Cheated-on husbands who get off on it . . .

Two recent surveys, one in the US, and one in the UK, put the number at about 42% The UK survey found that 42% of women on holiday had had sex with someone other than their mate
Honestly, not surprising. In my case, I was young and humiliated by the public nature of it. If they are discrete and careful, not as big a deal, I think. Now, of course, I’d be much less upset, probably want to hear details if she were to stray, on the down low.
 
Like I said in a previous message, I’ll stick with my guess of around 40%
In my experience the motivation exists, in probably well over 40% of sexually active wives. From there it's mostly about opportunity. Business travel is a near-perfect scenario for indulging sexual urges - hotels far from home, good looking, educated men, everyone dressed to impress, alcohol flowing at night. Next best is travel with girlfriends, or "girls' night out."
 
That’s not “cheating” then (if you encourage her to)
Like I said in a previous message, I’ll stick with my guess of around 40%
Dont really care about what percentage of who is doing what. You guys really know how to take a hot topic and take the fun out of it. LOL! Seriously. I want to know if it’s been done to you and how do you feel about it. Does it anger you, turn you on or both? And if want to tell about it, please do. These surveys are only as accurate as the amount of people who got caught, cheating. Obviously many more did, cheat, that did not get caught. So cut the BS, and let’s get back to what matters, as far as this thread. Cheating wives and Cucks who get off to it or the thought there of.
 
In my experience the motivation exists, in probably well over 40% of sexually active wives. From there it's mostly about opportunity. Business travel is a near-perfect scenario for indulging sexual urges - hotels far from home, good looking, educated men, everyone dressed to impress, alcohol flowing at night. Next best is travel with girlfriends, or "girls' night out."
This is exactly right. For women, sex is 100% available. A business trip, a little alcohol, plenty of opportunity away from home and possibly from prying eyes. If she has a healthy sex urge, she may well pull the trigger .
 
I also enjoy entertaining dom tops when she goes on her trips. Enjoy being fucked thinking of her being fucked by her bf.
Are any of these Dom tops bisexual? If so maybe you could introduce them to her. Then they could really humiliate you with descriptions of what she does for them and comparison of her ass to yours
 
I'm a late-50s married man who found out a few years ago that his loving wife had cheated regularly... Love to connect with other cheated-on husbands and boyfriends who have experienced this and anyone else who's turned on by wives and girlfriends who are bold enough to go out and get what they want or need sexually...
I haven't had time to read most of the responses yet, so I may have more to say later. But...

I first discovered the word “cuckold” when I was in high school, reading Chaucer and Shakespeare. I had no idea why, but I was turned on by the concept. When I went to my high school prom, the girl I took left after the prom to go out on a date with a college guy she knew. She made no secrets about it. Later that summer after graduation, I took another girl I liked but had never gone out with out to a dance club. She left halfway through the evening with a good friend of mine.

I was jealous and angry, as any good, red-blooded American teenage “male” was supposed to be. But then, there were these other feelings... When I got home on each occasion, I masturbated furiously, thinking about the things those girls were doing with some guy that wasn't me. That was 50 years ago, and I still get turned on thinking about it

But by the following summer I no longer even knew how to be jealous. I worked in a hotel kitchen that summer, and a guy I knew there and I were both very attracted to the same girl. When he suggested that we share her, I was startled at first, but then quickly entranced by the idea. It turned out though, that she thought the idea was too weird, and so nothing happened.

Time passed. I got married. I'm pretty sure my first wife cheated on me on at least a couple of occasions, but it was only a hunch, I had no evidence. And she was the shy retiring type, and never could nor ever would tell me about it. She did actually suggest that we try wife swapping once with a couple we were good friends with. If I had been more in touch with my own sexuality, I would have leapt at the chance. But I wasn't yet, and we didn't. And what she did on her own I'll never know.

My second wife was completely the opposite— bold and brassy as could be. She figured out early on that I got turned on by the idea of being cheated on, and she loved to tease me about it, and did so often. Likewise, she loved to tease me about anything that had to do with my sexuality or masculinity. For instance, if I had to work late, another woman might have been concerned or even jealous and imagining that I was meeting up with another woman. She, by contrast, would immediately start teasing me about doing “knee-work” for the boss, and asking me questions when I got home about how it was and how big he was and how much he came and so forth. And I of course would be overwhelmingly embarrassed and unable to answer—not because I'd actually done anything, but because she knew my feelings. And she was delighted by my embarrassment. All that said, I'm pretty sure she never actually did anything herself. For the simple reason that if she had, I'm sure she would have enjoyed telling me about it.

