What is it with younger women liking older men?

I lost my virginity when I was 19 to a man who was 55. It actually was a great experience, though it hurt when he first entered me but he knew what he was doing and at the end it was very enjoyable. I'd never even kissed anyone before that so everything he did was exciting. But when he came inside of me I could feel he was releasing something but didn't realize it was sperm until I got up and started leaking. I was worried at first thinking it was my period but when I saw that it was a clear liquid and he said it was semen, I was amazed. It's then that I realized that babies come from such liquid, and I wasn't on birth control. I ended up getting pregnant after two months of having sex 3-4 times a week. of course he left me after that so I got an abortion as I'd have been disowned by my family had I shown up pregnant and unmarried.
 
My guess, albeit a simple one, is life experience.
I’ve found it easier to open up and engage in more meaningful conversations with older men. There’s a certain depth to their experiences and perspectives that makes it feel less superficial? They tend to approach conversations with more of a calm confidence and understanding, no fake bravado etc, which creates a comfortable space where I don’t feel rushed or ever judged.
Meanwhile with people my age, the conversations often seem more surface-level - obviously this is case by case.
I never had the chance to truly be with an older man—marriage came early for me. But there were moments… quiet, unexpected ones. A few encounters that linger. Some weren’t great, but the ones that were kind… they stayed with me.

There’s a calm in older men, a certain depth in the way they see you—unhurried, steady, like they’ve already heard all your fears before you even speak them. In those moments, I felt held, without ever being touched. It was quiet. Comforting. And maybe a little addictive.

Sometimes, I still wonder what it would’ve been like… if I had let myself stay a little longer in that softness.
 
Older men really know how to please a woman. I learned that early on. I was 20 and had the good fortune of having been with two men who were very much older than me. After that when I had sex with men my age, I found that they needed much more work on their technique and fumbled around quite a bit.
 
Older men really know how to please a woman. I learned that early on. I was 20 and had the good fortune of having been with two men who were very much older than me. After that when I had sex with men my age, I found that they needed much more work on their technique and fumbled around quite a bit.
older is better period
 
I lost my virginity when I was 19 to a man who was 55. It actually was a great experience, though it hurt when he first entered me but he knew what he was doing and at the end it was very enjoyable. I'd never even kissed anyone before that so everything he did was exciting. But when he came inside of me I could feel he was releasing something but didn't realize it was sperm until I got up and started leaking. I was worried at first thinking it was my period but when I saw that it was a clear liquid and he said it was semen, I was amazed. It's then that I realized that babies come from such liquid, and I wasn't on birth control. I ended up getting pregnant after two months of having sex 3-4 times a week. of course he left me after that so I got an abortion as I'd have been disowned by my family had I shown up pregnant and unmarried.
And then you found the love of your life
 
Older men really know how to please a woman. I learned that early on. I was 20 and had the good fortune of having been with two men who were very much older than me. After that when I had sex with men my age, I found that they needed much more work on their technique and fumbled around quite a bit.
That's how we learn what turns you on and makes you cum, do you think there's a mold that produces mature men from nothing?
 
That's how we learn what turns you on and makes you cum, do you think there's a mold that produces mature men from nothing?
My wife told me once she was grateful to my past lovers.

That was a stroke to hear 🤣
 
I haven't read through all of this, but older men are less likely to hit on you - maybe some playful flirting but nothing presumed. It means I can talk to them like an adult, instead of all the inevitable entendres and games you get with younger men. I never knew my father, but I suspect there's also that element to the conversation: you can say things to an older man, with some life experience and wisdom, that a woman couldn't say to her Dad.
 
I've always loved older men, they seem to be a lot more mature. I never dated an older man before but I would like to to become involved with one.
You know, older men are out there, and you sound quite lovely. Perhaps we could talk, if of course, you are inclined to!
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The first time that I really enjoyed sex and realized that I wanted more was after having sex with an older man who gave me my first strong orgasm.

My boyfriends before were okay but not very memorable. But that older man made me beg.
It so true I have heard " do it again" from younger women that find out they are multi orgasmic
 
There’s a calm in older men, a certain depth in the way they see you—unhurried, steady, like they’ve already heard all your fears before you even speak them. In those moments, I felt held, without ever being touched. It was quiet. Comforting. And maybe a little addictive.

Sometimes, I still wonder what it would’ve been like… if I had let myself stay a little longer in that softness.
You hit the nail on the head. When I was younger and with someone 20 plus years older than me I too enjoyed their unhurried, steadiness during the physical act of love. Younger guys can't wait to enter, thrust, and release, while an older man in his 40s and above are more eager to engage in foreplay, kissing, touching, and of course oral. By the time an older man is ready to enter me, I've usually had at least 3 to 4 orgasms orally, so I was more than ready for the man to enter me. And though I usually don't clilmax with intercourse alone, most of the older men knew to stimulate my clitoris while thrusting so I could orgasm with them inside of me.

And the biggie for me was after the older man ejaculated, he wasn't in rush to jump out of bed. Instead, more often than not, he'd hold me from behind, his cock still inside of me, as we slept or talked while his hand would often rest on my hairy bush.

I'm in my late 50s now, so older men aren't really an option for me and I've had to teach my husband and other younger men how to please me properly.

But when the younger guy knows what he's doing, it can be heaven like below.
 
You hit the nail on the head. When I was younger and with someone 20 plus years older than me I too enjoyed their unhurried, steadiness during the physical act of love. Younger guys can't wait to enter, thrust, and release, while an older man in his 40s and above are more eager to engage in foreplay, kissing, touching, and of course oral. By the time an older man is ready to enter me, I've usually had at least 3 to 4 orgasms orally, so I was more than ready for the man to enter me. And though I usually don't clilmax with intercourse alone, most of the older men knew to stimulate my clitoris while thrusting so I could orgasm with them inside of me.

And the biggie for me was after the older man ejaculated, he wasn't in rush to jump out of bed. Instead, more often than not, he'd hold me from behind, his cock still inside of me, as we slept or talked while his hand would often rest on my hairy bush.

I'm in my late 50s now, so older men aren't really an option for me and I've had to teach my husband and other younger men how to please me properly.

But when the younger guy knows what he's doing, it can be heaven like below.

that sounds so nice. An older man is something I've thought about, if I get the nerve to talk to one lol.
 
You hit the nail on the head. When I was younger and with someone 20 plus years older than me I too enjoyed their unhurried, steadiness during the physical act of love. Younger guys can't wait to enter, thrust, and release, while an older man in his 40s and above are more eager to engage in foreplay, kissing, touching, and of course oral. By the time an older man is ready to enter me, I've usually had at least 3 to 4 orgasms orally, so I was more than ready for the man to enter me. And though I usually don't clilmax with intercourse alone, most of the older men knew to stimulate my clitoris while thrusting so I could orgasm with them inside of me.

And the biggie for me was after the older man ejaculated, he wasn't in rush to jump out of bed. Instead, more often than not, he'd hold me from behind, his cock still inside of me, as we slept or talked while his hand would often rest on my hairy bush.

I'm in my late 50s now, so older men aren't really an option for me and I've had to teach my husband and other younger men how to please me properly.

But when the younger guy knows what he's doing, it can be heaven like below.
Loving that pic!
 
The first time that I really enjoyed sex and realized that I wanted more was after having sex with an older man who gave me my first strong orgasm.

My boyfriends before were okay but not very memorable. But that older man made me beg.
I enjoy the idea of making you beg
 
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