Long edging sessions, orgasm control, orgasm denial and huge cumshots

We were watching a good basketball game and chatting about our days. My wife told me about a very handsome guy that she worked with today. She owns a gardening business and she was really turned on by a Hispanic man who is a landscaper who was working on the property. She’s super monogamous, but I like that she looks at other men.

It turned me on.

A bit later she mentioned maybe watching me jerk off.

The game went into double overtime.

It was 1030 when we retired. I asked her if she wanted to still watch me jerk off. She said yes.

I put some stretchy cock and ball bands on and started edging for her. I was super hard and turned on being watched by her. I came close and edged and edged for an hour, staving off my orgasm time and time again when I got too close.

Towards the end I asked her to take over, but instead, she used her hitachi on my and told me not to cum. She held the vibrator right on the super sensitive area on the underside. Then she took out her riding crop and lightly spanked me on the balls and underside of my cock. I was soooo close!

She said she will not let me cum this month. It’s been about ten days since I’ve cum so I’m starting to get to “super horny.” She loves me like this and withholding my orgasm for a long period of time.
 
We both like long sessions, and we fucked for a good 30 or 40 minutes yesterday. My reward for giving her so many orgasms was that she was going to give me a long, edging hand job.

She put stretchy cock, bands around my balls and cock, and started to lose me up and masturbate me. It takes me a long time to cum - which is sometimes a blessing and sometimes a curse.

I do really enjoy long, edging hand jobs with me in desperation, so she did just that. She got me to the edge in about 15 minutes, and varied her speed and technique and grip. It was mind blowing.

My eyes were rolling up in my head.

She knew exactly what she was doing, and knows how to keep me on the edge. It’s maddening, and wonderful at the same time. Sometimes I would have to tell her to back off a little bit, so I wouldn’t cum.

After about 20 more minutes of this, she had to move, because her arm was sore. I like it when she stands on the side of the bed and towers over me and controls me. So she got up and did and that really sent me. I was soooooo close! She would back off just at the right time with some verbal encouragement for me: “No cumming! No cumming for you…”

(I am hard, just writing this!)

But then the cat attacked her feet! She really jumped! And it wouldn’t stop. So she jumped back into bed with more hand jobbing from there.

Cattus interruptus!

She resumed her incessant hand jobbing. I was in heaven, or hell, I couldn’t tell which. I love the mindfuck of it.

At one point, after 45 or 50 minutes I told her to back off, because I was really close. We have good communication that way. But….She didn’t stop in time and my orgasm was eminent. I felt it rising, and the train had left the station.

She was hands off, and watching my cock, twitch and shoot jets of come up in the air. Must have been a good eight or 10 powerful shots.

That’s why I love orgasm control and long, intense edging!! Altho it wasn’t planned for me to cum, we had a great session.
 
This morning I was really hard after a hit mutual masturbation session last nite. I did not cum.

My wife went to the bathroom, and when she came back, I had the covers off me and my huge erection sticking out. She wears this long tight black dress to bed, she calls it her Morticia Addams dress and it looks like that, but it’s probably a little more stretchy so she can walk well. 😂

Anyway, she came into watching me, stroke myself, and came up to the side of the bed and gave me a delicious hand job, which turned into a blow job. She seriously hurt her rib a few weeks ago so moving can be painful. that hurt too much, so she went back to hand jobbing me and put some lube on my cock.

She told me not to cum and to tell her when to slow down and stop. This is where communication is critical, one half stroke too much and I would orgasm all over the place.

She kept me deliciously, tortured: heaven, and hell. I wanted to orgasm so bad, but I love the feeling of edging and feeling so good and to be so aroused. It makes my whole body feel alive to be edged.

This went on for about 20 minutes before her arm got tired and she asked me to take over.

Then had some delicious pillow talk about a fantasy that we’re trying to make real: tbh it’s more about me than it is about her, but someone here on lit wants me to make a big tribute with her jerking me off onto the picture. My wife is not nearly as keen as I am about it, but she’s a good sport and it sounds like she’s going to play along when she’s ready to let me cum.

All the while we talked about it, I was edging and on the brink. Sunday will be two weeks since my last ejaculation….
 
This morning I was really hard after a hit mutual masturbation session last nite. I did not cum.

