Oh, the days of fantasizing about being batman...hmmm...hmmmguys, gals, gays, theys, whoever’s watching. it’s been a… day. I’ll be back in the morning with some fun…hopefully. In the meantime you guys can imagine what it would be like to walk into my room and see me like this and turn my night/mood around! And anyone else lurking can kiss my
You don’t have to ask me twice! I’m here to stay
Rest well! Such a cool tattoo
God dam that's hot as fuckguys, gals, gays, theys, whoever’s watching. it’s been a… day. I’ll be back in the morning with some fun…hopefully. In the meantime you guys can imagine what it would be like to walk into my room and see me like this and turn my night/mood around! And anyone else lurking can kiss my
Ok, first off, that bat has an awesome view and i hate him for itguys, gals, gays, theys, whoever’s watching. it’s been a… day. I’ll be back in the morning with some fun…hopefully. In the meantime you guys can imagine what it would be like to walk into my room and see me like this and turn my night/mood around! And anyone else lurking can kiss my
Well that’s just an exquisite viewguys, gals, gays, theys, whoever’s watching. it’s been a… day. I’ll be back in the morning with some fun…hopefully. In the meantime you guys can imagine what it would be like to walk into my room and see me like this and turn my night/mood around! And anyone else lurking can kiss my
Can I imagine and lurk please?guys, gals, gays, theys, whoever’s watching. it’s been a… day. I’ll be back in the morning with some fun…hopefully. In the meantime you guys can imagine what it would be like to walk into my room and see me like this and turn my night/mood around! And anyone else lurking can kiss my
You get to take a bite out without pretending to lurk Sir Cyb.Can I imagine and lurk please?
Is your head hanging off the bed at just the right angle?guys, gals, gays, theys, whoever’s watching. it’s been a… day. I’ll be back in the morning with some fun…hopefully. In the meantime you guys can imagine what it would be like to walk into my room and see me like this and turn my night/mood around! And anyone else lurking can kiss my
Don’t use the F word around here! Unless it’s about meYou get to take a bite out without pretending to lurk Sir Cyb.
Not that I have favourites but thread favourites? Maybe
SpicyBean
I hear you. And just keep being you.View attachment 2547604
I’ve debated posting this, but after seeing how things were misrepresented yesterday, I feel the need to speak up for myself.
Let me be very clear: I did not start drama. I didn’t critique anyone. I didn’t mock anyone’s compliments or try to bring another woman down. What I did do was respond to someone else’s thread where I was indirectly referenced… repeatedly. Someone expressed frustration that the same compliments were being given to multiple women across threads, and that it made those compliments feel less special, less unique. While I understand that feeling, I simply responded by saying I don’t see it that way. I said this space feels playful to me. That we can all be complimented. That we’re here to uplift each other, not compete. I not only acknowledged this persons feelings but also their mention of having anxiety. I just wanted to share the idea that repeated kindness doesn’t erase its sincerity, it just means someone sees beauty in many places. I thought this was a kind message to leave someone struggling with the idea of ingenuity.
What people didn’t see (because I didn’t make it public), was the private message exchange leading up to it. In that conversation, I shared something personal. I disclosed that I have autism. I did this to give context: that I might come across the wrong way at times, or need reassurance if something feels off and I opened the message apologising. Rather than meeting that with compassion, I was told I was “too heated”… That the conversation wasn’t worth continuing because she had actual paid work to be getting on with.
Anyone who’s neurodivergent or has anxiety will understand how deeply invalidating that is.
The bit that cut the most was that you don’t claim to avoid drama while posting a carefully worded public post about someone on a public thread, tagging them explicitly, and inviting passive commentary from others.
What also stood out to me was a comment from another comment from a woman I initially thought was pretty dang cool. Her comment was a response to me saying: “I'm sensing bad juju here for, I have no idea what reason!”
Her response?!
“It’s just her sassy personality and sexy natural beauty that we all love so much.”
