Can a girl have a Daddy and Grandaddy?

[nakedginger]

I think it would be really hot if my granddaddy was the bio dad of my daddy.

I chatted with a guy who wanted to gift his hot girlfriend (me) to his dad as a thank you for being a great dad.

His dad was his sexual mentor and didn't know it. He used to hear his parents and knew his dad was a stud in bed. His dad was always faithful. A great provider.

Daddy, Granddaddy and myself are not related.

 

[teaching_alice]

I play with a few different older men. I call a few of them "Daddy" despite their ages ranging by about 25 years. I would say that they all have a similar type of Dom energy. What seems to separate them is the oldest ones are a bit more caring, gentle, but dirtier. The younger (40s to 50s) guys are also dirty but have what feels like more traditional Dom energy. They want to be in charge, and while sometimes sweet, have a more commanding presence. The "Grandaddy" as you called them (love that term!) are a little more passive but open to far naughtier things.

 

[senior0074d]

Yes, it’s possible to have two dynamics with different people if everyone involved is clear about their roles and boundaries. The key is open communication. Each dynamic should have its own space and understanding—like one person being more nurturing and the other more of a companion. Setting boundaries for when and how you interact with them both, especially in the same space, is essential. As long as everyone respects each other’s needs and the roles are well-defined, it can work. Just make sure that each relationship remains consensual and healthy for all parties involved.

 

[Peppadance]

I play with a few different older men. I call a few of them "Daddy" despite their ages ranging by about 25 years. I would say that they all have a similar type of Dom energy. What seems to separate them is the oldest ones are a bit more caring, gentle, but dirtier. The younger (40s to 50s) guys are also dirty but have what feels like more traditional Dom energy. They want to be in charge, and while sometimes sweet, have a more commanding presence. The "Grandaddy" as you called them (love that term!) are a little more passive but open to far naughtier things.

Older men like to take their time. When I was young, all I wanted to do was get my cock buried deep inside my willing partner. It always seemed so frantic. Much more pleasurable now.

 

[nakedginger]

I play with a few different older men. I call a few of them "Daddy" despite their ages ranging by about 25 years. I would say that they all have a similar type of Dom energy. What seems to separate them is the oldest ones are a bit more caring, gentle, but dirtier. The younger (40s to 50s) guys are also dirty but have what feels like more traditional Dom energy. They want to be in charge, and while sometimes sweet, have a more commanding presence. The "Grandaddy" as you called them (love that term!) are a little more passive but open to far naughtier things.

I would agree. With a larger age gap it's a more caring and sweeter dynamic. They also like you to be dirtier and enjoy more 'creative' ways to display and use you.

 

[nakedginger]

Older men like to take their time. When I was young, all I wanted to do was get my cock buried deep inside my willing partner. It always seemed so frantic. Much more pleasurable now.

Yes, for the girl the slow build up and tease is exciting.

 

[teaching_alice]

I would agree. With a larger age gap it's a more caring and sweeter dynamic. They also like you to be dirtier and enjoy more 'creative' ways to display and use you.

So true. I've noticed they're less jealous as well, and more open to sharing or group play of the "hot wife" variety.

 

[kittycommittee2000]

That’s the dream

 

[Utmale48]

That’s the dream

For daddy’s and grand dads to.

 

[TinaG_2023]

Musing if a girl can serve two men in two different dynamics.
A Daddy who can use his little girl and look after her.
A Grandaddy who is older and can can enjoy her company and she can help him if needed?
The two men know of each other's existance and maybe she could sometimes be with them at the same time?

Absolutely!! Happy fathers day!

 

[BREEDMEDADDY69ME]

Musing if a girl can serve two men in two different dynamics.
A Daddy who can use his little girl and look after her.
A Grandaddy who is older and can can enjoy her company and she can help him if needed?
The two men know of each other's existance and maybe she could sometimes be with them at the same time?

Grandpa and daddy would be very pleased. We all know who would be getting the family inheritance… lol

 

[Shootfromthenib]

A really interesting thread! And a fantastic dynamic described here.
I have been Daddy to younger woman who I sometimes shared with an older man. It certainly adds a new depth to the relationship!

 

[nakedginger]

A really interesting thread! And a fantastic dynamic described here.
I have been Daddy to younger woman who I sometimes shared with an older man. It certainly adds a new depth to the relationship!

Oh wow! I would love to chat about it.

 

[nakedginger]

This is a place to discuss maturely the dynamic put forh by the OP. It is not a pick up thread.

