Ruined Orgasm

JeanPanty

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What's the best way to ruin a guy's orgasm and leave him a whimpering mess?
 
My Miss strokes me very slowly with just one fingernail. With the other hand she is scratching a nipple. Then she'll touch my belly and ask if that's where I want to leave my mess or in my special teaspoon. She'll remind me of how I serve her when she's with her lovers. She makes me tell her how I licked their balls or cleaned their messes. Then, when she's ready, she'll scrape around the tip then rub the shaft and tip until I'm crying out. Then she'll stop, grab a testicle and squeeze and scratch my nipple, as she says, "Now, Pup." And then one way or another she'll feed me my mess as she tells me that I'm the best pup ever.
 
There's a 'point of no return' at which my wife just takes her hand away. That works for us without the need for any kind of pain. I guess it's an individual thing.



One night when we were away in hotel she managed it three times in a row. I have never felt so frustrated and so turned on at the same time. Whimpering mess doesn't even begin to describe it.
 
I'm not sure I understand the concept here. Is a "ruined orgasm" one where there is no orgasm? Or one where the orgasm happens but is somehow robbed of its pleasure?

I've seen pornos titled "ruined orgasms," and they sure look like pleasurable orgasms to me!
 
Wife gave me a ruined orgasm the other weekend. She just played with my cock till I was so close the stopped. But it was at that magic moment and bang, completely ruined. I grabbed her hand and licked some of it off her fingers because I was still so horned up wanting to keep going. She eventually stripped off and mounted me till I came fully and didn't stop till she had her own cum. Was a great time.
 
Are there any tips or tricks on ruined orgasms for the ladies.. is it possible?

I seen an intriguing video that makes me want to try it.
 
I think we should compile a list from relatively benign to utterly cruel.

Wanking him off when his hands are tied behind his back (maybe feet tied too) then letting go just before he is ready to shoot will either stop the orgasm or it will be unsatisfactory dribbling.

Smothering cock and balls with lidocaine (available at pharmacies over the counter for toothache) or clove oil will completely numb his pride and joy.

Offering one stroke, one slap on the balls with a wooden spoon alternately will let you know If he really wants to shoot. Vary the strength of the ball slaps, so he doesn't give up too soon. A minimum of 5 strokes, then slaps should be agreed before.

Throwing a mug of ice water at his thing just when he is ready to cum will stop that happening.

Those are the milder suggestions.
 
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