By the time my third marriage happened I was a lot more in touch with my feelings. When, eventually, my wife asked if it was okay if she fucked around with another guy, I told her it absolutely was, so long as she was honest about it and didn't keep secrets from me. For a short while it went very well. She came home with sperm breath and immediately kissed me. She enjoyed telling me how much bigger his cock was than mine, and even told her sister and her adult daughter about this in my presence. But there was a lot of underlying psychological stuff going on that neither one of us were in touch with, and it didn't take long for things to fall apart. The boyfriend wanted her all to himself. And within a few weeks, she had left me for him. I could have told her that he would turn out to be abusive, but by this time she wasn't listening to anything I had to say. Eventually I had to help her move when he wasn't around because she was so afraid of him. But the damage was done by that time and we never were able to make the marriage work after that.

I'm old now, and don't think another relationship, let alone a kinky one, is in the cards for me. I don't even have sex very often anymore, and when I do it's usually with men. But one enduring fantasy is about me sucking off and then being fucked by a younger guy while his girlfriend watches and makes fun of me. And then it drifts back to my high school years, and I imagine myself on my knees sucking off my schoolmates while those girls watch and laugh.
 
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I haven't had time to read most of the responses yet, so I may have more to say later. But...

I first discovered the word “cuckold” when I was in high school, reading joker and Shakespeare. I had no idea why, but I was turned on by the concept. When I went to my high school prom, the girl I took left after the prom to go out on a date with a college guy she knew. She made no secrets about it. Later that summer after graduation, I took another girl I liked but had never gone out with out to a dance club. She left halfway through the evening with a good friend of mine.

I was jealous and angry, as any good, red-blooded American teenage “male” was supposed to be. But then, there were these other feelings... When I got home on each occasion, I masturbated furiously, thinking about the things those girls were doing with some guy that wasn't me. that was 50 years ago, and I still get turned on thinking about it

But by the following summer I no longer even knew how to be jealous. I worked in a hotel kitchen that summer, and a guy I knew there and I were both very attracted to the same girl. When he suggested that we share her, I was startled at first, but then quickly entranced by the idea. It turned out though, that she thought the idea was too weird, and so nothing happened.

Time passed. I got married. I'm pretty sure my first wife cheated on me on at least a couple of occasions, but it was only a hunch, I had no evidence. And she was the shy retiring type, and never could nor ever would tell me about it. She did actually suggest that we try wife swapping once with a couple we were good friends with. If I had been more in touch with my own sexuality, I would have lept at the chance. But I wasn't yet, and we didn't. And what she did on her own I'll never know.

My second wife was completely the opposite— bold and brassy as could be. She figured out early on that I got turned on by the idea of being cheated on, and she loved to tease me about it, and did so often. Likewise, she loved to cheat me about anything that had to do with my sexuality or masculinity. For instance, if I had to work late, another woman might have been concerned or even jealous and imagining that I was meeting up with another woman. She, by contrast, would immediately start teasing me about doing “knee-work” for the boss, and asking me questions when I got home about how it was and how big he was and how much he came and so forth. And I of course would be overwhelmingly embarrassed and unable to answer—not because I'd actually done anything, but because she knew my feelings. And she was delighted by my embarrassment. All that said, I'm pretty sure she never actually did anything herself. For the simple reason that if she had, I'm sure she would have enjoyed telling me about it.

By the time my third marriage happened I was a lot more in touch with my feelings. When, eventually, my wife asked if it was okay if she fucked around with another guy, I told her it absolutely was, so long as she was honest about it and didn't keep secrets from me. For a short while it went very well. She came home with sperm breath and immediately kissed me. She enjoyed telling me how much bigger his cock was than mine, and even told her sister and her adult daughter how about this in my presence. But there was a lot of underlying psychological stuff going on that neither one of us were in touch with, and it didn't take long for things to fall apart. The boyfriend wanted her all to himself. And within a few weeks, she had left me for him. I could have told her that he would turn out to be abusive, but by this time she wasn't listening to anything I had to say. eventually I had to help her move when he wasn't around because she was so afraid of him. But the damage was done by that time and we never were able to make the marriage work after that.

I'm old now, and don't think another relationship, let alone a kinky one, is in the cards for me. I don't even have sex without often anymore, and when I do it's usually with men. But one enduring fantasy is about me sucking off and then being fucked by a younger guy while his girlfriend watches and makes fun of me. And then it drifts back to my high school years, and I imagine myself on my knees sucking off my schoolmates while those girls watch and laugh.
Wow, you have been through a lot. Too bad that you, nor any of your wives realized what it was that you really needed. By the way, it's never too late.
 
I've been cheated on by 3 women I loved, 2 wives and 1 girlfriend, I knew they were cheating on me but did nothing about it so I always figured I was a cuckold, I always hated when I would find evidence of their cheating (cum in panties, love bites on breasts or other areas) my now wife is very faithful to me but I have fantasizes of her with others, its grown into like I want her to cheat on me. I think all my life I was groomed to be cuckolded
 
Wow, you have been through a lot. Too bad that you, nor any of your wives realized what it was that you really needed. By the way, it's never too late.
I failed to mention the girlfriend I had before my third wife. She really got it. She loved to roleplay the slut wife, and to tease and humiliate me any way she could, any way that would challenge my masculinity. She loved to sit on my face and twist my balls and play with my ass while she told me about the “man she'd been with last night,” and then after I'd made her cum with my tongue, piss in my mouth.