Thank you

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Thank you

You're welcome

 

[Spanky1372]

Exactly, this is what I have also thought. There is so much trust and communication needed in a D/s relationship.

Yes. I think my "Grandaddy" at 72 can nurture and help my growth and I can nurture and care for him. I don't think he could Dominate in a 'sexual way' a 25 year old so a Daddy could fulfill that aspect. I'm sure there is lots to consider but I can see it working.

Don't underestimate the imagination of an older experienced gentleman. Dominate is a word that's bandied around too frequently. One only needs to be assertive to place the sub where they need to be to experience pleasure.

 

[nakedginger]

Don't underestimate the imagination of an older experienced gentleman. Dominate is a word that's bandied around too frequently. One only needs to be assertive to place the sub where they need to be to experience pleasure.

Exactly, it is that experience and authority that makes a man Dominant. A mental control of the sub.

 

[Spanky1372]

Exactly, it is that experience and authority that makes a man Dominant. A mental control of the sub.

I agree if you want to use the word dominant but the control takes part on three levels physical, mental and sexual planes. I use the word control in its loosest sense as the sub has to relinquish control to her partner through shared values and understanding.

 

[nakedginger]

I agree if you want to use the word dominant but the control takes part on three levels physical, mental and sexual planes. I use the word control in its loosest sense as the sub has to relinquish control to her partner through shared values and understanding.

Control, yes. This all takes time and communication.

 

[taboo_sarah]

Musing if a girl can serve two men in two different dynamics.
A Daddy who can use his little girl and look after her.
A Grandaddy who is older and can can enjoy her company and she can help him if needed?
The two men know of each other's existance and maybe she could sometimes be with them at the same time?

Sign me up...

 

[emme8]

Does Granddaddy have any say in who you choose as a Daddy?

In my dynamic with my Hubby. Hubby knew I needed a level of intensity he didn't want.
My hubby was invaluable in helping me find my Dom. Hubby enjoyed his role screening profiles, keeping me safe, taking pictures of me for potential Doms.

 

[nakedginger]

Does Granddaddy have any say in who you choose as a Daddy?

Absolutely. The two need to be able to interact and work out a dynamic that we are all happy with.

In my dynamic with my Hubby. Hubby knew I needed a level of intensity he didn't want.
My hubby was invaluable in helping me find my Dom. Hubby enjoyed his role screening profiles, keeping me safe, taking pictures of me for potential Doms.

That's excellent. How does the relationship wotk now?

 

[emme8]

Hubby would love to be my submissive cuck. He would do anything I wanted. And he loves me enough to know that means he has to maintain a more assertive role in our relationship and family life. I have adhd, bipolar and anxiety, so yeah he manages the household.

Sexually I do my best to keep him satisfied. But damn I need more time for that.

I wish I had more time to spend with the Daddy. I see him about once a month.
I don't know if I take care of him well enough. But he hasn't pushed hard for more time.

The first several months. Hubby would drive me to a hotel. He would stay in the room and make sure i was safe. He would take pictures and video. Hubby never watched, sat in a corner and played on his phone. And he never ever gets to play when I'm with daddy.

it was a lot of fun to look at profiles online to interveiw daddies. To pick a personality we both were OK with. then to have hubby take pictures or video with the intent to share.

it was less than fun when I tested positive for a STD. Daddy and Hubby were
both negative so... I KNOW I did NOT catch it from sex. but i honestly dont know how i got it.

from experience. make sure everyone's expectations are clear from the start. if you want to make any adjustments be honest.

for instance, i wanted Daddy to hurt me. i told Daddy i needed to be pushed. i had my safewords. Daddy told me he wanted to see what i could take and he would build up slowly to find my limits until I used a safeword. i didnt relay information that to Hubby, i thought he understood. it would have been really awkward if Hubby stepped in to stop a scene because i told Daddy i didnt like the switch he was using and Daddy continued since i hadnt used the safeword.
once i finally used a safeword for i am almost too my limit. (orange instead of red) i was giving 1 additional switch and then allowed to cum.

i still have to give hubby a ton of aftercare. he watches me get what i need from daddy and he gets insecure about our relationship.

 

[nakedginger]

An update.
I have been working with a Dom who is the "Daddy" in the relationship. Things are going really well and dynamic seems to be working well. Both men have a good relationship together and roles are being defined.

 

[MasterDarcy]

An update.
I have been working with a Dom who is the "Daddy" in the relationship. Things are going really well and dynamic seems to be working well. Both men have a good relationship together and roles are being defined.

Proud of you.