’t know each other, or interact, that you wish would?
If you find a Lister attractive or interesting do you PM them, flirt with them openly, or do you react to their posts and hope they notice you?
Have you ever had a threesome PM, where you contact two Listers and have them e-fuck for you? (This actually sounds kind of hot! New thread idea?)

 

[TomTeacher19]

Was sex openly discussed or acknowledged in your household?

Oh my word - never.

Did you discover your Dad’s Playboys? Your Mom’s Playgirls? Watch R-rated movies you weren’t supposed to watch? Did you hack the parental controls? What was your introduction into sexy stuff

I was babysitting for another family from church and their kids told me where their dad kept the Playboys. Then I found my dad's video tape of "9 and a half weeks".

Now that you’re older than 18, do you realize that everyone knew you were masturbating, or were you a Ninja Bean Flicker/Wang Cranker?
How did you hide your porn? Did you hide it? What was it?

Yeah the crusty sock collection was pretty damn obvious upon reflection

Compared to today, have your masturbation fantasies matured, remained the same or completely changed from when you were 18?

Definitely advanced. Hell, 90% of what I fantasize about now I didn't even realize was a thing until I was at least 40

How did “the talk” go? Did you have “the talk” or was your sexual knowledge entirely learned from the locker room until you finally had sex when you were 35?

Never got the talk. Not locker rooms for me but more experienced lady partners.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I found my dad's video tape of "9 and a half weeks".

That’s much better than discovering a tape of “9 and a half inches”!