As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

[lil_jenni]

It depends. My first preference is my Hubby. If I were not with him, I think I would probably prefer women for anything but casual hook ups. Those would be men.

 

[ShaneoD]

It depends. My first preference is my Hubby. If I were not with him, I think I would probably prefer women for anything but casual hook ups. Those would be men.

You know you pay too much attention when you know the casual book ups would be men because you like to get ravaged

 

[none2_none2]

You can have your cake (cock?) and eat it too.
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My partner smokes too. I hate that habit. However, had I used that disgusting habit as an excuse to eliminate him from becoming my partner, I would have missed almost 23 years with my wonderful guy. I don't nag him about it -- as nagging only makes the other person dig in their heals. To be honest, about 10 years ago he had FIVE bypasses that the the medical people all blamed on his smoking. He quit, but then about 1.5 years later he started back up... He knows to kind of hide it from me, but we both know I'm not stupid. You cannot help but smell it...

Anyway, we all have our flaws. For instance though we are both type II diabetic, mine is much worse. He doesn't eat a lot. Where as I love things such as fruit, and other carbs. So for my "heart" I simply accept the bad habits -- as the true heart of the person out weighs any of their flaws.

 

[Escierto]

My partner smokes too. I hate that habit. However, had I used that disgusting habit as an excuse to eliminate him from becoming my partner, I would have missed almost 23 years with my wonderful guy. I don't nag him about it -- as nagging only makes the other person dig in their heals. To be honest, about 10 years ago he had FIVE bypasses that the the medical people all blamed on his smoking. He quit, but then about 1.5 years later he started back up... He knows to kind of hide it from me, but we both know I'm not stupid. You cannot help but smell it...

Anyway, we all have our flaws. For instance though we are both type II diabetic, mine is much worse. He doesn't eat a lot. Where as I love things such as fruit, and other carbs. So for my "heart" I simply accept the bad habits -- as the true heart of the person out weighs any of their flaws.

Yeah, before I met her in person and we were chatting on cam, she was careful to hide her smoking. Then when I met her in person, I was already hooked on her (and her bad habits). I don't nag her about it either. You gotta take the bad with the good and there is a lot that is good.

 

[lil_jenni]

You know you pay too much attention when you know the casual book ups would be men because you like to get ravaged

I am shocked by your comment... I mean, sure, it's accurate and all, but still.... shocked!!!

 

[FilthyBongWater]

When I date men I miss women and vice versa. I think I prefer types of women and men over women and men themselves - I like them equally. Butch women are my absolute favourite.

 

[JiminNC]

My partner smokes too. I hate that habit. However, had I used that disgusting habit as an excuse to eliminate him from becoming my partner, I would have missed almost 23 years with my wonderful guy. I don't nag him about it -- as nagging only makes the other person dig in their heals. To be honest, about 10 years ago he had FIVE bypasses that the the medical people all blamed on his smoking. He quit, but then about 1.5 years later he started back up... He knows to kind of hide it from me, but we both know I'm not stupid. You cannot help but smell it...

Anyway, we all have our flaws. For instance though we are both type II diabetic, mine is much worse. He doesn't eat a lot. Where as I love things such as fruit, and other carbs. So for my "heart" I simply accept the bad habits -- as the true heart of the person out weighs any

 

[Ike_The_Spike]

Up front I generally identify as bi while I more specifically identify as omnisexual. I generally prefer femme or androgyne presenting people. But there's something about a very masc top or a twink that is very attractive as well.

Honestly, if I have a friendly relationship with a person I'm pretty likely to being open to having sex with them. This is influenced by my hedonistic tendencies and that I see sex as just fun. In a different life I'm positive I would have a number of friendships where sexual play is involved.

 

[artgorden]

When I look at this clip I think she's very attractive but I would leave her in the woods to suck that dick.
https://www.reddit.com/r/RoadheadGirls/s/cF7eq8ZqCg

 

[sarod]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

Definitely love women more, but have such curiosity for cock and still have not had it but cock is so hot and I fantasize about it all the time, I would love to share a dick with a woman. Maybe suck it after being inside a pussy, too hot!

 

[SmokingFap]

Definitely love women more, but have such curiosity for cock and still have not had it but cock is so hot and I fantasize about it all the time, I would love to share a dick with a woman. Maybe suck it after being inside a pussy, too hot!