My wife went to the bathroom, and when she came back, I had the covers off me and my huge erection sticking out. She wears this long tight black dress to bed, she calls it her Morticia Addams dress and it looks like that, but it’s probably a little more stretchy so she can walk well. 😂

Anyway, she came into watching me, stroke myself, and came up to the side of the bed and gave me a delicious hand job, which turned into a blow job. She seriously hurt her rib a few weeks ago so moving can be painful. that hurt too much, so she went back to hand jobbing me and put some lube on my cock.

She told me not to cum and to tell her when to slow down and stop. This is where communication is critical, one half stroke too much and I would orgasm all over the place.

She kept me deliciously, tortured: heaven, and hell. I wanted to orgasm so bad, but I love the feeling of edging and feeling so good and to be so aroused. It makes my whole body feel alive to be edged.

This went on for about 20 minutes before her arm got tired and she asked me to take over.

Then had some delicious pillow talk about a fantasy that we’re trying to make real: tbh it’s more about me than it is about her, but someone here on lit wants me to make a big tribute with her jerking me off onto the picture. My wife is not nearly as keen as I am about it, but she’s a good sport and it sounds like she’s going to play along when she’s ready to let me cum.

All the while we talked about it, I was edging and on the brink. Sunday will be two weeks since my last ejaculation….
I loved it all until the last sentence, where it's been 2 weeks since you had last cum. I'm into all of that, but 2 weeks is too long.
 
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We both like long sessions, and we fucked for a good 30 or 40 minutes yesterday. My reward for giving her so many orgasms was that she was going to give me a long, edging hand job.

She put stretchy cock, bands around my balls and cock, and started to lose me up and masturbate me. It takes me a long time to cum - which is sometimes a blessing and sometimes a curse.

I do really enjoy long, edging hand jobs with me in desperation, so she did just that. She got me to the edge in about 15 minutes, and varied her speed and technique and grip. It was mind blowing.

My eyes were rolling up in my head.

She knew exactly what she was doing, and knows how to keep me on the edge. It’s maddening, and wonderful at the same time. Sometimes I would have to tell her to back off a little bit, so I wouldn’t cum.

After about 20 more minutes of this, she had to move, because her arm was sore. I like it when she stands on the side of the bed and towers over me and controls me. So she got up and did and that really sent me. I was soooooo close! She would back off just at the right time with some verbal encouragement for me: “No cumming! No cumming for you…”

(I am hard, just writing this!)

But then the cat attacked her feet! She really jumped! And it wouldn’t stop. So she jumped back into bed with more hand jobbing from there.

Cattus interruptus!

She resumed her incessant hand jobbing. I was in heaven, or hell, I couldn’t tell which. I love the mindfuck of it.

At one point, after 45 or 50 minutes I told her to back off, because I was really close. We have good communication that way. But….She didn’t stop in time and my orgasm was eminent. I felt it rising, and the train had left the station.

She was hands off, and watching my cock, twitch and shoot jets of come up in the air. Must have been a good eight or 10 powerful shots.

That’s why I love orgasm control and long, intense edging!! Altho it wasn’t planned for me to cum, we had a great session.

You are so lucky to have a wife that gives you exactly that
 
My wife was still asleep this morning and I was all horned up.

So I went out to the living room (were empty nesters now) and watched some porn on my phone and masturbated. I was super aroused and horny.

I tried masturbating a newish way. I’d done it before but never this intensely. I just slowly rubbed the underside of my cock on both sides with both hands in various rhythms - it was extremely intense.

I was oozing precum. It was everywhere… and I was edge of and able to get sooooooo close to orgasm without tipping over. I’ve never had this much precum come out before.

It was amazing! I was having all kinds of body contractions and feeling amazing and so close.

My wife came out and said hi… she didn’t mind at all. She watched me for a while.

I edged for almost 2 hours!

My cock is still a bit raw on the underside. Totally memorable session.
 
Anyone get off on long intense edging sessions that last several weeks or span several sessions or more without cumming?

This thread is for men and women.

Would love to hear your stories of long term edging and orgasm control.
I am actually doing this! Aim is to last a week to begin with.

Mostly I masturbate 4-5 times a week.
 
Yep, love the highs and lows, the peaks and valleys, not rushing it and just allowing the moment to extend, cumming isn't the goal, riding the waves of pleasure is the ultimate.
 
