Size does matter

[P0peye]

It depends entirely upon what sensations one prefers, regardless of whether or not those preferences are realistic. I know that very large cocks are not the norm. That doesn't stop me from liking them or wanting them. I like the way that a big cock feels fucking my throat .

 

[Bisexguy70]

I love all cocks but prefer bigger. If your 6” or bigger and thick ill love it. What I really love is the overwhelming feeling of having a cock fully in my mouth and my throat and theres still enough to use my tactile senses and feel the hardness and throbbing in my hand as I try to swirl my tongue around the remaining length.
Ive sucked small 3-4” cocks and honestly it didnt do much for me at all

 

[P0peye]

The longer and thicker the cock, the deeper and wider the penetration and the more intense the sensation. Little penises like mine don't make it for me.

 

[Tessinwales]

Let's face it, yes size does matter. It matters in as much as it is just one aspect of having sex with a man. However, more importantly is consideration, style, technique and good old fashioned passion and desire. Personally speaking a man who desires me is way more sexy that a guy waving his big dick around my bedroom.

So, give me a guy with passion, desire and consideration and I'll probably have a good time with him. If he also is well equipped that's a bonus, but by no means essential.

 

[AngieGZC]

My husband is mildly above average (I don’t tell him that.) when we met and had intercourse for the first time he was the perfect size..

I called his dick the Goldilocks dick. He was perfect, until I gave birth to our first child. After that he was fine. Good enough for sex and we had our second child.

After that it wasn’t his length but girth. I needed a something wider. I’ve since learned that length and less girth can also be fun..

I love girth as well; have you tried a knotted dildo or vibrator?

 

[Scareltt]

I love girth as well; have you tried a knotted dildo or vibrator?

Mmmmm yes.. I like both..

 

[babyface23]

I've never considered myself big, but I was above average, especially with girth. Every woman I've been with says it matters. Granted, I'd rather be remembered for how I treated them and used it.

 

[lowcollar]

I knew one woman who wouldn't even bother dating a guy with anything but large hands. She believed...large hands = large dick. She was also large. I know another who was quite small and liked a small dicked guy. Whatever works. I know that when I am being pegged, I like something large.

 

[Wriggle]

 

[Dayhoosier]

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This completely tracks

 

[SPARTAN047]

Titty and ass size are a preference for men and usually they want bigger, just not the waist.

This is a preference if they know nothing about the woman. Maybe women just look at bigger sizes as they stand out more.

When it comes to actually using them, bigger in both cases may be better if you know what to do with them, and usually no one does.

Very few people will care about size as opposed to the person it's attached to. Unless they're shallow.

If a huge swinging pocket rocket is useless when it's at the wrong angle for takeoff, a Grand Canyon sized hole is pointless to jump into.

 

[muycurioso]

It has become very correct to say size really does not matter. I don't believe that. I think it's a way of making average and less endowed men feel not so inadequate. It has become part of the hypocrisy of correctness to propagate this. Ask any girl who enjoys sex with men, and she will confirm size does matter. After all sexual congress is an invasive process and the female body is naturally built for the intrusion of the phallus. So we do get most of our pleasure by the thrusting hardness of our lover's hardness and fullness. Don't get me wrong. It's not the only thing that matters. Technique and attitude also have a lot to do. But size is the most important. Love to hear from others especially other girls.

I am a lil above avg a tad thicker

 

[Helpme01]

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And 64% of those women as soon as she gets mad enough will tell everyone she knows he got a small dick! But fellas if you put her first do things to please her your size won’t matter as much

 

[LMWM321]

And 64% of those women as soon as she gets mad enough will tell everyone she knows he got a small dick! But fellas if you put her first do things to please her your size won’t matter as much

bullshit.

throughout her life my wife has had countless girlfriends who have gone through bad relationships - from cheaters to abusive brutes. ..She has NEVER heard any of these unfortunate women make mention of the guys dick size.

This preoccupation with dick size exists almost exclusively in men's minds.

 

[CTim]

I don't think men are going to quit worrying or being interested in the size issue any time soon. It's an easily measurable and comparable body part that we are quite attached to and fond of.

I'm sure in certain circles some women are very forthcoming with one another on the subject, but I don't think it's the norm we might imagine. Similar to LMWM above, my wife has told me it has never once come up with her friends at any point in her life. I'll admit she's probably a bit more conservative than most, but she doesn't live under a rock either.

 

[Badxxxwifey]

It has become very correct to say size really does not matter. I don't believe that. I think it's a way of making average and less endowed men feel not so inadequate. It has become part of the hypocrisy of correctness to propagate this. Ask any girl who enjoys sex with men, and she will confirm size does matter. After all sexual congress is an invasive process and the female body is naturally built for the intrusion of the phallus. So we do get most of our pleasure by the thrusting hardness of our lover's hardness and fullness. Don't get me wrong. It's not the only thing that matters. Technique and attitude also have a lot to do. But size is the most important. Love to hear from others especially other girls.

Bigger is better

 

[P0peye]

I suspect that men are more aware of size discrepancies among their peers growing up where the size of your cock reflects the degree of your masculinity. I can testify to having felt intimidated by other boys whose cocks were bigger than mine (which was virtually everyone) , and the reason I became my best friend's personal cocksucker was because of the fact that his cock was so much bigger and more impressive than my pathetic little penis.

