As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

[CuriousJInLA]

I don’t know if I’m qualified to answer as I’m not sure I’m bi. And by that I mean I’m generally attracted to women, although I’ve had a few MM and MMF experiences. Don’t get me wrong, they’re hot and fun. But when I see a good looking guy I don’t immediately think about them in an attractive way the way I do with women

 

[CdKimMajick]

I don’t know if I’m qualified to answer as I’m not sure I’m bi. And by that I mean I’m generally attracted to women, although I’ve had a few MM and MMF experiences. Don’t get me wrong, they’re hot and fun. But when I see a good looking guy I don’t immediately think about them in an attractive way the way I do with women

I used to be the same way but recently women do nothing for me. I don't know what changed and that's ok.

I fulfilled my goal from 2 years ago of coming out and living life fully as female as possible. And if men turn me on more then women do then that's perfectly fine. I've been bi since my teens and been with both sexes.

 

[bobb_sledd]

The vast majority of my sexual activity over the past 10-15 years has been pay4play; the majority of that with females. I’ve been seeing the same female provider every couple of months for about 8-10 years now. On a few occasions another of her male clients has joined us for very pleasurable MMF sessions. He’s since moved out of the area.

For the past 18-months or so, I’ve also been seeing a male crossdressing masseur whose services have evolved from massage/hand-release to mutual oral and well lubricated cock to ass-crack gliding (with no penetration). During this time, for budgetary reasons and my ability to get away to “play”, I’ve been alternating between my female friend and the male masseur. (They are each aware of the other.)

I can’t see myself in a relationship with a man – I’m not attracted to men I just enjoy sucking cock.

In direct answer to the question posed by the OP – I prefer the opposite sex.

 

[Flanast]

I used to be the same way but recently women do nothing for me. I don't know what changed and that's ok.

I fulfilled my goal from 2 years ago of coming out and living life fully as female as possible. And if men turn me on more then women do then that's perfectly fine. I've been bi since my teens and been with both sexes.

You definitely have more courage than I do. I’m not really interested in pussy anymore and have preferred cock for many years. But I only like being with a man romantically (other than just sex) while dressed as a gurl. Of If I had the guts to come out, I would live as a woman full time and find a guy that likes that.

 

[CdKimMajick]

You definitely have more courage than I do. I’m not really interested in pussy anymore and have preferred cock for many years. But I only like being with a man romantically (other than just sex) while dressed as a gurl. Of If I had the guts to come out, I would live as a woman full time and find a guy that likes that.

I've been with guys when not dressed. I've never felt the need to be dressed to be fucked.

But I love being treated like a lady when I am dressed and with a man.

And I wish i could find a man that accepts me as kim.

I should have came out a long time ago

 

[Flanast]

I've been with guys when not dressed. I've never felt the need to be dressed to be fucked.

But I love being treated like a lady when I am dressed and with a man.

And I wish i could find a man that accepts me as kim.

I should have came out a long time ago

Yes I feel exactly the same way

 

[J1biboi]

If it was not a thing, it is now. I also find my cock cavings ebb and flow like the tide ... wax and wane like the moon? The cycle is anywhere from a couple weeks to several months.

Probably related to my biorhythms.

Same here. For the most part I have always preferred women but there have been many, many times in my life that I have had really strong cravings to suck cock! It tends to just cum and go!!

 

[CdKimMajick]

Same here. For the most part I have always preferred women but there have been many, many times in my life that I have had really strong cravings to suck cock! It tends to just cum and go!!

I used to prefer women but over the last six months honestly women really don't turn me on as much. But thinking about or looking at hard cocks male/cd/trans it don't matter my cock starts leaking and my panties get soaked right away.

If I had a choice of a long term relationship with a female or male I would at this point pick the male. And while I have been with guys sexually I have never dated one and really had no desire to but now I really want to find a good man to treat me like the lady I am living as.

 

[artgorden]

When I watch straight porn I almost always find myself getting hot and hard about a cock.

 

[CdKimMajick]

When I watch straight porn I almost always find myself getting hot and hard about a cock.

I never watch straight porn anymore. It's either crossdresser, sissy, femboi, or trans

 

[Bayzapper10]

I think that because sex with men is harder to get I get more worked up for dick.

Wait, what??? Sex with men is harder to get? Where do you live, ‘cause if sex with women is so easy and plentiful there that it has lost its appeal to you, damn!! I want to at least be your wingman! I will definitely take all the girls throwing themselves at you to clear up a path for you to get some dick!!!!!