I met up with a young trans girl one time. I was older she was younger. She had only been with a handful of men. In chatting, she had said that they all came in her mouth. I told her I wanted to give her her first facial. She was doubtful at first, but then open to it. What she did not know is that I had been edging myself for eight hours plus the day that I was to meet her and had not come in over a week. I was ready. I got over there And she sucked my dick for a while before I put her on her knees and asked her if she was ready. When I finally unloaded, it covered her whole face and in her hair. Five big squirts in about three smaller ones before I pushed my dick into her mouth. She absolutely loved it. It was such a sight to see. She squealed every time a squirt hit her face.
 
My wife and I both found out that we have Lyme disease. It’s been worse for her, but it has not affected her sex drive!

Today we were just poking around the house, and she said do you wanna have sex?

Of course!

We went back to the bedroom and stripped down. It was not very romantic, but more like a quickie, like the other day. I entered her from behind, and we made love in spoons position, adjusting to her wetness, her adjusting to my thickness. Many slight variations in speed, depth, and an angle. Luckily my wife is very orgasmic and came several times!

I have not cum in several weeks, so I’m quite horny. So I was edging inside of her.

When she was done, she did me a good deed and masturbated me and edged me for a good 20 or 30 minutes and kept me on edge. It was wonderful!

Her arm was tired and I wanted to keep on, so I used some porn and we watched it together while I edged for another good 20 or 30 minutes. Finally, my dick was getting sore and I did not want to ejaculate.

My balls were also quite sore!

She hinted that there’s more fun in store later today and tomorrow! what is her craved mind thinking? I’ll just have to find out!
 
My wife and I had a complete sex day today. It was raining and we couldn’t do any farm work and we just sort of promised that we were gonna have some fun today.

I very occasionally have a problem getting hard, so my doctor prescribed Cialis. What I found is that when I do have a hard time getting hard, it get me there, but when I wanna enhance my erection, it makes the feelings feel unbelievable and enhanced.

She took a nap in mid morning after I was up and I was watching porn and edging, quite close and stay there for about an hour. Came so close to cumming many times.

When she woke up, we made out in the living room for a while. She was all warmed up! I went down on her for about a half hour, there’s something about being between her legs that is quite intoxicating. Then we had sex in a positions: missionary, here on top (reverse and facing me), and then doggy style. For whatever reason, I was not anywhere near ejaculation, we went at it for a long time.

She was spent, but I really enjoy overstimulation sex. She broke out the Hitachi magic wand attachment in masturbated me for about 45 minutes, keeping me on the edge.

Then she let me have it and I did it two or three times for another 40 or 15 minutes.

My dick is pretty sore and I have not cum in almost 2 weeks. She’s going to let me bust a massive facial on her for my birthday next Friday.
 
A few weeks ago, when it was my birthday, my wife asked me what I wanted, so I said “I would like to give you a facial.”

I know she doesn’t love it, but she agreed. All kinds of things happened in the month of June, it was crazy. But of course, I didn’t forget our little agreement. We talked more about it last week and she was up for it as long as I was a good boy, did what I needed to do and didn’t cum.

She also had me edging daily all last week. I was so horny that I couldn’t stop masturbating, so she actually made me wear my chastity device Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday when I wasn’t edging.

I forgot what a mental thing that that does and has over me. Makes me super submissive and SUPER horny.

Sunday morning, I took off my cage, because it was bothering me and giving me a took off my cage, because it was bothering me and giving me an erection all night and pulling up on my balls.

I got up super early and read some dirty stories on lit, then watched some porn and edged for 2 1/2 hours. I didn’t cum.

When we finished our day at the farm and jumped in the pool, we decided it was time. My wife had to do a few things inside, and she told me to read dirty stories and watch porn and masturbate. So I did, watching the filthiest porn I could find and reading the dirtiest stories.

I edged for about an hour and a half, and periodically she would come back outside by the pool and watch me masturbate, talk dirty to me and generally just check on me.

Then it was time. We skipped dinner and instead she got into one of our pool chairs, well, I masturbated all over her face. I should have shot directly into her face instead of from the side, but it’s what we did and I didn’t get the best video.

But it felt great and she loved having my hot jism all over her face!
 
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