What is it with younger women liking older men?

I always find that older men just really know how to treat you. Like I've had guys my own age before and majority of them were all jerks or just didnt know what they were doing. It made for awkward sex and even more awkward experiences!! With older guys tho they tend to give more compliments and hold more meaningful conversations ☺️☺️ plus the sex is always so much better ❤️😌😊
 
I'm 75 and I am shocked by how often 20- and 30-somethings approach me in sexual ways
 
The sex is always better with older men. They know what they are doing in bed. They last longer too. Everything about it is just so hot. I love it!
It's like everying else, experience counts. I have never understood why men seek out virgins unless the men lack confidence to begin with
 
I always find that older men just really know how to treat you. Like I've had guys my own age before and majority of them were all jerks or just didnt know what they were doing. It made for awkward sex and even more awkward experiences!! With older guys tho they tend to give more compliments and hold more meaningful conversations ☺️☺️ plus the sex is always so much better ❤️😌😊
So I’m getting this from a lot of women….in summary

- Older men are more confident so they can be themselves…more secure, nicer than young cocky guys, they don’t care what others think of them, etc

- they have more life experience so they can have deeper and more meaningful conversations. They value connection over looks

- they’ve had years of sexual experience so they know to focus on the woman’s pleasure. They probably get a lot of pleasure from her pleasure.

- They’re more in charge and younger women feel safe and a sense of security around them.

Does that pretty much sum it up for most younger women who like older men?
 
I have been picked up by college aged girls twice at the nude beach twice this year already. I am older and in good shape, I don’t need to understand it I’m having too much fun with it.
 
For me I like the idea of a guy having more sexual experience. I know it's not always the case just because they're older, but it's certainly part of the attraction. They also tend to behave more respectfully than guys closer to my own age.
True, older guys aren’t normally rude or cocky. They’re nicer and more complimentary
 
True, older guys aren’t normally rude or cocky. They’re nicer and more complimentary
Took me until my mid to late 20s to know what to do. Some girls know instinctively that what they are looking for is experience
 
We have a breadth and depth of experiences, sexual and otherwise.

As for me, I can talk to most anyone - it’s fun to meet people and have an interesting conversation.
 
My wife and I are still in our late 20s, so we’re a relatively young couple. Her fantasies about older men used to make me feel a bit insecure, but I genuinely want to grow past that. More than anything, I want to understand what it is they offer so I can be a better husband to her in my own way.
 
My wife and I are still in our late 20s, so we’re a relatively young couple. Her fantasies about older men used to make me feel a bit insecure, but I genuinely want to grow past that. More than anything, I want to understand what it is they offer so I can be a better husband to her in my own way.
There's not much you can "offer" except to get older, which you will. Older men are more experienced (usually) and more attentive to her needs. It may just be that they are more affluent and can giver her a funner time. Has she had may older lovers before?
 
There's not much you can "offer" except to get older, which you will. Older men are more experienced (usually) and more attentive to her needs. It may just be that they are more affluent and can giver her a funner time. Has she had may older lovers before?
She did date few older men b4 😅
 
it might help to be an attentive lover and be as protective as possible. there are other creative possibilities
I’m doing my best within my capacity, but I sometimes wonder if there are gaps I’m not filling—maybe that’s why she turns to fantasies or imagines being with an older man.
 
I’m doing my best within my capacity, but I sometimes wonder if there are gaps I’m not filling—maybe that’s why she turns to fantasies or imagines being with an older man.
You can be more like an older man, but you can't actually be one -- but you will be. I went through this situation when I was 23, she was beautiful and more experienced than me
 
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