Maybe it wasn’t meant as a dig. But when you’ve been part of a conversation where your appearance, worth, or femininity already feel scrutinised and then someone subtly introduces “natural beauty” as the reason someone else is adored it’s hard not to notice the implication.
For context: the only aesthetic work I’ve ever had was to correct an injury. In 2019, I was struck in the face with a bottle by an ex. It didn’t break, but it caused permanent trauma to my upper lip. After two years of healing, I sought filler to even things out. I’m lucky to still have all my teeth, my vision, and a functioning jaw. (Pls see pics for reference)
https://postimg.cc/gallery/rM2pCg5
So no. I won’t apologise for the way I look, or for wanting to feel good in my own skin. And I won’t quietly accept that makeup or corrective filler somehow make me “less than” a woman who fits someone’s idea of being more natural. I certainly won’t accept other women publicly commenting on such things.
This site is full of women with different faces, bodies, stories, and that’s the beauty of it. It should be a space where we can all feel confident and expressive without subtle hierarchies based on who’s more “natural” or who has the most original thread comments.
I’m not here to attack anyone. I don’t want sympathy or a pile-on. But I do want honesty. And if someone else is going to craft a narrative about me on their thread, I reserve the right to correct the record on mine.
Women supporting women means holding space even when we misunderstand each other. It means not creating divides masked as decorum.
That’s all I have to say.
Sorry to hear about your dickhead ex Bean!View attachment 2547604
I’ve debated posting this, but after seeing how things were misrepresented yesterday, I feel the need to speak up for myself.
Let me be very clear: I did not start drama. I didn’t critique anyone. I didn’t mock anyone’s compliments or try to bring another woman down. What I did do was respond to someone else’s thread where I was indirectly referenced… repeatedly. Someone expressed frustration that the same compliments were being given to multiple women across threads, and that it made those compliments feel less special, less unique. While I understand that feeling, I simply responded by saying I don’t see it that way. I said this space feels playful to me. That we can all be complimented. That we’re here to uplift each other, not compete. I not only acknowledged this persons feelings but also their mention of having anxiety. I just wanted to share the idea that repeated kindness doesn’t erase its sincerity, it just means someone sees beauty in many places. I thought this was a kind message to leave someone struggling with the idea of ingenuity.
What people didn’t see (because I didn’t make it public), was the private message exchange leading up to it. In that conversation, I shared something personal. I disclosed that I have autism. I did this to give context: that I might come across the wrong way at times, or need reassurance if something feels off and I opened the message apologising. Rather than meeting that with compassion, I was told I was “too heated”… That the conversation wasn’t worth continuing because she had actual paid work to be getting on with.
Anyone who’s neurodivergent or has anxiety will understand how deeply invalidating that is.
The bit that cut the most was that you don’t claim to avoid drama while posting a carefully worded public post about someone on a public thread, tagging them explicitly, and inviting passive commentary from others.
What also stood out to me was a comment from another comment from a woman I initially thought was pretty dang cool. Her comment was a response to me saying: “I'm sensing bad juju here for, I have no idea what reason!”
Her response?!
“It’s just her sassy personality and sexy natural beauty that we all love so much.”
Maybe it wasn’t meant as a dig. But when you’ve been part of a conversation where your appearance, worth, or femininity already feel scrutinised and then someone subtly introduces “natural beauty” as the reason someone else is adored it’s hard not to notice the implication.
For context: the only aesthetic work I’ve ever had was to correct an injury. In 2019, I was struck in the face with a bottle by an ex. It didn’t break, but it caused permanent trauma to my upper lip. After two years of healing, I sought filler to even things out. I’m lucky to still have all my teeth, my vision, and a functioning jaw. (Pls see pics for reference)
https://postimg.cc/gallery/rM2pCg5
So no. I won’t apologise for the way I look, or for wanting to feel good in my own skin. And I won’t quietly accept that makeup or corrective filler somehow make me “less than” a woman who fits someone’s idea of being more natural. I certainly won’t accept other women publicly commenting on such things.
