Cheated-on husbands who get off on it . . .

[WonderPonder]

My situation is different as it's not really cheating as we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle with our friend and neighbor.
But recently my wife and him have made vacation plans without letting me know until after everything was booked. I found out when I was asking her where we should go away to in May since we didn't get away earlier this year.
They went away together for a week over New Years and now again early next month. But not just one week but two as the deal was extremely good.
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We had an issue over Valentines weekend and now this which caused an argument.
Yet afterwards alone I get very aroused with them going away together again. I get very turned on with the mixed emotions of cuck angst. Not being in control and jealousy fuel my arousal so them plotting this getaway at first made me a bit mad but then it turns to arousal. This is as close to "cheating" I've experienced.

 

[Sgts19]

My situation is different as it's not really cheating as we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle with our friend and neighbor.
But recently my wife and him have made vacation plans without letting me know until after everything was booked. I found out when I was asking her where we should go away to in May since we didn't get away earlier this year.
They went away together for a week over New Years and now again early next month. But not just one week but two as the deal was extremely good.
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
We had an issue over Valentines weekend and now this which caused an argument.
Yet afterwards alone I get very aroused with them going away together again. I get very turned on with the mixed emotions of cuck angst. Not being in control and jealousy fuel my arousal so them plotting this getaway at first made me a bit mad but then it turns to arousal. This is as close to "cheating" I've experienced.

I'd be jerking off several times a day wondering what she was doing

 

[WonderPonder]

I'd be jerking off several times a day wondering what she was doing

I certainly did when they went to the Dominican over New Years. The entire week with no contact wondering how close they were getting fueled my arousal.

 

[BlackLatin]

Lots of conflicting emotions were in play. She was feeling the guilt and had been going to therapy. I could see she was hurting when she told me. I didn’t yell or anything. I was supportive. I was also super horny which scared me. I wanted to fuck her immediately. Fortunately, she wanted me to reclaim her and asked me to fuck her. The reclaim sex was great but it also had a bit of hate fuck in it from me. That still happens today. I start to hate fuck her and her tits start rolling around. It gets me off. I wonder someday if she will say his name while I am hate fucking her. I have long thought she likes the hate fuck most of all. Funny if we are both thinking about the other guy fucking her.

Bro, you know that is exactly what she is thinking about.

 

[screwher]

My situation is different as it's not really cheating as we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle with our friend and neighbor.
But recently my wife and him have made vacation plans without letting me know until after everything was booked. I found out when I was asking her where we should go away to in May since we didn't get away earlier this year.
They went away together for a week over New Years and now again early next month. But not just one week but two as the deal was extremely good.
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
We had an issue over Valentines weekend and now this which caused an argument.
Yet afterwards alone I get very aroused with them going away together again. I get very turned on with the mixed emotions of cuck angst. Not being in control and jealousy fuel my arousal so them plotting this getaway at first made me a bit mad but then it turns to arousal. This is as close to "cheating" I've experienced.

My wife has never gone away on holiday with another man. But honestly, I’ve been thinking lately of us maybe experimenting with the idea this summer. Maybe Mrs. Screwher and a lover go out of town together for a long weekend. Staying in a hotel together with a big double bed. Or maybe she simply spends that time at his place.

 

[peter49parker]

The idea of my wife vacationing with another man, really kicked in, when her B/F suggested that we 'all' go on a cruise. I thought it was nice of him to include me, even though he wants her to spend nights in his cabin.

 

[screwher]

The idea of my wife vacationing with another man, really kicked in, when her B/F suggested that we 'all' go on a cruise. I thought it was nice of him to include me, even though he wants her to spend nights in his cabin.

That sounds like a pretty hot arrangement. I’m thinking my wife and I along with one of her lovers on a cruise. Two cabins side by side. Mrs. Screwher and I spend the days together. Then a nice romantic dinner. Then at the end of the day, she slips off to his cabin.

 

[peter49parker]

That works for me too. I know he suggested the cruise idea to my wife first, and wanted it to be 'just' the two of them, but she insisted that I also be included.

 

[peter49parker]

I’d imagine it would be most likely to happen in a scenario where wife was at least a state away. She would be very nervous to do anything around here where it could come back to her. She does have work conferences semi-regularly

Cheating is not beyond anyone's desires or capabilities. If there is an opportunity, there are people willing to take the chance. Out of state business trips are probably quite high on the list of places to cheat.

 

[saintcero]

Bro, you know that is exactly what she is thinking about.

You are right. My cock may be the one in her pussy but it’s not the one in her head. When her eyes roll back as her climax hits her I know that she is thinking about his seed flooding her cunt.

As a side note, I am a white guy. The guy my wife fools around with is not.

