Can a girl have a Daddy and Grandaddy?

[MasterDarcy]

Interesting question.

I would definitely say yes. In this case ot doesn't sound like it's a poly situation.

And even if it did turn poly, it would be interesting.

 

[nakedginger]

I suppose the difficult part is finding two men to agree to this, their interaction together and willingness to share your time and body.

Yes, that is the difficulty and how the process would work in real life rather than in theory.

 

[nakedginger]

Interesting question.

I would definitely say yes. In this case ot doesn't sound like it's a poly situation.

And even if it did turn poly, it would be interesting.

No, it could be a evolving situation.

 

[MasterDarcy]

No, it could be a evolving situation.

Oh really?

I say go for it. It could lead to a highly tantalising situation.

Sounds kinda hot, to tell you the truth.

 

[nakedginger]

Oh really?

I say go for it. It could lead to a highly tantalising situation.

Sounds kinda hot, to tell you the truth.

Well, more speculating and wondering if it could work.
There is a Grandaddy figure but wondering about a Daddy figure in my life and if it would happen.

 

[MasterDarcy]

Well, more speculating and wondering if it could work.
There is a Grandaddy figure but wondering about a Daddy figure in my life and if it would happen.

Communication is the key. Just talk about it. You might be pleasantly surprised by the outcome.

There's nothing wrong with speculating and testing the waters. Particularly for something you want or are interested in.

 

[nakedginger]

Communication is the key. Just talk about it. You might be pleasantly surprised by the outcome.

Yes, definately in all things but especially in D/s

There's nothing wrong with speculating and testing the waters. Particularly for something you want or are interested in.

I am very interested in this. It's why I posted this thread. To gather other people's thoughts.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Yes, definately in all things but especially in D/s

I am very interested in this. It's why I posted this thread. To gather other people's thoughts.

From the medical point of view it is recommended for a girl's sexual health for her to experience the full age-range of lovers, from a relatively younger more active sex-partner who will fuck her relentlessly hard, to an older more patient and indulgent lover who will also enjoy long mutual oral sex sessions, frequently, and during the same day. The benefits will be beautiful and so very satisfying for all concerned.

 

[nakedginger]

From the medical point of view it is recommended for a girl's sexual health for her to experience the full age-range of lovers, from a relatively younger more active sex-partner who will fuck her relentlessly hard, to an older more patient and indulgent lover who will also enjoy long mutual oral sex sessions, frequently, and during the same day. The benefits will be beautiful and so very satisfying for all concerned.

I'm glad there is medical evidence its the right thing to do.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I'm glad there is medical evidence its the right thing to do.

I could be lying...

 

[nakedginger]

I could be lying...

Noooo!

 

[Strixaluco]

There are so many different kinds of polyamorous arrangements, that why not having both Daddy and Granddaddy. It's up to the persons really.

Just need to be careful on communicating things well.

 

[nakedginger]

There are so many different kinds of polyamorous arrangements, that why not having both Daddy and Granddaddy. It's up to the persons really.

Just need to be careful on communicating things well.

Thank you.
It seemed to be so aligned with my kinks. As you say communication and interaction between the men is key

 

[Strixaluco]

Thank you.
It seemed to be so aligned with my kinks. As you say communication and interaction between the men is key

You just need to find partners who think similarly, and then communicate. Each relationship is unique, you can have basically whatever.

And I recommend looking at sources regarding polyamory. Polyamorous people aren't necessarily less jealous by nature's or having less conflicts - it's about having and growing the skills to deal with the issues. (This as being told by polyamorous people themselves.)

 

[nakedginger]

You just need to find partners who think similarly, and then communicate. Each relationship is unique, you can have basically whatever.

Yes communicating and understanding is key

And I recommend looking at sources regarding polyamory. Polyamorous people aren't necessarily less jealous by nature's or having less conflicts - it's about having and growing the skills to deal with the issues. (This as being told by polyamorous people themselves.)

I will check this out thank you

 

[nakedginger]

I suppose the difficult part is finding two men to agree to this, their interaction together and willingness to share your time and body.

Well that is the tricky part!
Getting two men on board then having them have the right level of interaction.
And getting all to work together.

 

[metrifonate]

Well that is the tricky part!
Getting two men on board then having them have the right level of interaction.
And getting all to work together.

It can work but the first man has to be on board with what is going to happen
You say you have an older "Grandaddy" who you do CMnf with.
Maybe sound him out about a younger "man /Daddy" who is involved in the CMnf interactions. Then see how that works before going further.
It will take time to establish but but worth if for your fantasy.
PM if you like as I have had a lot of experience with similar scenarios.