I think you're very much like a lot of us who have discovered our bi-curiosity later in life (not saying you're old ). And while I have sucked a couple guys off alone, I know it would be even more exciting to have a sexy woman watching or even joining us. I'm still much more attracted to women in general, but I've become fascinated with hard, squirting cocks.

 

[surfdude1]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

I let my bi side come out from time to time when the mood takes me and the right guy comes along.
Otherwise I love to be with women more.
Although the idea of a bi MMF would be my ideal fantasy but haven’t managed to fulfil that one yet.

 

[surfdude1]

I have been bi since I was in my early 20s. I prefer women for the emotional and physical connection.

I prefer a hard cock when I feel the need to be submissive. The desire for a man is purely physical and the need to be dominated and used.

So true.

 

[easyoff]

I'm not really attracted to guys at all until I see a nice cut cock. Then all I can think about is how it will feel in my mouth.

 

[aquam34]

When I am with men, I always like to be the woman.

 

[Escierto]

When I am with men, I always like to be the woman.

My trans girlfriend told me that in bed, she is the man and I am the woman. No problem!

 

[KingDavid234]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

I am a bi curious mwm. I do have some bi sex experience, but rather limited. My preference is women. But what I really think about a lot, and it is my biggest fantasy, is to be with both a woman and a man at the same time and for the woman to be extremely turned on by seeing 2 guys suck each other's cocks! I do like sucking cock, but I LOVE sucking cock if there is a woman eagerly watching, encouraging, and getting very horny and turned on by the show!!

 

[Stargatefan78]

When I look at this clip I think she's very attractive but I would leave her in the woods to suck that dick.
https://www.reddit.com/r/RoadheadGirls/s/cF7eq8ZqCg

I would do them both.

 

[SmokingFap]

In spite of my previous responses, the more i think about this question the more I think it's wrong-headed. Because isn't the whole “point” of being bi that we don't have to choose?

Just ran across this response. The question is not "wrong-headed". I never implied anyone had to choose. I was asking about preferences. By the definition of bisexual, one enjoys both (or more) genders. But one can still prefer one over the other(s). If you enjoy both or all equally, great! You could have just said that, rather than criticizing the question.

 

[lowcollar]

I really love women who do not shave and trans who are completely shaved.

 

[saintcero]

I get pussy twice a week but I rarely get to enjoy a hard cock. Given that, a hard cock and some heavy swinging balls seems to be on my mind almost all the time. Yes, that would be my preference

 

[SmokingFap]

I really love women who do not shave and trans who are completely shaved.

I wonder why the difference?

 

[SmokingFap]

truly, no insult was intended. To criticize—

— I think perhaps you think that for me to criticize the question was in the spirit of meaning #1. My intention was in the spirit of meaning #2. If the choice of “wrong-headed” gave it a bad taste, I apologize for that and assure you it was not intended. I will go back and edit that now.

And be assured also— to criticize the question is not to criticize the questioner

Edit: In spite of my previous responses, the more i think about this, the more I think it's the “wrong question,” so to speak. Because isn't the whole “point” of being bi that we don't have to choose?

At first, I accepted your apology, because we all misspeak at times. But then I read your edit, and now you say that the topic of this entire thread is just plain a "wrong question". Which is, frankly, a stupid thing to say. You are implying that no one should HAVE preferences because they don't have to CHOOSE. I have no interest in getting into any kind of further debate or argument with you, so how about you just leave bad enough alone and move along?

 

[Britva415]

At first, I accepted your apology, because we all misspeak at times. But then I read your edit, and now you say that the topic of this entire thread is just plain a "wrong question". Which is, frankly, a stupid thing to say. You are implying that no one should HAVE preferences because they don't have to CHOOSE. I have no interest in getting into any kind of further debate or argument with you, so how about you just leave bad enough alone and move along?

Maybe they aren't bi at all. Maybe they're pan, specifically one of those pans who say a potential partner's gender isn't important to them in any way at all.

Maybe that's why it doesn't even seem like a choice to them. To the rest of us, us bisexual people, every partner is a choice. But choosing isn't a burden, it's just choosing.

Also maybe they're militantly non-monogamous or non-committed. The whole notion of not ever having to choose pretty clearly ignores the choice which was made by anyone who is committed and monogamous.

Or maybe they just like perpetrating that slur, the one which says that bisexuals cannot be monogamous.

 

[BiCanuckGuy]

I love women 100%, but sometimes I just crave cock, but it’s sometimes better when it’s shared with a woman.