This site is full of women with different faces, bodies, stories, and that’s the beauty of it. It should be a space where we can all feel confident and expressive without subtle hierarchies based on who’s more “natural” or who has the most original thread comments.
I’m not here to attack anyone. I don’t want sympathy or a pile-on. But I do want honesty. And if someone else is going to craft a narrative about me on their thread, I reserve the right to correct the record on mine.
Women supporting women means holding space even when we misunderstand each other. It means not creating divides masked as decorum.
That’s all I have to say.
Thankssss Cyb!!Sorry to hear about your dickhead ex Bean!
I can’t imagine that person said anything about natural beauty to be offensive, but being on the spectrum to some degree myself, I miss clues and cues like this a lot
You’re a gorgeous, funny, smart, sexy, interesting woman with a lot of people visiting this thread hoping to interact with you, nae need for drama
Don’t let a little spat get you down, focus on the good times, the bad always work themselves out
I mean… I wouldn’t say noThankssss Cyb!!
He was a real piece of work that one. Thank god he’s in the bin
Well I would have said the same about the comment until I saw it was edited to say “natural beauty” in the context of what we were talking it about, it could have only been said to cause hurt.
Thankyou again. For your kind words. I’m just very sensitive at times and can feel an urge to defend others and myself (usually always support the underdog, it’s just how I am)! Not for drama, or to name call but to make sure I’m not a doormat!
You know what would be really good right now? An emotionally fueled angry fuck. I think I could deep throat for hours on end in this mood.
Now I’m in a kinda mood
Do you have a FWB to help you out when in need? I assume you do but...Thankssss Cyb!!
He was a real piece of work that one. Thank god he’s in the bin
Well I would have said the same about the comment until I saw it was edited to say “natural beauty” in the context of what we were talking it about, it could have only been said to cause hurt.
Thankyou again. For your kind words. I’m just very sensitive at times and can feel an urge to defend others and myself (usually always support the underdog, it’s just how I am)! Not for drama, or to name call but to make sure I’m not a doormat!
You know what would be really good right now? An emotionally fueled angry fuck. I think I could deep throat for hours on end in this mood.
I get you, I have the same fiery “never back down” attitude and fight for what’s right. It’s the Celtic blood in meThankssss Cyb!!
He was a real piece of work that one. Thank god he’s in the bin
Well I would have said the same about the comment until I saw it was edited to say “natural beauty” in the context of what we were talking it about, it could have only been said to cause hurt.
Thankyou again. For your kind words. I’m just very sensitive at times and can feel an urge to defend others and myself (usually always support the underdog, it’s just how I am)! Not for drama, or to name call but to make sure I’m not a doormat!
You know what would be really good right now? An emotionally fueled angry fuck. I think I could deep throat for hours on end in this mood.
You guys are going to literally freak when I tell you this but I’ve actually not had sex since last year
out of choice though. Practising restricted celibacy (meaning non penetrative sexual activity which I’ve allowed myself) was just a part of my new year new me plan. 
Game on!You guys are going to literally freak when I tell you this but I’ve actually not had sex since last year
Write a lot of smut. Be eaten out if needs be. Masturbate ( a lot ). But refrain from letting someone’s dumb son break my heart/cheat/play me around.
Maybe the right person can chance that
Actually I totally get that... I was in a discord chat (it moved far too quick so here now) and I asked the question 'how long since you last had sex' and even in a sex chat most people were months and in some cases years. Even the hottest girl had not fucked her OH in over a year! I was gob smacked I was in a very small minority getting some weekly.You guys are going to literally freak when I tell you this but I’ve actually not had sex since last year
Write a lot of smut. Be eaten out if needs be. Masturbate ( a lot ). But refrain from letting someone’s dumb son break my heart/cheat/play me around.
Maybe the right person can chance that
Thank God my dad's not on lit he would have totally misinterpreted that, on purposeBut refrain from letting someone’s dumb son break my heart/cheat/play me around.
Maybe the right person can chance that
Oh absolutely.Is your head hanging off the bed at just the right angle?