Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

[Nellie60]

I’ve discussed the topic with her for the 30+ years that we’ve been married. In fact, I asked her for 15 years to fuck another guy, until she finally did.

She was with him twice, with him fucking her multiple times on those 2 encounters. I set it up and was there for both. It was amazing!

Afterwards, guilt and her religious upbringing overtook her conscience and she refused to do it again.

Wow, how did she react in both situations given you were present? Did she let herself go?

 

[Nellie60]

Funny you should ask that.

She was not on birth control, so condoms were a must. Each time he got close to cumming, he would pull out, she would remove the condom, then suck his cock until he came in her mouth. She always swallowed his loads.

During their encounter I could tell that she was a little hesitant to really “let go”. So we decided that I would leave them alone for an hour so that she could loose her inhibitions. It worked.

I left them alone and stayed outside the hotel room, listening to them. She was much more vocal and animated. She came with more intensity and would tell him that she loved his cock, loved him fucking her, and even screamed that she was cumming.

He was a little thicker and longer than me, so she enjoyed the fullness of his larger cock inside of her.

Before the second meeting, we found out that he was sterile and hadn’t been with anyone but his girlfriend for the past year. So we left the option of him going bareback as a possibility.

When I returned to the room, I entered quietly and was treated to the site of her riding his cock and talking to him. Her hair was a mess and it was obvious that she had been well fucked!

When I glanced between her legs I saw his bare cock sliding into her bare pussy. Her pussy lips were clinging to his shaft on every out-stroke and his cock was covered in her vaginal fluid. No doubt that she came multiple times.

Although she fucked him bareback, she wouldn’t allow him to cum in her.

I took lots of pics, but no videos. I still look at those pictures as stimulation for jacking off!

Thank you for the response. Watching your woman with someone else must have been pretty exciting, especially if she is unaware of you there.

Sometimes the woman I am with strokes me until I cum because she didn't want me to cum jn her. That is straight after fucking.

 

[Nellie60]

I may have mentioned that after watching my first girlfriend in an affair without her knowledge I was so worked up jealous.

Fucked her like a crazy man when she arrived back and she still doesn't know why I was so horny.

 

[Scotchlander]

I really do think about all the sexual acts she committed on him and him making her cum hard.

I am currently into the fantasy of another man stripping her and going down on her while I watched. Then watching her ride him to several orgasms. Particularly in a semi public area like in the car.

I used to meet with a couple. Initially they would collect me in their car. The husband would drive about while myself and his wife were in the back seat doing all sorts. How he never crashed, God only knows.

 

[ladventures]

We had already been married several years before my wife confessed that she had sex once or twice a week in college when I could not be with her. i suspected it, but did not know for sure. By that time, it didn't matter, since she had never cheated on me once we became engaged. It still turns me on to hear her stories.

After we were married, my wife admitted that for the first three months we were dating she continued to see a friend with benefits. She would tell me she was “studying with a friend,” while he was eating her to multiple orgasms and cumming on her face.
And when she went home from campus a couple times, she would see her hometown ex-boyfriend.
It would have made me jealous at the time, but now it turns me on.

The naughtiest story is that she was out on a date with me. We were making out, and I was trying to go further. But she put on a show about us “going too fast.” She wanted to act like a good church girl with me.
She asked me to drop her off at her dorm. Years later, she confessed that she was very horny from our groping session. After I dropped her off, she went straight to her friend with benefits place and they made each other orgasm for hours.

 

[rudrakshpathak]

After we were married, my wife admitted that for the first three months we were dating she continued to see a friend with benefits. She would tell me she was “studying with a friend,” while he was eating her to multiple orgasms and cumming on her face.
And when she went home from campus a couple times, she would see her hometown ex-boyfriend.
It would have made me jealous at the time, but now it turns me on.

The naughtiest story is that she was out on a date with me. We were making out, and I was trying to go further. But she put on a show about us “going too fast.” She wanted to act like a good church girl with me.
She asked me to drop her off at her dorm. Years later, she confessed that she was very horny from our groping session. After I dropped her off, she went straight to her friend with benefits place and they made each other orgasm for hours.

The many shades of sexuality that are layered in our psyche are utterly beautiful to witness.

 

[Nellie60]

After we were married, my wife admitted that for the first three months we were dating she continued to see a friend with benefits. She would tell me she was “studying with a friend,” while he was eating her to multiple orgasms and cumming on her face.
And when she went home from campus a couple times, she would see her hometown ex-boyfriend.
It would have made me jealous at the time, but now it turns me on.

The naughtiest story is that she was out on a date with me. We were making out, and I was trying to go further. But she put on a show about us “going too fast.” She wanted to act like a good church girl with me.
She asked me to drop her off at her dorm. Years later, she confessed that she was very horny from our groping session. After I dropped her off, she went straight to her friend with benefits place and they made each other orgasm for hours.

Pretty much a case of having all the cakes and eating the lot. If you knew at the time, I would have been jealous and angry but now and same with most guys its a turn on to hear about.

 

[gtnlynn]

After we were married, my wife admitted that for the first three months we were dating she continued to see a friend with benefits. She would tell me she was “studying with a friend,” while he was eating her to multiple orgasms and cumming on her face.
And when she went home from campus a couple times, she would see her hometown ex-boyfriend.
It would have made me jealous at the time, but now it turns me on.

The naughtiest story is that she was out on a date with me. We were making out, and I was trying to go further. But she put on a show about us “going too fast.” She wanted to act like a good church girl with me.
She asked me to drop her off at her dorm. Years later, she confessed that she was very horny from our groping session. After I dropped her off, she went straight to her friend with benefits place and they made each other orgasm for hours.