But it was all roleplay, with her. In real life, she was strictly monogamous, and had no interest in actually doing these things. Or at least not while we were together. Maybe when she told me to move out, it was because she found another man, if so she never told me.

then it drifts back to my high school years, and I imagine myself on my knees sucking off my schoolmates while those girls watch and laugh.
I do wonder sometimes about high school girls. I mean not that I'm some pervert who goes after girls younger than my granddaughters. It's only about nostalgia, for me. But what I do wonder is if high school girls actually think about that, actually want to see a guy sucking cock and so forth. Some of the girls I went to high school with were very dirty girls (though I never had the pleasure myself) and I loved to fantasize about what they might have been fantasizing about. 😏
 
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I've been cheated on by 3 women I loved, 2 wives and 1 girlfriend, I knew they were cheating on me but did nothing about it so I always figured I was a cuckold, I always hated when I would find evidence of their cheating (cum in panties, love bites on breasts or other areas) my now wife is very faithful to me but I have fantasizes of her with others, its grown into like I want her to cheat on me. I think all my life I was groomed to be cuckolded
Nothing wrong with being a cuckold. We have benifits most men could never have.
 
I agree. I think the biggest factor is whether she feels like she’ll be found out. If secrecy is guaranteed, I’d imagine most wives would fuck
Agreed. I think we all know by now women’s desire for variety is the same as men. The only difference is the women who suppress it and the ones that that don’t. Many bold adventurous wives that decide to take the initiative to seek a lover truly believe they are smart enough to never get caught. In their minds the risk is non -existent. No sane woman would risk her marriage and public reputation in an affair if they thought there was a risk of discovery.

The planning is so well thought out leaving nothing to chance. Moreover they present no outward desire for sex to their husbands or a push for mixing it up in the bedroom. The clothing they wear in public has no ounce of sex appeal (at least the clothing she leaves the house in). Laying that clever groundwork will ensure the husband would never suspect. Don’t ever underestimate outward appearances of a wife or what she’s capable of.
 
In my experience the motivation exists, in probably well over 40% of sexually active wives. From there it's mostly about opportunity. Business travel is a near-perfect scenario for indulging sexual urges - hotels far from home, good looking, educated men, everyone dressed to impress, alcohol flowing at night. Next best is travel with girlfriends, or "girls' night out."
Being away offers her the anonymous benefits but the same could be said for going to a hometown airport hotel bar when her husband is the one out of town. There is a slight added risk if someone she knew was entertaining an out of town business associate but if she’s smart, she’ll scan the room before deciding to stay. And of course the rooms upstairs are an added convenience . The thought of my sexy wife sitting on a bar stool with her legs crossed at such a place when I’m out of town on business is an admitted fantasy
 
I've been cheated on by 3 women I loved, 2 wives and 1 girlfriend, I knew they were cheating on me but did nothing about it so I always figured I was a cuckold, I always hated when I would find evidence of their cheating (cum in panties, love bites on breasts or other areas) my now wife is very faithful to me but I have fantasizes of her with others, its grown into like I want her to cheat on me. I think all my life I was groomed to be cuckolded
It can be a very difficult and confusing journey to navigate, but also very rewarding and exciting. It all depends on what we want, and who we are. Enjoy it
 
I worked out of town and I know my wife was cheating on me by the new clothes that would show up and the lingerie she starting wearing . I’d come home and we’d go out to a few clubs and guys would call her by name . She’d tell me they were just friends she’d met . I’d go to the restroom and when I’d return she’d be on the dance floor with a guy all over her . I’d be so turned on knowing she’d probably been with him
 
I’ve told her several times and she denies it . Sometimes she’ll come home from girls night out and her hair and makeup are a mess . I’ll reach over and put a finger in her and I can tell she’s been with someone
That's the time to go down on her, right away. That will tell her more than a thousand words.

Afterwards, limit the thousand words to 13: “I love the way you taste when you've been out with the girls.”
 
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This is exactly right. For women, sex is 100% available. A business trip, a little alcohol, plenty of opportunity away from home and possibly from prying eyes. If she has a healthy sex urge, she may well pull the trigger .
additionally,, if your wife is a flight attendant , sets her schedule in a mornings..That give her most of the afternoon and evening to be who she want to be...Husbands to a little checking on what she take a long not related to her uniforms
 
additionally,, if your wife is a flight attendant , sets her schedule in a mornings..That give her most of the afternoon and evening to be who she want to be...Husbands to a little checking on what she take a long not related to her uniforms
Is this from personal experience ?
 
My wife is on a date tonight. She told me she wouldn’t be home till tomorrow so I could sleep in our bed tonight. As if I will be able to sleep….
Is this with a regular lover or some guy she just met??
hope she has a fab evening and returns to you well fucked and smiling
 
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