 

[nakedginger]

It can work but the first man has to be on board with what is going to happen
You say you have an older "Grandaddy" who you do CMnf with.
Maybe sound him out about a younger "man /Daddy" who is involved in the CMnf interactions. Then see how that works before going further.
It will take time to establish but but worth if for your fantasy.
PM if you like as I have had a lot of experience with similar scenarios.

Great ideas.

 

[MasterDarcy]

Yes, definately in all things but especially in D/s

The ironic thing is, BDSMcentric relationships are considered taboo, etc. Vanilla relationships are socially acceptable. Yet, I'd be willing to bet that more BDSM relationships have communication and trust and honesty as their core than Vanilla relationships.

Look at the amount of infidelities in Vanilla relationships. In BDSM it's accepted as Poly.

I am very interested in this. It's why I posted this thread. To gather other people's thoughts.

Cool.

Personally, i think the very idea is hot. It's akin to a BDSM family, what with the different generations.

You should definitely open up dialogue about it.

 

[nakedginger]

The ironic thing is, BDSMcentric relationships are considered taboo, etc. Vanilla relationships are socially acceptable. Yet, I'd be willing to bet that more BDSM relationships have communication and trust and honesty as their core than Vanilla relationships.

Look at the amount of infidelities in Vanilla relationships. In BDSM it's accepted as Poly.

Exactly, this is what I have also thought. There is so much trust and communication needed in a D/s relationship.

Cool.

Personally, i think the very idea is hot. It's akin to a BDSM family, what with the different generations.

You should definitely open up dialogue about it.

Yes. I think my "Grandaddy" at 72 can nurture and help my growth and I can nurture and care for him. I don't think he could Dominate in a 'sexual way' a 25 year old so a Daddy could fulfill that aspect. I'm sure there is lots to consider but I can see it working.

 

[MasterDarcy]

Exactly, this is what I have also thought. There is so much trust and communication needed in a D/s relationship.

Definitely. It's ironic, to say the very least that BDSM relationship are frowned upon in "civilised society." It's particularly absurd when you look at the divorce stats and the reasons.

It's lack of education.

Yes. I think my "Grandaddy" at 72 can nurture and help my growth and I can nurture and care for him. I don't think he could Dominate in a 'sexual way' a 25 year old so a Daddy could fulfill that aspect. I'm sure there is lots to consider but I can see it working.

Precisely.

The main thing is that you gain a certain amount of different things from either. It's healthy and as you say, it'll help you grow, mature and you'll also gain experience and knowledge.

I've actually known a BDSM Family dynamic like the one that you're describing.

Almost iidentical: The Grandaddy was in his 70s, the Submissive was in her mid 20s and the Daddy was in his 40s.

Was sex involved with all three? Yes. Almost exclusively as a trio.

 

[Strixaluco]

Look at the amount of infidelities in Vanilla relationships. In BDSM it's accepted as Poly.

Depending on relationship really. And there are vanilla poly relationships too - and yet even more of those with both vanilla and bdsm people. In fact, several of the bdsm poly people I know, have entered poly because of having a vanilla partner and needing bdsm themselves.

 

[MasterDarcy]

Depending on relationship really. And there are vanilla poly relationships too - and yet even more of those with both vanilla and bdsm people. In fact, several of the bdsm poly people I know, have entered poly because of having a vanilla partner and needing bdsm themselves.

Good point.

I've known loads of subs who are married to Vanilla partners and they seek a scratching of their itch elsewhere. Some of it with the Vanilla partner knowing and consenting, some behind their backs.

 

[nakedginger]

Definitely. It's ironic, to say the very least that BDSM relationship are frowned upon in "civilised society." It's particularly absurd when you look at the divorce stats and the reasons.

It's lack of education.

I agree.

Precisely.

The main thing is that you gain a certain amount of different things from either. It's healthy and as you say, it'll help you grow, mature and you'll also gain experience and knowledge.

Yes, I can learn different things from both men.

I've actually known a BDSM Family dynamic like the one that you're describing.

Almost iidentical: The Grandaddy was in his 70s, the Submissive was in her mid 20s and the Daddy was in his 40s.

Was sex involved with all three? Yes. Almost exclusively as a trio.

Its interesting how a dynamic develops. I hope I can attain this. The more I think about it the nore I can see advantages of it.

 

[nakedginger]

Depending on relationship really. And there are vanilla poly relationships too - and yet even more of those with both vanilla and bdsm people. In fact, several of the bdsm poly people I know, have entered poly because of having a vanilla partner and needing bdsm themselves.

Oh so a vanilla and BDSM relationship at the same time. Interesting