which is virtually every so called female using lit
Those are wannabe bi or gay men. They’re too afraid to go suck a cock, so they instead get off on tricking straight men. They are weak.Fake females cant use voice
very hot
Excellent post. Phone sex is complicated but awesome when it works right.What a fun thread for me to chime in on
I think our definition of payoff must be very different. Videos are nice, but they’re a dime a dozen. Gets kinda boring, no? Surelymenpeople can’t actually be that unimaginative and boring.
I love it. I love connecting with someone, exchanging messages, someone taking the risk to audibly say hello. Sometimes it’s me, sometimes it’s them. Sometimes it never moves further than some friendly exchanges and other times it moves faster than I can handle
Well put.
My best experience so far was when they had genuine interest in my needs and wants, asked questions that revealed truths I wasn’t even aware of, and using all of those bits of information to elevate our experience - make it real.
I’m doing this to feel something, not pretend to feel something.
The only way to actually enjoy myself is when I’m already in such a state of need and arousal that I’m begging them to call me. That I need them. No awkward moments, just straight passion and fireworks.
Of course, it’s a two way street. I’m sure most men would be fine with a moaning banshee that doesn’t contribute, but most of my pleasure derives from knowing I’m fulfilling whatever fantasy or need my partner has. That means I need to know about those things, I need to be an active participant.
Also, it’s just a fact that not everyone is going to mesh. It’s ok if I’m too soft for you and you’re looking for a filthy freak right off the bat, it’s ok if you’re a submissive boytoy and that’s not who I’m looking to play with. We can still be friends and swap stories
Strongly disagree. It’s awkward to do most video. Phone does require more description but that strengthens the connection. My one exception is shower cam. That works great.
Idiots. After care is often deeply satisfying
I am not sure this is a problem...I would talk about the the fact that you turn into a quick sexy puddle all night longI love phone sex but my problem is that I'm voice activated. Once I hear his voice, I turn into puddle. He hears me moan, I hear him moan and before you know it, we've both finished. I swear I've never had a call last more than 5 minutes
This is not a bad thing!I love phone sex but my problem is that I'm voice activated. Once I hear his voice, I turn into puddle. He hears me moan, I hear him moan and before you know it, we've both finished. I swear I've never had a call last more than 5 minutes
I am very rarely that turned on that I can actually get off more than maybe twice but even then, they happen very rapidly.I'm not sure that's a "problem" if you are enjoying it! Sometimes quick on the phone is a necessity. Ide rather have a quick phonecall with someone sexy and that we enjoy hearing each other than watching porn or just getting off alone!I love phone sex but my problem is that I'm voice activated. Once I hear his voice, I turn into puddle. He hears me moan, I hear him moan and before you know it, we've both finished. I swear I've never had a call last more than 5 minutes
always worth the attempt and effortThis is not a bad thing!
I also say the same thing and then I get told that I can just cum over and over and over again like I’m some energizer bunny
In a world full of edgers, it makes it a bitttttttt tricky finding people that align. But they exist!
it has been awhile for me and as I think I posted here I do use the word fuck alot...but I am also very creative and I would think most if not all here on Lit would be also
to me phone is all about the voice...so if you have done and enjoyed voice you should enjoy phone
Don’t go in cold. Get to know them. Even have an explicitly non sex call. If they are empathetic then they will be a guide when you start the naughty stuff. It’s so fun.
Nothing to be intimated about really.......I've done it after exchanging emails and messaging some. You find out what turns her or him on and you go from there. I use to have a woman call me at work so I could get her off during her lunch....it was crazy. I had another relationship where we never met but carried on by phone for maybe a year or so. I mean I described most of the fantasies but it worked for us. In some ways phone sex was the hottest experience for me
Melodi, I promise you can last longer than 5 minutes on the phone with you.I love phone sex but my problem is that I'm voice activated. Once I hear his voice, I turn into puddle. He hears me moan, I hear him moan and before you know it, we've both finished. I swear I've never had a call last more than 5 minutes
It’s really fun, but only when you’re comfortable