 

[artgorden]

Wait, what??? Sex with men is harder to get? Where do you live, ‘cause if sex with women is so easy and plentiful there that it has lost its appeal to you, damn!! I want to at least be your wingman! I will definitely take all the girls throwing themselves at you to clear up a path for you to get some dick!!!!!

I have zero instinct with men, and I m not out.

 

[artgorden]

I love my wife and her attraction big dicked men. She is willing to seek bi men to share with me because my dick has never made her cum, a man who fucks her to orgasm has an enthusiastic bottom in me.

 

[PG564E]

Long time married male.
Prefer to suck, swallow, and fuck like a girl.

 

[Bayzapper10]

I love my wife and her attraction big dicked men. She is willing to seek bi men to share with me because my dick has never made her cum, a man who fucks her to orgasm has an enthusiastic bottom in me.

I think that is a beautiful example of what a good relationship looks like: “I love you, you love me, there are some challenges, let’s get them out in the open, without judgement and see how we can overcome them together?”

I love it!

 

[CdKimMajick]

I love my wife and her attraction big dicked men. She is willing to seek bi men to share with me because my dick has never made her cum, a man who fucks her to orgasm has an enthusiastic bottom in me.

My third wife used to pick up guys to watch me get fucked she just watched.

We would have a contest when we would go out to see who could find a guy first!

 

[Justusnluv]

I met my beautiful wife in December of 96. She moved in with me in April. By June I was becoming her cuckold. I have only ever supported her and her sexual lovers. Today if being honest I would choose a man over her in bed.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I feel nice and warm when a man puts his arms around me and claims me

 

[BigEd1]

Physically - men
Emotionally- women

 

[rube37]

I am married and love my wife very much. She is the only woman I have ever had sex with. Before we were married I had only touched one other girl's tits, and that was very briefly. However, if my wife were more interested in sex, I would much prefer having sex with her. Since that is the case, I have turned to stroking and sucking cock. I really enjoy the feel of another man's hard cock in my hand stroking him and feeling him cum! I also like to suck a nice looking cock from time to time.

 

[saintcero]

I’ve only been to bed with one female. My bed count for males is now 6. While I still consider females as my primary attraction let’s just say the gap is closing and closing quickly

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Been a long time since I have had sex with a man but think about it often. I definitely only partner with women but do crave the freedom to explore my bisexuality. My wife knows about my desires and we do fantasize about entertaining a bisexual man together. Cheers

 

[vvbim]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

I can't say I'm bi anymore, as besides my wife, I won't consider having sex anymore with another woman unless she is into pegging. I enjoy sex more with a man, but my preference overall would be a top TS woman. So I guess, I just love being fucked

 

[CliimaxForYou]

This is a great question!

Single guy here. Late 50’s. For context.

Only attracted to women. Only romantically interested in women. I’ve enjoyed a few mfm’s in my
Time, and those are still my favorite. Finding a woman who enjoys a little adventurous variety in her sex life would be ideal. Or a fully bi couple to service where the woman actively encourages sex between all parties.

But I find as i get older, i can absolutely enjoy sex with another guy. Not interested in kissing. It’s not romantic. At all. It’s just sex. Absolutely love to suck a guy off. Enjoy being responsible for their orgasm. I prefer to service them For their pleasure, and have found that I absolutely love the bottom role. I’m still surprised that even though my strong preference is women…when I’ve got a hard cock sliding against or into my ass…I immediately get “slutty verbal”. Im Way more verbal with a man. Don’t know why. But im Immediately begging them to fuck me harder.

I also have almost a fetish for tasting precum, including my own. Don’t mind men cuming in my mouth, but have never swallowed cum (yet)…my own or someone else’s.

I have zero desire to top a man, and find nothing attractive about a dudes ass. lol

I tend to be more dominate with women, but immediately prefer a sluttty submissive role sexually with men. Im
Very masculine. You’d never know this about me In day to day normal Settings.

I do have a lady fwb that is very much into ass play and using anal toys (giving and receiving). This is uncommonly good. My sweet spot could be described as an mfm with me in the middle…inside her and facing her, while he’s inside me from behind.

Sorry for all the detail. Im
Just still figuring out all of this about myself. Feel free to DM if you want or need any more details privately.

I enjoy reading the answers to this question.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

My third wife used to pick up guys to watch me get fucked she just watched.

We would have a contest when we would go out to see who could find a guy first!

She sounds fun.