 

[Brittttlvr]

Cheating is not beyond anyone's desires or capabilities. If there is an opportunity, there are people willing to take the chance. Out of state business trips are probably quite high on the list of places to cheat.

100% This is the exact scenario where my wife first cheated, less than 2 years after our wedding day. Out of state on a work trip, three beers in, a few grinding on the dance floor dances to music at a work event then, he leads her off the dance floor by the hand in front of everybody. I might have stayed clueless if a coworker hadn’t called me. Later, she said she did it because of “physical attraction” to the coworker.

 

[WonderPonder]

My wife has never gone away on holiday with another man. But honestly, I’ve been thinking lately of us maybe experimenting with the idea this summer. Maybe Mrs. Screwher and a lover go out of town together for a long weekend. Staying in a hotel together with a big double bed. Or maybe she simply spends that time at his place.

It's intoxicating being home when she's away especially when there is no contact the entire time. Your thoughts are all over the place which drives me crazy.
You should ask her what she thinks of something like spending a night or weekend away with another man.

 

[MamaBitte]

That sounds like a pretty hot arrangement. I’m thinking my wife and I along with one of her lovers on a cruise. Two cabins side by side. Mrs. Screwher and I spend the days together. Then a nice romantic dinner. Then at the end of the day, she slips off to his cabin.

...
Good to know I'm not the only one with this kind of desire ... I only wish my wife had ever granted my greatest wish.

 

[peter49parker]

Yeah. That’s what I’ve always heard. What do you think most contributes to a wife cheating? Physical attraction? Mental connection/spark? Maybe all of the above.

She for sure has some co-workers who I’d imagine she’s attracted to

I'm thinking you have nailed it. There surely has to be some sort of physical attraction for sex, but there may be other factors, between coworkers, for sure. Then add alcohol, and "presto."

 

[peter49parker]

100% This is the exact scenario where my wife first cheated, less than 2 years after our wedding day. Out of state on a work trip, three beers in, a few dances to salsa music at a work event then, he leads her off the dance floor by the hand in front of everybody. I might have stayed clueless if a coworker hadn’t called me. Later, she said she did it because of physical attraction to the coworker and “excitement”.

I had a good intentioned cousin phone me one day to tell me that he was pretty sure my wife was having an affair with a mutual acquaintance. It was in fact true, but I had given her my blessings to have sex with an old BF of hers. I did my best to convince him, it was all made up. I don't think he believed me.

 

[Masis55]

What percentage of wives would cheat in the “right” situation?

Most

 

[MerWilh]

I cheated on my husband a few times, he really likes to hear about it in detail lol I don't seem to mind the extra attention when I get it lol

Its great when all involved enjoy and no one gets hurt.

 

[old_hippy_46]

I have hooked up with several married women over the years at tax seminars in Vegas, including one IRS agent who was there as an instructor

I personally find a woman who seeks sex elsewhere is the most desirable woman. My wife has lovers and it is thrilling being with her after she had sex with another guy. I love the way she reeks of sex and her pussy is so warm, puffy and slippery. I like her this way more than if she hadn't had sex. I love sloppy seconds

 

[Overact1ve1mag1nat1on]

I believe it happens way more than a lot of guys think. Both my ex wife and my current wife have cheated on me. I was pretty clueless that my loving wife would go around and spread her legs for another man (or men.) And at first I was broken up about it. But seriously it turns me on now, the thought of her just going out and slutting around. I don’t know why but it does.

 

[old_hippy_46]

What percentage of wives would cheat in the “right” situation?

I'm guessing that over fifty percent would cheat in the right circumstance. Her mood, a handsome dashing stranger, and away from places that know her. I think being attracted to someone while being married is a common thing.
I am open and vocal about this and I encourage my wife to follow-up with her desires.

 

[BlackLatin]

Another husband happily cuckolded, by his slutty wife. We need to start a club.

Lets!

 

[old_hippy_46]

Lets!

good idea I bet it would have a lot of members

 

[BlackLatin]

good idea I bet it would have a lot of members

Let’s do it guys. I am so ready to talk about it with fellow cuckolds.

 

[Tom_Brown]

I'm guessing that over fifty percent would cheat in the right circumstance. Her mood, a handsome dashing stranger, and away from places that know her. I think being attracted to someone while being married is a common thing.
I am open and vocal about this and I encourage my wife to follow-up with her desires.

That’s not “cheating” then (if you encourage her to).

 

[lc69hunter]

I'm guessing that over fifty percent would cheat in the right circumstance. Her mood, a handsome dashing stranger, and away from places that know her. I think being attracted to someone while being married is a common thing.
I am open and vocal about this and I encourage my wife to follow-up with her desires.

Two recent surveys, one in the US, and one in the UK, put the number at about 42% The UK survey found that 42% of women on holiday had had sex with someone other than their mate