 

[Helpme01]

bullshit.

throughout her life my wife has had countless girlfriends who have gone through bad relationships - from cheaters to abusive brutes. ..She has NEVER heard any of these unfortunate women make mention of the guys dick size.

This preoccupation with dick size exists almost exclusively in men's minds.

Im telling from hanging out with females sisters and their friends I have 100% heard them say of course they cause they know it’s the easiest way to fuck a guy up but I do agree that men let it bother them way to much

 

[LMWM321]

it’s the easiest way to fuck a guy up but I do agree that men let it bother them way to much

...That much is true.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

While I wouldn't presume to speak for all women, for me girth is where it's at and it always has been! Yes, I've had a few unusually big cocks, and some have been lovely while others seem to have simply been appendages to men who assumed that their size was a suitable replacement for being a good and considerate lover.
Personally, I don't find it at all pleasurable to have my cervix repeatedly rammed into. and even if someone has an abnormally big cock but IS a considerate lover, I tend to feel sorry that they can't fully insert it without it being uncomfortable for me. I would think full penetration is what feels best for a man, but then hey, that's just an assumption on my part.
If they're into anal (I happen to LOVE anal!), that's what I usual steer them to, as I can take a longer cock anally than vaginally.
What ISN'T an assumption is that girth is wonderful either way for me... I love the feeling of fullness, of that certain pressure of being stretched, and even when very wet, the friction...
Having said this, a cock attached to a knowing lover will always feel good, and a talented set of fingers, lips and tongue can more than compliment and indeed make up for any perceived "shortcomings". The bottom line? FEAST on my pussy like a ninja, and I'll cum, and cum! But then I better stop rambling!

 

[NightBirdNYC]

And yes....
Ahhhh, girth!
https://vlix.io/video/a1df3ca308ad0bf48591/

 

[sixfoot4]

My husband is mildly above average (I don’t tell him that.) when we met and had intercourse for the first time he was the perfect size..

I called his dick the Goldilocks dick. He was perfect, until I gave birth to our first child. After that he was fine. Good enough for sex and we had our second child.

After that it wasn’t his length but girth. I needed a something wider. I’ve since learned that length and less girth can also be fun..

Do tell how you learned this to be so. TIA.

 

[nostuff]

It has become very correct to say size really does not matter. I don't believe that. I think it's a way of making average and less endowed men feel not so inadequate. It has become part of the hypocrisy of correctness to propagate this. Ask any girl who enjoys sex with men, and she will confirm size does matter. After all sexual congress is an invasive process and the female body is naturally built for the intrusion of the phallus. So we do get most of our pleasure by the thrusting hardness of our lover's hardness and fullness. Don't get me wrong. It's not the only thing that matters. Technique and attitude also have a lot to do. But size is the most important. Love to hear from others especially other girls.

I totally agree -- sort of.

I've been with men ranging from quite small to porn star proportions, and I've had fun with all of them (OK, one guy was a jerk, which had nothing to do with his size).

But there's something mesmerizing about a big cock. When I see it, I've just got to have it. I love wrapping my fingers around it and stretching my jaws to accommodate it. And when it presses into my throat and makes me gag, I'm thrilled beyond belief.

Yes, I am definitely a size queen.

 

[old_hippy_46]

It has become very correct to say size really does not matter. I don't believe that. I think it's a way of making average and less endowed men feel not so inadequate. It has become part of the hypocrisy of correctness to propagate this. Ask any girl who enjoys sex with men, and she will confirm size does matter. After all sexual congress is an invasive process and the female body is naturally built for the intrusion of the phallus. So we do get most of our pleasure by the thrusting hardness of our lover's hardness and fullness. Don't get me wrong. It's not the only thing that matters. Technique and attitude also have a lot to do. But size is the most important. Love to hear from others especially other girls.

I respectfully disagree about size. To rephrase an old song "it ain't the meat, it's the motion"

 

[Typo Fu Master]

In my opinion, size absolutely matters. What I see some posting here missing, is the fact that even if a person picks an average sized dildo, or prefers an average sized penis, that's a preference. The size of it matters, whether it's small, medium or large. Everybody is different. Everyone has preferences.

This is so silly... I know you're just trying to be provocative rather than have a real conversation, but I guess I can't help myself but respond.

So, explain to me:

• Why is the most commonly purchased dildo size that of an average penis? That is, when purchased by women..
• Why is it that when women are asked to pick their preferred penis size from a selection of phalluses they most often chose one that is close to average? (Google the study... I forget the name)
• Why isn’t “huge dick” ever listed among women’s top sexual fantasies in surveys conducted by Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Oprah, etc.? I have never seen it - not once.

Sure, most women probably prefer their partner does not have a micro penis. Yes, this much is probably true.

Men need to focus less on the size of their dick and more on the person it's attached to. If you're an unappealing dolt who doesn't take care of himself, has no sense of humor, treats women poorly and thinks his "big dick" is going to make up for his lack of any redeeming qualities, well.... Good luck with that!

I know you're trying to argue against the point I'm making but to me, this is a very wordy way of saying size matters. It's not the only factor, but it's probably in the top three.