Sometimes it is best that we don't know all that is going on. It was only a few years ago that my wife confessed that she would have sex with her fwb on Friday night, go out with me on Saturday, and then have sex again with her fwb on Sunday night.

 

[Nellie60]

Sometimes it is best that we don't know all that is going on. It was only a few years ago that my wife confessed that she would have sex with her fwb on Friday night, go out with me on Saturday, and then have sex again with her fwb on Sunday night.

In what situation that lead to her confession? During sex? You found out?

 

[gtnlynn]

In what situation that lead to her confession? During sex? You found out?

During sex, I asked her if she had sex with the guys in college, and she said, "Yes, I was afraid to tell you." I asked how man, and she said she didn't know for sure. Over the years, I began to get more information. She dated four guys for several weeks at a time and had sex with them once or twice a week. She thinks she probably had one or two time sex with another eight or ten guys.

 

[Nellie60]

During sex, I asked her if she had sex with the guys in college, and she said, "Yes, I was afraid to tell you." I asked how man, and she said she didn't know for sure. Over the years, I began to get more information. She dated four guys for several weeks at a time and had sex with them once or twice a week. She thinks she probably had one or two time sex with another eight or ten guys.

Wow..she was popular "hot girlfriend " at the time. Did any of the guys knew of each other?

Good thing she didn't get each guys names confused ha ha!

Can she remember the details of each encounter?

 

[gtnlynn]

Wow..she was popular "hot girlfriend " at the time. Did any of the guys knew of each other?

Good thing she didn't get each guys names confused ha ha!

Can she remember the details of each encounter?

It was a small college, so all the guys knew each other. Most of them made a point to meet me. She was free to date, but she told all of them that she belonged to me. If they got serious, she dumped them. No, she doesn't remember a lot of details because she was a little drunk much of the time.

 

[Nellie60]

Wow again! Those guys would have been all over her knowing she was with you.

There something hot about being with someone's girl.

My mates use to stare my ex girlfriend the Korean girl all the time and for sure everyone one of them would not say no for even a little kiss.

How did you feel after all the confessions..jealous or just little bit? Obviously turned on.

 

[MerWilh]

After we were married, my wife admitted that for the first three months we were dating she continued to see a friend with benefits. She would tell me she was “studying with a friend,” while he was eating her to multiple orgasms and cumming on her face.
And when she went home from campus a couple times, she would see her hometown ex-boyfriend.
It would have made me jealous at the time, but now it turns me on.

The naughtiest story is that she was out on a date with me. We were making out, and I was trying to go further. But she put on a show about us “going too fast.” She wanted to act like a good church girl with me.
She asked me to drop her off at her dorm. Years later, she confessed that she was very horny from our groping session. After I dropped her off, she went straight to her friend with benefits place and they made each other orgasm for hours.

The kind of girl that makes fantasy become reality.

 

[Kolejdayz]

The kind of girl that makes fantasy become reality.

This would be a turn on for me too, because I like that kind of girl. My first wife also behaved that way she was visiting a city where her ex boyfriend lived

 

[MerWilh]

This would be a turn on for me too, because I like that kind of girl. My first wife also behaved that way she was visiting a city where her ex boyfriend lived

Sexually adventures women are the best and can be great partners if you give them space and freedom without any judgment or jealousy.

 

[Nellie60]

Sexually adventures women are the best and can be great partners if you give them space and freedom without any judgment or jealousy.

In hindsight I agree to a point. Didn't stop the jealousy though LOL

But lots of fantasies come out of it now.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Sexually adventures women are the best and can be great partners if you give them space and freedom without any judgment or jealousy.

Actually the best feelings to cultivate are arousal and interest

 

[liqueur]

In hindsight I agree to a point. Didn't stop the jealousy though LOL

But lots of fantasies come out of it now.

Jealousy has a lot of erotic energy to it.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Jealousy has a lot of erotic energy to it.

Give me an example?

 

[Nellie60]

Jealousy has a lot of erotic energy to it.

I agree now, its the pain and ecstasy..the more jealous you are there is the opposing lust of desire.

 

[liqueur]

Give me an example?

Cuckoldry is the classic example. A man— a man who would never in a thousand years imagined himself liking humiliation— discovers his partner is cheating on him. His first feeling is jealous rage. But right on the heels of that, faster than he can even react, comes humiliation and arousal, and all those feelings are wrapped up in a ball in the pit of the stomach, so tight that the individual feeling could even be separated.

I can only describe this from my own experience. But so very many other people have described the same or similar experiences.

 

[artgorden]

She getting good dick and not sharing.

 

[Nellie60]

Cuckoldry is the classic example. A man— a man who would never in a thousand years imagined himself liking humiliation— discovers his partner is cheating on him. His first feeling is jealous rage. But right on the heels of that, faster than he can even react, comes humiliation and arousal, and all those feelings are wrapped up in a ball in the pit of the stomach, so tight that the individual feeling could even be separated.

I can only describe this from my own experience. But so very many other people have described the same or similar experiences.

Exactly how I was feeling in both my first girlfriends.

With the first girlfriend I was humiliated and very angry mixed with jealous seeing her give hand action to another guy when I spied on her during an affair.

I described it as watching, the arousing part and the feeling of losing her and breathlessness pit in stomach and anger all mixed.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Cuckoldry is the classic example. A man— a man who would never in a thousand years imagined himself liking humiliation— discovers his partner is cheating on him. His first feeling is jealous rage. But right on the heels of that, faster than he can even react, comes humiliation and arousal, and all those feelings are wrapped up in a ball in the pit of the stomach, so tight that the individual feeling could even be separated.

I can only describe this from my own experience. But so very many other people have described the same or similar experiences.

I wonder why humiliation and arousal are so closely linked and is that in all guys